Wanting the best for myself, tended to OVERcommit. And when I didn't come through, the feeling was that of defeat. So, I've been skeptical, don't want to bite off more than I can chew. Lol. Friends like you however IS and has NEVER been a problem. TY 27 days ago
It might come as a surprise or maybe not that a 42 year old woman/mother STILL trying to get a clue. In the past SPECIAL has been a source of strength but also, stress. And it had/has nothing to do with anyone else. 27 days ago
Brenda thanks. It means a lot, I'm not forgotten : ) I don't remember if I explained it to you or not but for the last few months I'very been in this remarkable space of acceptance, self-love, and learning WHO I am. 27 days ago
It's so nice to see you! I'm still living my good-enough life with food, though it's actually even better now. I've recently had some health concerns that have focused me rather interestingly. I'm doing things I would have whined and complained about a few years ago very willingly; it's SUCH an inside job! I don't think I could have done them to lose weight, but I have lost some more. But I don't think a person can will herself to be at any particular place. People ask me what I'm doing: I say it won't make a difference if you don't get a foundation first. You know what my foundation is.