I hear you there hun,, my hubby thinks that I should do all the work cleaning and raising our boys. I have a 23 year old son who helps me when he can and when his father doesn't bitch at him all the time. \my hubby will come home and sit on his ass and do nothing except watch t.v. To me he is not a man but a 2 year old in a mans body. He thinks that I should do everything for him. But no more I am finally going to take the first step in my life and say do it yourself you lazy pain in the butt.