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STAYCXL-NOMORE Posts: 272
9/6/12 10:34 P

Thanks u all, the support means the world to me right now, as the days go by I feel strong and are coming to terms this may be my fate in life. All prayers for my little ones are welcome, thanks SF :
Stacey

STAYCXL-NOMORE Posts: 272
9/6/12 10:04 P

Thanks u all, the support means the world to me right now, as the days go by I feel strong and are coming to terms this may be my fate in life. All prayers for my little ones are welcome, thanks SF :
Stacey

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9/5/12 4:47 P

Dear Stayc: I am so sorry for what you are going through. I know you must feel like you are carrying a heavy weight in your chest. Please be as gentle with yourself as you would with a best friend or sister who was going through this. Whatever ultimately happens, you and the children need tender loving care now. Do you have a close friend who could help you out for a few days? Friends always welcome the chance to truly be of help. Seeing you care for yourself and being able to ask for help will teach your children a lot about how to respect and care for themselves. While you are trying to insulate the children from the details of the situation it is good to be honest about being sad. You may not be able to focus on anything so lists are helpful at this time, especially with school starting. Include the most basic of selfcare on your lists: meals, drinking water, contacting friends and family. These are the things that get lost easily and will affect your health the most. Please forgive me but I am going to close with a painful suggestion. Consult a lawyer. I understand that you want your marriage to heal; I hope that it does. BUT any and all decisions you make now will affect your future. You do not need to follow the advice of your lawyer but you do need the information that s/he has to offer. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Michelle aka Belekwal

COSMOJEAN Posts: 5
9/5/12 1:39 P

That is so terrible, I can't imagine how you must be feeling. Since the idea of the split seems fresh...maybe he will come around and want to go to counseling with you. I hope it works out for you. Just remember to love yourself and your kids enough to do what is best for the family. You will be in my thoughts.

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9/5/12 9:24 A

I HOPE YOU CAN WORK THINGS OUT AND IF YOU CAN'T WE'RE ALL HERE FOR YOU.

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9/4/12 4:21 P

I am so sorry to hear this. But without vast amount of knowledge of your particular case(which shouldn't really be aired in this public forum), I would be amiss to say much at all here. My prayers go out to you and yours and no matter what happens, continue to love your children and yourself. Sometimes these things just happen and it's due to many outside forces you may or may not have control of. I'm just sorry he is NOT doing his best to fix any problems, but instead has chosen to just run from them. God bless you and yours.

STAYCXL-NOMORE Posts: 272
9/4/12 12:23 P

I have been married for 10 year this past May , last week my husband dropped a bomb on me. He wants a divorce , he is unhappy and doesn't want to be married anymore ! I was in total shock , these last two months have been hard since he worked out of town , all of July and Aug , but me and the kids where so excited Sept the job ended and he was coming home. To find out this , I have a son ( his stepson ) who is 17 , he is just filled with complete anger and my daughter 9 ( his ) is just heart broken as I am :(, we have been together for 15 years and I feel a complete loss without him. I feel completely broken inside and out , it's even harder to keep it together for the kids , we had our issues but nothing I didn't think we couldn't fix and mend, but I think he see's different.... any advice and guidance would be wonderful , I want this marriage to work and is ready to do anything to repair it but he isn't , not open to anything ?? WHY ?? , it's extremely painful to get focused on my health when I have been hit with a MAC TRUCK !! Thanks
Stayc

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