I know it can be hard to motivate your hubby to help with the housework. I cannot give you any advice there, your relationship is unique and I do not know how you both relate to each other. =) But I CAN say that stress eating is very common, and something I still struggle with occasionally. The best thing I have found is to cut back on my reactions to stress. I clean our home on Fridays, when he is at class, and do just the basics on the weekends. I try to walk when I am stressed, and if I come home and am still hungry, reach for my standby, a glass of organic apple cider. I hope you have a good day, and remember we are all here for one reason, to lose weight and support others who are trying so hard !!! Email me if you would like to talk, and just do your best !!!!!!!!