California is indeed a warm state. I took a trip there in January one year and the first thing I did when I landed was text all my friends back home and gloat about the temperature. Leaving Ohio for Cali in Jan is a glorious thing. lol
Thank you for the advice on my blog. Everything you said is completely right. I just need to refocus and make some small changes. The small changes will help me get to where I want to be. I can do this! WE can do this!