Timmy, his eyes are not really blue, that's just the reflection of the flash off my blue carpet.
Me, July 2008
MOM2ACAT is a SparkPeople Motivator!
My Story: Updated 7/2/2013
When I first joined Spark in July 2006, at first it was all about weight loss for me. I was diagnosed with stage II breast cancer in the spring of 2003, at the age of 39. I went through a bilateral mastectomy (without reconstruction) and chemo that year, and underwent radiation to the chest wall during the first part of 2004.
At that time, I was frustrated with my weight gain from being on Tamoxifen, and overeating after my appetite came back after recovering from chemo. My pants were getting tight on me, and I refused to just go up to the next size. I was 139 pounds when I started here, and in a little less than a year, reached my goal weight, which I am still maintaining, of staying within 120-125 pounds. I went from a size 14 in jeans down to a junior size 9. I made my changes slowly, a few at a time, starting with watching my portion sizes. I never looked at this journey as a "diet", rather I decided to make healthy living and eating a lifelong habit.
My journey changed again in April of 2007; my cancer returned, and spread to the bone. I have stage IV breast cancer, and there is no cure for it; the goal of treatment is to slow down and stabilize my bone mets. (Bone mets are tumors that are in the bone.) Since April 2007, I am on a monthly treatment called Zometa to strengthen my bones. I have been through 5 more courses of radiation treatments, and I've been on chemo since April 2010. My current chemo is Abraxane, which I started on June 25. I will most likely be on some kind of chemo for the rest of my life.
I also live with GERD and sciatica, and in the early part of December 2010, was diagnosed with gastroparesis.( Caused by the radiation I had to my upper spine,) I have had to change my diet drastically because of that, I'm basically on a low fiber diet right now, and many of my favorite fruits and vegetables I can no longer eat. I also deal with chronic pain from my various health conditions. My goals now with Spark are not to enable me to live longer, or to try to cure my cancer, but to have the best quality of life possible with the time I have left.
I try as much as I can, despite the limitations I have right now, to eat as healthy as a I can, and to stay as fit as I can. I can longer walk for exercise, but I enjoy chair aerobic DVDs, using my stability ball, and working out with weights.
I am single with two very spoiled indoor only cats, Timmy and Kallie, who are my babies. I no longer work outside the home, because of the health problems associated with my cancer, I had to quit working in November 2008.
I hope that by sharing my journey with cancer, I can help someone else going through the same thing, even if it's just knowing that there is someone else out there who understands.
8/2/2014 Update; I had scans done a couple of weeks ago, the cancer is now spreading to my liver, but so far it's still in the treatable stage.
12/22/2014 Update: It's now in my bones, lungs and liver. Starting a new treatment soon that won't be a cure, but hopefully will slow it down.
Update 7/31/2015 Made the decision to stop treatment for the cancer as of 7/15/24, body is just too worn out from the side effects, and it's now in my lungs also. Just doing palliative care now.
UPDATE 9/20/2015 Now under Hospice care.
I also have a blog at Caring Bridge related to the cancer: http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/sharilar
* Work in fitness activities on my good days as often as I can
*Keep maintaining my goal weight
*Eat as healthy as I can within the limitations of my diet for GP
Now that I am maintaining a healthy diet, I am working on improving my fitness. I keep a hand written food diary to keep me on track, and keep track of my exercise and other goals here on Spark.
As of 10/26/2012, I am still undergoing chemo, which I started again in April 2010. I am limited to what I can do fitness-wise because of the cancer and pain issues, but I do the best I can. My favorite workouts now are chair aerobics.
Life is a work in progress, and while we can never be perfect, that doesn't mean we shouldn't strive to make our lives the best they can be.
My name is Shari, I'm from I have 2 indoor cats and worked in retail until November 2008. Because of health issues, I quit work and I am now on SSDI.
I was diagnosed with breast cancer in April of 2003, went through surgery, chemo and radiation. In April of 2007, I was diagnosed with bone mets, I am now living with stage IV breast cancer.
Update as of Jan. 2015: Now the cancer is in my bones, lung and liver. I can no longer have any chemo because my bone marrow is "worn out"; now I am on palliative treatments; the goal now is not a cure, but to give me a good quality of life with the time I have left.
I am an avid reader, and I love writing book reviews! I also love crafts, crocheting, needlework and knitting with Knifty Knitter looms.
I love cats; I have 2, Timmy and Kallie, and I consider them my family. So even though I am single, I am not living alone!
Secrets of Success
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My sweet Shari,
One year has gone by so fast... I haven't been here much because it hurt so much to find that you are gone...today, I got my 5 year survivor status, and wanted to share with you, even though I know you cannot answer me...but I know you are praying for all your friends you left behind.
Love you always, precious friend , never forgotten.
42 days ago
I guess this is a way of visiting you, much like people do when they go to a cemetery!
You are missed...you are thought of...and here's a
44 days ago
As Shari's One Year Anniversary Approaches....
Journal entry by Penny — 10/6/2016
I was just on Caring Bridges site and Shari's friend, Penny wrote this tribute on Shari's page there, I thought you would like to read it here....
Dear Friends of Shari,
As the one year anniversary of our beloved friend approaches I cannot help but to reflect back to the fond bittersweet memories I made with Shari.
There are not enough ways to express what an incredibly extraordinary lady she was and her life left an impact upon my life forever. Don't take life for granted, don't take people for granted, but love each day fully, love unconditionally, forgive without remorse or regret.
I miss her so much, but having her younger sister living and part of my family dulls that pain.
Remember her legacy of modesty, kindness and unwavering humor!
Love to you,
56 days ago
100 days ago
I am so sorry to hear of Shari's passing. She was an inspiration to many.
175 days ago