Except that you're an inch taller than I; your story could be mine.
I only talk numbers with my doctor; not my co-workers or acquaintances. If asked, I may say how much I've lost; but not my goal.
My doctor, when we last talked, said he wondered if 125 was going to be realistic, but that we would evaluate it along the way.
As I'm fairly muscular, and, now that I've been exercising more, that is becoming more a part of the equation (with weight loss being very slow), he says toning and maintaining may be the goal for a while, as my body adjusts.
Another 11 pounds would take me to the weight I was five years ago (the last recorded weight I could find, before deciding that putting on 50 pounds on such a small height was definitely not a good thing).
I wish you well.
Great that you (and I) have supportive spouses. That makes a whole world of difference - despite the opinions of others. Try not to take their comments to heart - you just don't know where they are emotionally or mentally, and they may just see your accomplishments as a mirror that shows them what they wish they could do, but are not.