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Bloggity blog #3 - laugh

Monday, January 16, 2012

You GOTTA have a sense of humor...I find that if I don't laugh and smile for a while, I start getting mopey and down. That's when I search out "Who's Line is it Anyway?" on tv or youtube and I get my laugh on once again.


Being in a happier state always helps with other things in life...even when the going gets rough. I can tell you right now that I'm the one in the funeral parlor at a wake remembering the person as they were at their most happy and alive instead of how the person left the world...AND I LAUGH and make jokes too (discreetly of course) because a) it's a nervous habit and b) that little bit of stupidity/hilarity is a break from hell that people go through. I know some people might find this crass, but it really does work and help out others...I've been to waaaay too many wakes, trust me...I know.

Anyway....healthy habit #3 - LAUGH!! at yourself..at silly things...at inane things...make others laugh by doing a silly dance - they might start dancing silly with you!!

  
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KIM--POSSIBLE 1/18/2012 5:41PM

    Especially at times like now, when I really don't feel like it, I need to find things that make me smile and laugh!! Thanks for the reminder!

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SUZYWM 1/18/2012 11:24AM

    Thanks for the reminder Annie - I love reading the Stephanie Plum series by Janet Evanovich - slapstick humor and funeral home giggles thrown in on occasion for effect!

Sometimes you just gotta laugh!
xxoo

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BEATLETOT 1/17/2012 10:09PM

    I LOVE Whose Line!!! It's so great! Just thinking about it makes me smile....so thanks for posting it!

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DONNACFIT 1/17/2012 10:09PM

    Love your blog!! I love to laugh too..laughter is like jogging on the inside!! I laugh at myself..I'll never cease to be amused!!

Your wake story reminded me of singing in the choir at a funeral for a neighbor whose name was Art..the closing hynm was "How great thou art" and I whispered to the other women..wondering if he picked the song him self and we all got the giggles..not good timing :)

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THISISIT-PA 1/16/2012 4:54PM

    Great blog with an excellent reminder! My extended family cruises together and we have a habit of singing "You light up my life" every time we get on an elevator. It makes most people smile and some even sing along!

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RAINBOWCHOC 1/16/2012 2:22PM

    thank you for blogging

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KAYTIE22 1/16/2012 1:50PM

    This is a good blog and a great reminder. A lot of the problems in the world might be solved if everyone learned to lighten up.

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LINDABENEDICT 1/16/2012 1:43PM

    Ohhh...love this !!!! emoticon

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HS1056 1/16/2012 12:51PM

  What fun! I love this blog! One of my fondest memories of my childhood was when my brother and I would get the giggles and we couldn't stop. Our grandmother had very little patience with us and that just made us laugh even harder. During tough times later in life one of us would say something that would trigger the giggles and it just helped make it better. Laugh on!

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STILLOUT2LUNCH 1/16/2012 11:23AM

    I love to laugh, but when I'm alone I find myself staying quiet. I need to laugh out loud when in company or not. Thanks for the tip.

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JSPEED4 1/16/2012 11:10AM

    A few silly dances help me along!

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HELLODANAE 1/16/2012 11:08AM

    like I always say "laughing is my favorite thing to do" emoticon

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MONAKIN314 1/16/2012 10:25AM

    I believe that laughter is the best medicine, too. Especially laughing at yourself. emoticon

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Deep thoughts with Jack Handy, um..wait make that LI Annie

Sunday, January 15, 2012

Today looking in the mirror, I will stare into my eyes and say that I love myself (despite the pizza dough skin on my stomach because really no matter how many situps I do, only a surgery will get rid of it for good).....that I am worthy of being cared for (because if I don't care for myself first, it's harder to care for others i love)...that I have an inner Spark that cannot be extinguished....and darn it...people like me.

Deep thoughts....with LI Annie (totally taken tongue in cheek and adapted from the Saturday Night Live skit of Jack Handy - it's pretty funny stuff so I suggest a google search after you read this)

Have a nice day everyone!!
Blog #2 DONE!
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Don't forget to smile today!
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KIM--POSSIBLE 1/18/2012 5:38PM

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Haven't watched that in years!!

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DONNACFIT 1/17/2012 10:12PM

    You're right..I just met you and I like you (especially love your upside down pic) I smile everytime I see it!! emoticon

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BEATLETOT 1/17/2012 8:11PM

    You are wonderful! And it's great that you know it!!!

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MOMFAN 1/16/2012 4:17AM

    Positive self talk it so important and much better than beating ourselves up with our short comings! Go Girl! You Are Amazing!

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COLLINSCJ2009 1/15/2012 6:20PM

    You have to love yourself. Your picture makes me dizzy.

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TEXASTITCHER 1/15/2012 5:32PM

    When you are exercising and you smile, you are doing the advanced version of the exercise (from my yoga teacher)

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KSANDIEGO 1/15/2012 5:29PM

    keep up the good work from "upside down" :-)
It helps us all smile and that's what its all about anyway - right?

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STILLOUT2LUNCH 1/15/2012 5:19PM

    Keep talking those positive thoughts to yourself. They really do help. Keep up the good work.

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REBECCATKD 1/15/2012 4:06PM

    Annie, you need to love yourself AND, if there is truly no solution for it, embrace that "pizza dough." You're fit, trim, in great shape, a mother of three, and a woman who has lost a ton of weight in the past few years. That little bit of dough? Honey, that ain't nothin'!
You're gorgeous! emoticon

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HELLODANAE 1/15/2012 10:25AM

    yes, let's smile is my favorite thing to do emoticon

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DWEXCEL 1/15/2012 9:30AM

    Good for you, Girl! And you're right....people do like you! You are awesome,and such a good inspiration.

Love you!
Donna

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Help! I'm being forced to blog against my will !!!! (j/k)

Saturday, January 14, 2012

Juuuust kidding....but seriously, while I don't blog EVERYday, I kinda have to for the next 7 days to get points on a 5% challenge - - so this might not be as ponderous as others I have done....

Good god, I forgot if I was supposed to talk about something in this blog or not! Ooops, so much for my post-reading skills! Something in my subconscious is telling me to talk about a healthy habit...

OK - healthy habit: I don't eat after 7pm if I can possibly help it.

Why?? I think Oprah said that was one of her rules and it made sense to me, so for years I have kinda stuck to that little rule of thumb.

Which means...I really don't like events that make me eat at 9 or 10 pm at night....really, so silly if you think about it - give me a nice cocktail hour at 6pm and I'm good to go...9pm is cake & coffee time. Not like I'm going to these events all the time...at all...but when they happen it kinda irks me. I'm that person who eats normally no matter what, especially on the day of a wedding because I don't want to be starving and grumpy....and yes, I have brought cereal bars to weddings and scarfed them down in the car when my stomach is on the verge of eating itself.

But I digress.....

As for healthy habits that are on the more "new" side (as in established in the last year) - umm...I like to make smoothies now because I get a few fruits in along with my yogurt...and the kids like them too, so i make a huge one and we are all healthy together!!!

Okey dokey.....see ya tomorrow!

  
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LILBITWANNABE 1/15/2012 12:22PM

    Thats a great healthy habit! One of my biggest challenges is not late night snacking.

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BEATLETOT 1/15/2012 10:00AM

    I'm writing my assigned blog when I get home. I like your healthy habits. I eat late a lot, and its something I should definitely work on because nighttimeeating is usually mindless eating!

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HELLODANAE 1/14/2012 9:33PM

    I think this is a good topic emoticon
thanks for sharing and I loooooooooooooooooooove your pic emoticon

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LINDABENEDICT 1/14/2012 9:20PM

    I share your blog issue ....and I want those points too, so I will get busy !

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DONNACFIT 1/14/2012 8:13PM

    Thanks for blogging and for dropping by my yesterday's blog and for your comments :)

When I'm back on track and I need to not snack in evenings I like to make a pot of tea and enjoy that instead..it's calorie free.

Smoothies are great..last summer I had my granddaughters here for camp grammy and we made smoothies every morning yum yum!!

Go starfish emoticon

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OAKBORN 1/14/2012 7:51PM

    I know you had a "forcible" blogging incident, but you write with clarity and insight as usual.

The evening snack bug is my biggest downfall. I can work out... but I will still snack whether I'm hungry or not.




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REBECCATKD 1/14/2012 5:16PM

    I'm still working on not eating after 8:30. It's so dumb, too, because I'm never really hungry. I just picked up the habit somewhow. Must break it!

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JUSTLYLE 1/14/2012 5:00PM

    Now Annie that wasn't so bad now was it. Made for great reading.
Congratulations on a wonderful "lifestyle" change.

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KIM--POSSIBLE 1/14/2012 4:13PM

    Events that revolve around food really bother me, regardless of what time they are, but particularly at non-meal times. It seems that everyone eats simply because it is expected, then complains that they have gained weight, comments to those who aren't overweight that they must be able to eat anything, etc. More than once, I have had people make me feel bad for not eating at these events.

I recently set a rule for myself not to eat and snacks after 7:30. Because I have kids and they play sports, there are nights that we don't get dinner until then. I figure, as long as I am eating a meal and not mindlessly snacking, it is ok! But if I have had dinner, I don't need to snack that late or I will overeat.

Good luck with the blogs this week!

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Smoldering

Friday, January 13, 2012

I've been tending to the fire a lot lately.....no, this is not a figurative thing....it is a literal thing! We are heating our house this winter with a new fireplace insert....and so far, I have stacked 5 cords of firewood, brought at least 2 cords into the house myself, and have re-lit the fire more times than I can count...and I'm good at it 95% of the time! The things we learn in life! LoL

Anyway, we've finally hit the less-seasoned wood and now we have a lot of hard to light and smoldering pieces of wood. You have NO idea how frustrating it is!!!

But then again.....maybe you do.....

In my various states of pondering while staring at the fire, I have seen many a log smolder and smoke until it just kinda burns internally, gets weaker and weaker, and ultimately turns to ash - sure it gives off heat, but it certainly isn't that pretty to look are or interact with when I open the fireplace door to try to stoke it into a flame....all it does is smoke and sizzle at me & stink up my house!

Logs like this need oxygen...some air to breath in order to get a pretty flame...a flame that will catch other pieces of wood and continue on to not only make heat, but to make a real great show for everyone to watch....even the coals glow and radiate heat & beauty when the flames die down.

It's amazing when I get the smoldering log to finally catch fire...WHOOOSH! it goes right up with just a crack in the door...but sometimes I have to really put effort into it and break out the hairdryer and really get a flow of air in there, and even then, a stubborn smoldering log can take time to catch fire.....very frustrating. emoticon

I'd say that most of the time, I can get the smoldering log to light with a bit of oxygen and some poking and prodding... all it takes is a little effort, of knowing what to do, and then just doing it.

It's a dirty business too..the stink, the flying dry ash...especially when I have to clean out the ash pile. It could be 2 days of resting and still.....I will dig into the fluffy ash with my shovel and find it warm and at the very bottom....there they are, the few tiny pieces of coal still burning red when the air hits them, ready and waiting to bring forth a new flame to a log.

Hmmm......am I being literal or figurative now....

You decide.

  
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MOMFAN 1/14/2012 2:11PM

    I know how hard! Great analogy, especially as I forget to breath, literally when I am focused.

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BECCIE0524 1/14/2012 7:45AM

    Loved it too!

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RAINBOWCHOC 1/13/2012 9:02PM

    is bringing in wood a new healthy habit? we don't have a fireplace so I'm snookered!

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BEATLETOT 1/13/2012 11:02AM

    Love your metaphor! =) Have a great weekend!

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My non-scale dress test

Friday, January 06, 2012

So it's been a few days of tracking once again...encouraging those I know on how to get back in the saddle of post-holiday eating better too...and it's tough, trust me, I know....I'm doing it myself!

All during the month of December, it was a rough one for me....basically, I signed up for a 5% winter challenge to work on exercise consistency and then...I got busy, then the kids got sick, then I got sick and then WHAM! the holidays were here and while I was better, I was still busy getting ready for the holiday week....and eating was a challenge in and of itself! forget about getting in my exercise!

One thing I know for a fact is that I am a cyclical exerciser and I also get back to it eventually,...and that I cannot force myself into it. I have tried and all that comes out of it is resentment...for what I do not know, but that is the feeling that goes with it. Not fun to feel like that....sooooo instead I watch my diet...and that works for me. (FYI - This is all because I have learned a lot about myself in the last 4 years of being on Spark consistently. Amazing what you learn when you document things!)

So back to the dress: In the basement were my jeans....my smallest pair...hanging there waiting. The last week of December, like I said was rough....Oh, and I forgot to tell you, it got my "little friend" too....so add that bloat onto whatever I was eating that made me feel "meh" and then I noticed that hubby put all of my larger jeans in the drier and they all shrunk, so add a mental blow to the "meh" and smaller larger pants that used to be semi-loose on you! LoL Yeah me = hot mental mess!

I took down my hanging jeans and they fit....thank heavens right? Today, I looked at the blue bridesmaid dress from last May, that one I was gauging my body against in October....which I then used as a goal to fit into again and did eventually in November...(oh, there are blogs about it somewhere! LoL) well, long story short, I tried the dress on today and it fit just fine! Another Whew! on my part. I love head-games....they are so relaxing right?

I guess the moral of the story: don't put your jeans in the dryer and don't let shrunken clothes play headgames with you! emoticon

Oh...June 2nd is another 5K. I'm signing up for it as soon as it gets posted. Tonight I'm having a few local girlfriends over for dessert (lowfat) and drinks (wine) and I am going to ask them to do it with me! It's been an idea to do this for a while...to get things moving locally as a little mini-cheerleader for healthy moms! I hope I get a few supporters and joiners!
Wish me luck!

  
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DWEXCEL 1/10/2012 8:03AM

    I just love your stories......they are so REAL! We can all relate.....and you have such a way of telling them to us!

Yay for you! That does make you feel good when your goal items still fit!

You Rock!

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SUZYWM 1/8/2012 12:03AM

    Oh Annie - I love that you're doing well jeans-wise, even if you've felt off! And as always, thank you thank you thank you - for sharing the real, true story of how this works in the real world!

Love your idea about sharing the 5k with your gal pals! Hope they hop on board, what fun to have that camraderie!

Happy New Year! xxoo

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YAMINOKODOMO 1/7/2012 10:31AM

    Hope you guys had a wonderful girls night! I hope they are doing the 5k with you! Its great having partners for something like that!

I hear ya on EVERYTHING. For me it was november AND december. During the holidays there is so much food being made its ridiculous! And of course you cant put that good food to waste... lol! So now I have to lose the holiday weight! I am glad the jeans and dress still fit you! Yea those head games are no fair.. lol!

This week is the first time that I have been trying to get back into eating healthier and measuring out my food and you right! Its hard lol but gotta do it! And I HAVE to force myself to workout because I have a cruise coming up in february and I wanna look nice! lol

We got this! Holiday weight be gone!

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OAKBORN 1/6/2012 8:55PM

    I had a crazy December too! I so understand... and I think you can file it under the old John Lennon quote, "Life is what happens to you while you are busy making other plans"!!

So yay for you!

I have a couple of pairs of jeans that I love but that are always tight and muffin-toppish right out of the dryer, but once they are stretched out, they are perfect!!

As you usual, you give me a grandly huge smile!

How's that Army water bottle working out for you?

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ASUPERCOOLCHICK 1/6/2012 2:10PM

    Good Luck on the 5K and you are spot on with the head games, dontcha just love the way our minds work?

Hope you had a great Christmas and New Years!

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TASOGAREBAN 1/6/2012 11:27AM

    I've been of the same mind. I think I gained like five pounds during the holidays and that's only because I've slowed down with my exercise, didn't stop. Had I stopped, it would have been a complete mess and I would have gained like 10 to 15 pounds. That's how bad my diet and my drinking were during the holidays. I always get like this. So now I'm currently in full workout mode (although I need to work my way up to a full 30 to 45 minutes because I've been copping out early) because there's a cruise coming up. And all my jeans are playing mental games with me, lol!

Good luck with the 5k!

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BEATLETOT 1/6/2012 10:03AM

    You are doing a GREAT JOB on the 5% Challenge! The holidays are always a mess! And you'll do great with the 5K!

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