I'm relatively new to Connecticut. I moved here 4 months ago and am having trouble finding a permanent job so seeking out personal relationships is on the back burner for now. However, I recently realized that I haven't had to "make" friends since I was in school. Most if not all of my friends I made in high school or college. I'm beginning to wonder if I remember how. It was easy when we were kids. You go to school, you join a club, and you know instantly every single person in that room has at least one thing in common with you. Not so as adults. Am I alone on this?