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Monday, November 09, 2009

Ever had a cough so bad you wet your pants?

Well, trust me, they exist.

So all day yesterday, I felt the sore throat building and the chest pressure increase, so while waiting for my hubby to get home from his shooting excursion with his dad, I rested as best as I could. My kids are was sick up in my bed resting, watching tv and sleeping, and the others were napping and hanging around playing Wii. I made it thru dinner and 5:30, hubby walked in the door.

Did he ask me how my weekend was? No, not really. He jumped right into his.

Did I mention to him that I had a crappy one? Yes, when he called at 3pm to tell me they were running late, I kinda mentioned it.

Did I get that hug I wanted? No, not really.

Did he get defensive and say how he really couldn't help me anyway because he was away? Yes.

Did he throw it in my face today about how I gave him attitude that he was going away & I was stuck with the kids? Yes, he did

Did I give attitude? No, I was encouraging

Did I throw that right back at him today? Yes, I did.

Did it shut him up? Yes, it did.

We rarely fight...and yes, has he gone away before and have I given him attitude? hell yeah...but I made a point this time around NOT TO. A conscious effort on my part completely. As our relationship grows on, I realize that we are two people who need to be individuals as well as a couple. I can have friends and go out, and so can he. We are together all the time, best friends, but really, without new experiences, what are we going to talk about if we don't live life to the fullest? I have openly encouraged him to spread his wings and hang with the guys, because #1 all our best friends are far away and #2 he his so like his hermit-like mother it is scary...and he knows it.

Anyway...I was down for the count today and now Mucinex is my best friend (hahahaha). A gilrlfriend of mine just got a piano and we made a barter deal for me to teach her kids to play...and I KNEW I had my old notes from my lessons 30 years ago and I went on an escapade to find them....DUMB MOVE.

Under our upstair eaves, there is a closet that is really deep and has tons of room and there was a box from the past. I took that box and sort of cleaned up some stuff. Didn't find that steno pad, BUT I did happen to pulled something in my lower back. I couldn't stand up pelvis right now doesn't want to tilt forward.

This stinks so bad. I haven't had back pain in 20 years...and before it was from being too heavy! I'm walking like an 80 year old that needs both her hips replaced! Aaargh!!! Add the stupid cough that makes me wet myself and I'm a pretty frickin' picture, I tell ya! Where are my Depends? See? Now I'm senile too! Hey..if I don't laugh, I'm gonna cry.

So I'm taking this as a sign from God. Rest, woman...just rest.

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HEALTH4LYFE 11/9/2009 9:10PM

    Sounds like you had a $h$ty day and are feeling pretty $h$ty as well. Sorry to hear it. You need to take care of yourself. Rest, mucinex, fluids, and more rest for you! Hopefully with the kids back in school, you will be able to get that much needed rest. emoticon

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BIKERDIANE 11/9/2009 7:55PM

    better luck tomorrow!

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OAKBORN 11/9/2009 6:58PM

    Oooohhh honey, between your physical health and my mental health... we make quite a pair... do n't we?

Sorry you have had a bad day. Take it easy on your back.

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DUTCHONEY 11/9/2009 6:57PM

  Keep up the sense of humor, you made me laugh. I've been married 40 years, and some of the things you said came right off the pages in my marriage. Laughter is a wonderful thing. Good luck.

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One of those days.

Saturday, November 07, 2009

It's not really a "b" blog...well...maybe, I'm not _itchy, I'm bummed.

Hubby's away for the weekend to go shooting in some remote part of upstate NY with his dad...he needs to do stuff like that more often, so I am totally cool with that. I planned to have a Mom's night IN with some 9pm when the kids are upstairs in bed. So many of us are in desperate need of a vent session, so this was the perfect opportunity.

Well....until yesterday at 3pm...the elementary school called to tell me to pick up my middle guy...101 fever and a sore throat. CRAP! bad omen right there. The fever goes away with ibuprofen every time, so I figured a good nights sleep was in order.

Good night's sleep, woke up sort of fine...we all went to the office (I work in my dad's home office - easy to bring the kids in a pinch)....then we went to the store...he had a PITA fit about something - should have been a sign. We got home..he went upstairs and when I went upstairs, I found him passed out in my bed, fast asleep.

In the meantime, an idiot parent who couldn't sell her popcorn (she didn't even try) called and told me on my machine that the "Show & Sell" time was not good for her. This thing is FOR HER and her now I have to move the time earlier. Thank god that it was after 5 phonecalls and 6 emails later, I still have idiot parents calling me asking me questions I have no idea to answer....thus making me the idiot. Well, this idiot (me)sent out some more email (which the others could have done as well) in hopes of finding some answer to their idiot questions...but I digress...

2 hours later, Goldilocks wakes up - HOT...101 again. CRAP! Now, I don't feel comfortable bringing everyone in, even tho the kids will be upstairs..the germies are still here and everyone has little babies. So I canceled. We are all bummed...big time emoticon

So my plans of getting tipsy with the girls is out...the kids had Happy Meals, and I'm having some hot wings I was planning on eating later tonight. I guess it's better than a McDonald's whatever and the heavy cals found there. Maybe it's a blessing in disguise.

I ordered a Nonfat sugarfree Mccafe latte - 2 thumbs up here - and that perked my spirits up a bit. My wings will be yummy, and now I am going to put on my pjs, and later I will break out my favorite period piece movies (Pride & Prejudice and Jane Eyre) and have a solo night in.

Tomorrow is a new day...with a Cub Scout popcorn sale at the local grocery store from 10 to 12...and my brother and father will be taking my eldest to mandatory mass for reconciliation at our church & then dropping him off at the grocery store where I will be with the 2 sick one in tow. joy. emoticon

When my husband gets home in time for the Giant game...I'm leaving the house and going for a much deserved outdoor walk. I heard the weather is going to be lovely tomorrow....I'd better take advantage while I can.

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OAKBORN 11/8/2009 8:53AM

    I'm so sorry you had one of THOSE days! Big emoticon from Missouri!

Hope you at least got your Pride & Prejudice evening! I have the PERFECT tea to accompany it... we will have to share sometime!

The idiot questions people sound like the H1N1 calls I have to deal with on a daily basis, sometimes dozens per day... most of which could be answered by the automated message "I" set up...

Sounds like the flu may be visiting your house, so take it easy! Plenty of rest and fluids! "Try not to get worried, try not to turn on to problems that upset you... oh... don't you now everything's alright yeah, everything's fine..."

Hugs girl! You got us!

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HAWT_CHICK 11/7/2009 7:16PM

    Pride and Prejudice is one of my guilty pleasure movies emoticon too.

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HAWT_CHICK 11/7/2009 7:16PM

    awww hun that's no good that your night got canceled. But I suppose with all these nasties out there you don't want anyone to get sick. 3 out of the 5 nieces and nephews of mine that live close have some form of cold or flu so I can't go and spend much time with them emoticon

But enjoy your movies emoticon Pride and Prejudice is one of my guilty pleasure movies emoticon too

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My horoscope told me to...

Thursday, October 29, 2009

I read my MSN horoscope every morning...religiously with my first cup of java. That is where you will find me. So today it said, "Go for a jog or a walk" How funny is that? I wasn't planning on doing that today, I was all pretty and spiffy this morning in a new turquoise sweater and my make-up was perfect! My plan was to do it tomorrow...but I figured...maybe it's in the stars...

So we got out early for lunch. Plenty of time for me to run home and just do it. So I did. 1.75 miles at a steady run. BOY THAT WAS HAAAAAAARD! Last week, I ran on Tues and Fri and was just fine. This week was Tues and less day of rest. Holy COW what a difference! I did it though...and learned that I'm going to redo my 1.75 mile again until it's a little easier that what I did today. I'm proud of myself for doing it through to the finish too, even though I had a stitch in my upper abs and my left foot fell asleep! LOL I was a hot mess I tell ya! I'm picturing Quazi Moto (sp.??) with that description!!! hahahahaha

So now i'm off to work again...and my makeup stayed put btw .....well, that's a plug for Bare Minerals! LOL add a little body spray & powder & I'm out the door! I'll shower up tonight.

I'm going to just add this....I broke the 140 barrier today too. The scale said 139.5!! That means that I am 4 pounds away from "HEALTHY" BMI weight and 3 pounds away from losing a grand total of 50 pounds on Sparkpeople!!! HOLY MOLEY!!! Thus the reason for my new sweater and perfect makeup today! Teeheehee - I'm all giddy!!! emoticon

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IAMLION 10/31/2009 3:41PM

    emoticon you are doing awesome!!! I'm so proud of you too! You have been working so hard and it is really paying off!! Enjoy your success emoticon Ya look marvelous!!

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HEALTH4LYFE 10/30/2009 9:05PM

    emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

Cheers to you: on the run, on the weight loss and on the make up looking pretty good after your run. You are going to reach that goal and very soon. Your body is responding to the changes in your exercise routine. Keep it up and that 50 lb icon will be yours because you've earned it!

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SUCHAHOOT 10/29/2009 1:51PM

    Great job listening to the stars! On your lunch hour, no less.
I've been following your blog for quite sometime...since back when you turned yourself right-side-up for a minute! Anyway, I'm just trying to touch base with the folks whom I've been peeping in on. I'm pretty sure I found you through Oakborn. I cannot remember which team or where I started following her. Anyway, just to say hello & you inspire! congrats on your weight loss & getting so fit!

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OAKBORN 10/29/2009 1:39PM

    Girl you are amazing! Just keep up the great work!

cheering for you from Missouri!

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Becoming a...dare I even say it? athlete?

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

Hahahaha...well, I can try!

After last night's craziness, I had to run today. It was NOT an option NOT TO because I am going into work late today and I needed to destress. Anyway...I am now destressed and decompressed.

On my little tread, I started counting how far I have personally come in this's my summary:

Starting line (2/9/08)......................Finish line (to date)

187 lbs..........................140 lbs
size 16/18........................size 6 or 8
running - hahahaha (yeah right).........1.5 miles - just started running - yay!
like to workout - nope..............look forward to working out
water? do I have to?..........where's my water bottle? I NEEED my water bottle!!
flexible? nope.....................very bendy
back back hurting/nice core strength
BMI - obese (have to look up that number)..........BMI - 1 point away from "Normal"
Emotional eater..............not anymore...I think before I eat most of the time
live to to live
favorite body part - my eyes.........favorite body part - my clavicle/shoulder area b/c I can see them now

I never though I would ever say that I was becoming an athletic person. I was never in that category EVER in my entire life...but now I am embracing the idea. With that glimmer...running that extra quarter mile today to make my goal was easier for some reason, and trust me, I physically thought I wasn't going to make it when I first started out today - my right foot felt worked itself out; then my left heel felt worked itself out. My next goal of 1.75 miles in a few days I am honestly looking forward to doing.

So with that....I am going to Modell's today and I am going to by some running shoes. The pair on my feet now are 2 years old, worn out and cross trainers that should have been thrown out a year ago. It's time for a treat...for me. Happy Halloween to me...this year, I'm dressing up athlete.

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MKPQ51 11/1/2009 7:57PM

    Hey, Spark Daughter,

So glad you're going to buy some new shoes; you've earned them! Besides, from what I've been reading in the articles, we should be purchasing new running shoes every six months or so. I'm sure that depends on how much we use them; but, with your track record, you're due a new pair.

Your Spark Mom,

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OAKBORN 10/27/2009 1:38PM

    You go girl!!

Interesting transformation, isn't it?

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HEALTH4LYFE 10/27/2009 11:04AM

    Shoes are SO important when you are exercising, but especially when you are running. I am glad you are going to treat yourself. Great blog, by the way. Looking at where you were and where you are now. Something for me to aspire to when I reach "maintenance" (ooh, now I have it in print). Anyway, you are a motivator for me. I hope I will be able to reach my goal and inspire others to reach theirs through a balanced and healthy lifestyle. Take care and keep me posted on your running progress.
-Maureen emoticon

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Two Satans for the price of one! yay

Monday, October 26, 2009

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Ahhh....the Den meeting is over...and I need to decompress emoticon

It started out regulars showed up...the normal new kid showed up...and then emoticon #1 walked in the door. I knew it was him immediately...accomplanied by his lackluster mother, who honestly looked like a woman wanting another life somewhere...anywhere. By the way, if you happened to read my previous blog, he is the good son, as opposed to his brother who is the true and real Bealzebub in the new Bear den...but this one has tendencies nonetheless. Let's just call him one that likes to "rile things up" a bit. yay (feeeeel my sarcasm this point it is dripping from the ceiling).

All was going OK, even though he sat next to the kid I didn't want him to sit next that can easily be riled up. yay My first mistake of the evening was giving the boys permanent markers to color in their eggcarton spider bodies. Their hands were covered. Oh well, sorry 'bout that parents...if another parent wants to take over, be my guest...this is like a third job that pays you in rocks. During this time...I am seeing emoticon#2 come out.

Satan #2 is another new kid...another attention seeker...a loud shouter outer...the other boys in the group are happy to see him when he strolls in late. When they finally get working, half the table is quiet and working, the other half is getting riled up. What is sad and ironic is that our usual riler-upper was out sick tonight. husband the teacher, shoots me a look across the room and our brains match....our perfect imperfect old den we were used to is g-o-n-e GONE! We have been transported to volunteer hell. emoticon emoticon emoticon

So the meeting goes parent helper helps out just fine. The other new parents invited to stay do absolutely nothing.... great. WHen pickup time comes, I can't wait for the 12 boys to LEAVE my house as fast as possible.

But wait...does this happen?

NoooOOOOOoooooo! An irate old-den parent comes in with 2 of the 4 boxes of popcorn that she is returning because she is pissed that she HAS TO SELL THEM. Guess what honey....we all do. The 4 boxes go for $15 a piece (15 sleeves of popcorn per box) and that is $60. This is the ONE big fundraiser we do a YEAR for the entire pack. Most parents just buy the boxes and sell then at their leisure. Others eat them (like my family). Others just toss them or donate them to food pantries after they pay for them. It's part of the BSA thing. Deal with it. You want to CRY? I WILL CRY and tell you that one kid dropped and I am selling the 4 other boxes with my OWN!! IF I pay out of pocket that is $120...looks like I'm paying $75 this SHUT UP!!! and DEAL!!!

She was so livid and angry about having the popcorn sale be mandatory, she was crazy. Nice huh? Right in front of new parents. She is threatening to take he son out if it comes down that it is mandatory. Part of me is emoticon and the other part is emoticon I I like the kid & his family, I don't think I would want them to leave. But on the other hand...I have 13 boys in this den now...too many for my liking, escpecially with half of them being riler-uppers.

Anyway, she eventually calmed down and took the boxes back...thank GOD our assistant Cubmaster is also one of my parents picking up their kid. She talked her down nicely. I just didn't need that to happen tonight. Not the time NOR the place for that. Honestly, I think she was pissed at me & hubby because we didn't do a big "Show and Sell" at the supermarket. #1 - I don't have the time on a Saturday morning to do that. #2 - the only people showing up would have been me and her and another kid, because not everyone in the den LIVES for scouting...God knows I don't. What is really sad, is that this family is LOADED and the people who aren't are happy to pay their part and move on. Maybe I just don't get people. Whatever.

My son...the Scout...I noticed him sitting there kind of quiet tonight. I don't know if it was the forum, or the new kids, or the chaos...but I think something is turning in his brain. He is supersmart...doesn't really like the goofing around; actually WANTS to become a boyscout, but I don't know...he might be thinking that all the goofyballs in it might not be all that worth it. I can say this because he honestly thinks like that. He's a rare kind of kid. We'll see how this goes. If he's quiet and not his usual self in the next few meetings, I'm just going to ask him whats up. Maybe it was just the newness of the chaos this time...he was feeling them out.

So that was my night. joy. I'd go have a beer, but what would that do....but I would rather not be bloated or groggy in the morning. I'd go eat the rest of the donuts the mom left behind...but that is not good to do either. So to decompress, here I am, typing and giving you all the update you asked for.

Ho-hum. emoticon


Gotta love feeling trapped like this.

But as my favorite author, Jane Austen, puts so eloquently through the mouth of Mr. Bennett in Pride & Prejudice: "This too shall pass, with little or no consequence to me."

As the CubScout Motto goes, I will "DO MY BEST" with what I am given...and just keep my expectations extremely low in regard to this particular part of my life at the moment. I have bigger and better fish to fry...and it's not in the Cub Scout world.

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OAKBORN 10/26/2009 10:39PM

    Sorry you had such a rough night sweetie!


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GRALLEN 10/26/2009 10:10PM

    I'm so sorry. I don't have kids so unfortunately can't relate. It's a shame parents sign their kids up for activities like these and then don't want to help or participate.

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