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5/8/12 10:14 A

Part of the reason I wanted to lose weight was to date and find my soul mate but I dated less during my weight loss than when I was fat! Ah well! Now I'm fat again so I need to get back on track and do it for ME, not for anyone or anything else.

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5/8/12 10:12 A

I have not given up on dating. I am currently not dating anyone right now though. I have dated while trying to lose weight, it is hard, but it can be done.

I am only in my thirties, I am far from dead

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5/8/12 8:42 A

Been married a long time. Since I was 19. am losing the weight for myself and to feel better. Do it for yourself and the rest will follow.

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5/8/12 4:58 A

Also given up on dating. Being single and in your 30's is bad enough, but being fat, disabled and single in your 30's? Forget it. Time to give up and get a cat. emoticon

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5/8/12 2:16 A

Nope, I'm losing weight for the sake of my own health and self-esteem.

I've given up on dating altogether! I feel that I'm too old to be looking!

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5/8/12 2:04 A

Anybody not currently dating who's trying to lose weight with the end goal of getting married?

Just curious. Myself, I've given up on dating altogether, so I'm focusing on being healthy. But I wondered if anyone out there's doing it for dating or to get married, etc. Or even just to have sex. lol. Personally I've found that celibacy and being fat go hand in hand like an old married couple. lol

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