Ok. never been there. I lost my mom in 2011. next month is 2 years since she has been gone. i saw you recently lost yours. i hope you have people close to you who can help you cope. i didn't and it is hard. My mom passed away March 10 2011 and her birthday is May. My mom would be turning 50 this year. if you ever need to talk about moms i find it helps me to talk about my mom so if i can be any help, let me know. im not perfect with it but anything i can do to help ill be there. lots of dang snow here, blah did ya all get snow?