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34 lbs down and the ticker is still movin' woot, woot..thanks Spark People!

This says it all my dear sparklers!

Okay so I'm a little sarcastic...yes...I AM! :-))



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My personal beliefs: 'Your focus is your reality' and~
'The truth shall set you free!'

I live in the land of perpetual sun..Florida..it's great here most days except during hurricane season...then not so much!

I am a jewelry artist and as we all know.. in that field.. presentation is everything. I also love to read and write and have to stop myself from writing a book everytime I communicate!

We lost our only child..a son about 9 years ago very traumatically so I now know for sure that every day we have with our family and our friends is a gift.

My hubby and I try to support and appreciate all of the lesssons that Josh taught us in his 22 short years! He was our epi-center in this universe and we continue to support his many many young friends who we now look at as our own!

Viva Josh! He would be my biggest fan in this weight loss journey.

I have been thinking about presentation and just what that means.. (even in our every day life) quite a bit lately, and I've decided presentation applies to us as individuals also.

It's a sad fact, and I really hate to admit it, but in this superficial world...it is unfortunately true that people do make assumptions about you as a person based on your appearance. Not me...I've always been much more attracted to brain power but I'm probably in a small percentage.

I realize this presentation thing is on target, because now that I have gained a good 60+ lbs over the years people do react differently than they did when I was a petite 115 lbs. back in the day.

Actually I don't care so much about people's reactions as I have a wonderful group of super friends, but what I do care about is my own health and my own reaction to the person I see when I see myself in a full length mirror.

She isn't the same person I see in my mind's eye. In fact I really don't even recognize that portly little image staring back at me with her big brown, somewhat sad eyes.

Sooo, it's time to get motivated and not look at this journey as a diet but as a new way of living life! I'm looking forward to it and know that I will gain many new friends to share my journey with along the way!

I could write you so much more....but I have to show some restraint!

I'm sending you all good wishes and looking forward to sharing the journey with like minded Sparkies...heres to our health and happiness!

Update: November 29, 2009

How lucky I am to have found SparkPeople! I've met the most AMAZING like minded friends that I have ever had the pleasure of knowing!

You ALL have helped me in some way or another in my weight loss journey. Thanks for your hand holding during some of my more difficult blogs...yes grief is a nasty little emotion to deal with! You have helped me process it and have encouraged and supported me to continue on living life as it was intended to be enjoyed.

34 pounds down the crapper...to date...I'm SO joyeous and so thankful..and you can betcha I plan to keep on losing, blogging, and sharing my goals my world, and my dedication to SparkPeople...you ROCK my world! Whoop da!

Borrowed the page of a dear spark friend Sparklingme176

"There comes a time in your life, when you walk away from all the drama and people who create it. You surround yourself with people who make you laugh. Forget the bad, and focus on the good. Love the people who treat you right, pray for the ones who don't. Life is too short to be anything but happy. Falling down is a part of life, getting back up is living."

I love this!

Update: 6/27/15

Another 5% Summer Challenge has started today! A good time for me to start challenging myself to get back on the 'health wagon'...I've lost and gained a good 50 pounds over the 6 years I've been a member of Sparkpeople. One step forward...10 steps backward...BUT the important thing is I REFUSE to give up on myself! I will kick start this challenge by eating RAW which I did very successfully back in 2009. On that program I was literally losing a pound a day...woot..woot!

I've been under bone crushing stress for the past 5 years fighting so hard to hang onto our house against an illegal foreclosure action. I'll never quit fighting for justice against the lying, cheating, robber baron bank and I pray justice prevails!

Stress causes weight gain there is NO denying it. I'll work hard to change the way I react to it through meditation, yoga, pilates and purposeful movement. Let's make this challenge a success my goal is to lose 10 pounds in 8 weeks! It's ON! Thanks so much for your support my sparkling friends it means the world to me!

Member Since: 6/18/2009

Fitness Minutes: 39,606

My Goals:
I want to aim for a naturally healthy way of life.

Choosing food by the health benefits it will give my body rather than just the taste of it.

I'm tired of being suckered in by clever advertising or the convenience factor in just throwing fake food down my throat and still being hungry because it offers no nutrients!

So there, I've said it and made it public and I hope I inspire you to join and help me on my journey!

I need your encouragement especially with exercise...I hate it, but know how important it is to do daily!

My Program:
6-18-09 Joined SparkPeople
Weight loss: 10 lbs.

10-01-09 Start 7 day RAW challenge finished 10-7-09
Weight loss: 8 lbs. WHAT? Yes..8 lbs GONE in 7 days!

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THE BEST LIFE I CAN LIVE!! Yay Sparkpeople!

Weigh In Record:
12-31-15 202 lb. want to consistently lose 1-2 lbs weekly. This IS a test for a stubborn body that likes to hold onto it's fat reserves..but I'll never give up...NEVER!

Personal Information:
I live in sunny south Florida, some may call it the tropics. Have since 1979 so we are official squatters by now. My hubby and I owned a large construction business back in the day and if I do say so myself..were quite successful at it. Problem is...when you have oodles of $ you don't appreciate it, nor do you have the time to enjoy it because you always feel you need more...then you have to live up to the lifestyle and protect it and it goes on and on...it actually can be highly overrated. Now we live a more modest lifestyle and are happier than we have ever been! It's true..love is all you really need!

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I am basically a people person, although being a writer I need lots of alone time, it's just the nature of the beast. I've always been slightly type A..but I'm happy to say that as I've gotten older I find many of the manic things I thought important aren't.. where do you work, what's your title, what kind of car do you drive....actually all of that is just an illusion....it should be who have you been kind to today, what did you do to make someone else feel good,?How did you take yourself out of your own little world to make someone else's better...that's what I'm talking about! I love to read..since we've lost our son, right now I can't get enough knowledge on the afterlife. I've always believed the spirit lives on..have since I was a little girl. Some of my friends look at me with that oh, boy...there she goes again look on their faces...but I don't care, they get to be enlightened with my learnings even so...it's all about karma in the end...we are all connected to each other!

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    I'm doing just great. I'm so blessed!!! Just continuing to enjoy life as I take care of my health... and part of that is keeping down the stress of my s-l-o-w basement renovation. Now I have to fix a problem with the furnace condensation drain. Back comes the plumber. Money pit, this house. Soooo happy you have your buffet!!!!
    6 hours ago
    Thank you so much for commenting on my first blog. It's funny how something like that can simmer for years, and coming across that yellowing diet pamphlet was the catalyst to let it out. Very freeing! I see how my friends have raised their daughters, and it makes me proud that their 30-something girls are comfortable with their bodies no matter what they weigh.

    Anyway, now the blog genie is out of the bottle....
    11 hours ago
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    Hi Bobbi:

    I am getting tired of feeling this pain - that's for sure. I think it will help, seeing the physical therapist tomorrow. Maybe I'm not walking right with the walker, or enough, or sleeping lop-sided. You know that feeling when you've been sitting way too long and you stand up - your legs just don't work right! That's what my leg has been doing all day today - so stiff. It feels like the muscle in back of my knee - my hamstring - that is tensing up so much.

    Tom will be up in a bit to run me through my exercises. I think I might need to start doing some stretching too - my muscles are so tense all over my body. I have increased a couple of them and am doing them mostly on my own now. Progress.

    I feel like all I do is go to the bathroom - but I'm probably not getting enough water. It's mostly the swelling coming down. I am hopeful that this week I can cut back some on the meds. This afternoon I tried relaxation and it helped some.

    It's just a longer process than I expected, but that's how it goes!

    I do believe that Daisy is absorbing some of the pain - and she is a willing participator!
    16 hours ago
    Many years ago I rented a space in a "Collective," and sold my treasure pieces of furniture. I also had to volunteer my time once a month. It was in a small town called Sebastapool, a lovely little dream-like country area on located in the outskirts of the Napa wine country. It was fun, in the beginning but a huge "schlep" filling up the space whenever something sold. I didn't own a truck and my SUV wasn't big enough for some pieces so finding a suitable transportation was a hassle constantly. But I chalk it up as experience and met some neat people along the way. We have some Collectives here in Marin, but I am not at all interested in getting myself involved again.
    I had brunch with my mom, sister Lindie and her hubby David. Nice time. Lindie and David were on their way to Carmel for a few days, another of their MANY MANY vacations they so luckily do. Yes, they have a lovely marriage and do travel all the time. Lucky couple if I do say so myself.
    I remember in college days I drove her to her college her first day, just about 3 hours north of San Francisco. When we got there, she got out of the car and saw this handsome guy across the "quad," shirtless and leisurely walking and she said out loud, "Fredie, you see that guy over there? I am going to marry him." And sure enough, she ended up marrying that guy and they have one of the most strongest and beautiful marriages I have ever witnessed. Great story, and it is true! ;o)
    Tomorrow I go back in the city, grab my mom and drive south to my daughter's home. The three of us will be going girl shopping, Jaimey needs some new clothes and we are taking mom to a small town that is a charm with fantastic boutiques to wander in...
    So that is the plan, man. I get Lucy Lou in the early morning and we will have a nice casual but short walk. She is with me until next Monday full time. I am happy about that. xoxoxoxo
    1 day ago

    Comment edited on: 3/26/2017 10:14:41 PM
    How was our Sunday dear Bobbi? Do anything SPECIAL?????
    1 day ago
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