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What a wacky week!

Thursday, March 29, 2012


It's ALL or NOTHIN' in this house!!

I can go DAYS with absolutely nothing pressing on the agenda and then WHAM! SMACK! emoticon emoticon 3 days of when-is-the-train-going-to-stop!!! least I got my cardio in when I had the chance! THAT is how busy we have been here!

Again...on the upside: I got the new Shinedown album...and it ROCKS!!!! Talk about a good workout album! If you haven't check this band out - and love Nickleback and Daughtry - then do will not regret it....I can't wait to get walking-wogging-running again!! (which will porbably be Friday afternoon! LoL)'

Hmmm....what else.....let's see.....I haven't been around to anyone's pages in a few days either....sorry emoticon Chellenge team!! emoticon I hope everyone is rocking those trackers!!!! emoticon

Whoa.....the train is starting to pull away from the station (ie. the kids just woke up) and I have to get my head screwed on straight! (which means MORE COFFEE! STAT!)

I hope everyone has a great day today!

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LINTPICKER 3/29/2012 7:16PM

    You can do it!

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FULLOFFAITH 3/29/2012 4:24PM

    Go Annie Go!!!



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OAKBORN 3/29/2012 9:20AM

    Sounds like you ended up with a week like mine... just crazy.

Hope it slows down for you soon! We all need a little respite!

Hang in there baby, Friday's coming!

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NUOVAELLE 3/29/2012 7:54AM

    I just recently discovered Nickelback and I absolutely loved them! So, I'll go check your other recommendations right away!
I hope you find some time for yourself soon.
Take care!

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DINGALLSTOO 3/29/2012 7:34AM

    don't forget to take some time for you, thanks for the music recommendation

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Nutrition vs. exercise

Friday, March 23, 2012

I'm feeling compelled to write about this because I feel like it is always brushed people's lives and even here on Spark.

People focus on exercise as the be all and end all of losing weight....and the guilt that accompanies one's MISSING exercise can be mentally crippling and disheartening and since they aren't working out - well then, they think they WON't lose the weight.

Enough already.

Exercise IS important.

Moving your body IS important.

BUT it is ALSO a variable....which means, depending on your life, your health, your mindset, your situation in life, your family (another variable)....this can go up and down in intensity or become non-existent at all!

In order to lose weight - their must be a calorie deficit going on. ..which makes ???WHAT???? the constant factor now??? Every day....until the day you die??



Think about it. If you eat better, if you TRACK your nutrition to actually SEE, on paper or on computer screen, what you are consuming - even if you are in a somewhat sedentary will most likely lose weight.

Nutrition is your constant, every day thing. You HAVE to eat to survive.

Make the conscious choice to change your eating habits today if you are not.

Make the conscious choice to actually TRY the Spark People Nutrition Tracker and GIVE IT A CHANCE...even though you think it takes too much time to do (guess what? in time, practice makes perfect and lessens the amount of time the more you do it.)

emoticon I'm begging you. Listen to me...

I have tracked for 4 years straight....I do NOT exercise every single day....I have lulls with exercise but I have educated myself on makes a world of difference.


Nutrition = constant

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SUZYWM 4/1/2012 1:54PM

    Thanks Annie. You know your stuff - and I appreciate that you're really talking about a moderate approach - this makes so much sense!

I'm more in touch with how food affects me these days, as opposed to only counting calories. I can feel it, and choosing to feel good is one of the things I'm focusing on.


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RCOLSON97 3/31/2012 8:52AM

    I once had a trainer tell me this and the light bulb went off in my head and that's the first time I started losing weight....awesome advice! I am def not an exercise guru and really don't like and hardly have time to exercise esp since I have my 3 yr old with me all the time and work the other time, but I do it when I want and just try to make healthy choices with my eating! My newest discovery I found is eating lots of small meals a day...then I never sit down and eat a huge meal, but I am never hungry! Even when I go out to eat with my hubby, I have to bring almost all my food home for later because now I get full so fast! I also think I revved up my metabolism doing this! YAY!

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FULLOFFAITH 3/25/2012 2:51PM

    You go girl emoticon. You speak nothing but the truth it all goes hand in hand. I am tracking every bit,lick and taste and as you know my movement is limited for now but I proved to my self I can still make that scale move with making healthy food choices.


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HELLODANAE 3/24/2012 12:34AM

    my wise husband always said that 80% nutrition - 20% exercise so I have been thinking more an more about it since for now I can't workout as much because my knee.

Thanks for the reminder and confirmation emoticon

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KIM--POSSIBLE 3/23/2012 9:59PM

    I agree with you to a point. I certainly gain when my nutrition is lacking. No question about that. Not just calories, but breakdown of nutrients and levels of sodium, etc. I can be in range, but be out of balance on carbs and protein, and have a gain on the scale. And if sodium is much above 1,000mg, I can definitely expect a gain the next day that takes days to work itself out.

However, I also gain when nutrition is nearly perfect but exercise is lacking. Moreover, when my exercise is lacking, I am also under more stress, which leads to the lack of time for exercise. So, is it the lack of exercise or the stress?

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GETSTRONGRRR 3/23/2012 9:48PM

    I have a favorite saying...."You can't work off a bad diet"

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BEATLETOT 3/23/2012 9:38PM

    It is so true!!! I wish I were consistently better about it!

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COLLINSCJ2012 3/23/2012 8:07PM

    Bad nutrition choices can't be fixed by exercise.

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NUOVAELLE 3/23/2012 12:01PM

    I agree with you and I believe that weight loss is an 80- 20 percentage as many people say. (80% nutrition - 20% exercise) I tried to lose weight by exercising consistently for two years. Guess what? Nothing happened! When I finally decided to devote time on starting to use the Nutrition tracker, the scale started moving. But exercise is still a very important factor for me. It works as a great motivator. When I exercise, I feel like I want to eat the right things and not just stay within calorie range. But that's just how it works for me.
Nice blog with great advice!

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SHANESANGEL2010 3/23/2012 10:46AM

    My focus right now is my nutrition, with whatever exercise I can fit in (which i procrastinate a lot)but I try to watch what i'm eating and I log everything. Great Post!!

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BOB240 3/23/2012 9:44AM

    Interesting view, on this site I think nutrition is presented best. If anything it is over emphasised. Good cardio vascular performance and strength are very necessary for a long and healthy life. There is little point in being skinny if your bodyfat is 30% - you are just as prone to some obesity and age related diseases. The bigger problem with being "skinny fit", a condition which almost invariably arises through focussing on diet, is that because you look good.. you think you are healthy..

Of some concern is the calories by calorie breakdown of some terrific recipes here and yet, although I have dug deep, I have yet to find an exercise routine that sensibly addresses long term goals both in weight loss and long term health benefits. Walking on a treadmill for an hour just doesn't cut it...:)

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PCOLAGATOR 3/23/2012 9:43AM

    You normally can't exercise enough to compensate for a poor diet but many people truly try

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STSCOTT11 3/23/2012 8:35AM

    GREAT BLOG and advice.

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Tuesday, March 20, 2012

There is no other word.


Just came back from getting my taxes done...seeing people I see every year...for the last 10 years. Yup - they knew me as heavy Annie, pregnant Annie several times, then heavy Annie once again.

One of them happens to be the sister of my best friend from junior high...I haven't talked to the past bf since I left for another high school, but I send my warm regards to her every year anyway. Another is a long time local that I have known for years, another local mom - I like her, she's cool. Another is my tax guy. I am ANGRY at 2 of the three I saw today.

and to give you a hint, I'm not angry at the local mom I like.

The old bf sister made a observation put into words more like it. "You look so skinny! you are wasting away!"

emoticon "Nope," I say, "Same as last year. Same weight, same shirt. Maybe it's the makeup. Healthy as a horse"

"Really? Your face looks thinner" says the woman, quite the stick herself. In fact, her sister was quite the stick as well, and from fb pics I get to see, is still the same, even after 4 kids.

emoticon I DEFEND myself again, but chuckle and smile and change the subject to her own family.

On to the next encounter - my accountant.
"Hey lady, you look like you lost weight!" he says.

emoticon (I'm already on the defensive now) "Nope, same as last year...maybe it's the loose top and these new skinny jeans and these new flats I'm wearing." (the pants which, btw, are a size 8, just so you Sparkers all know that I am NOT wasting away into nothingness)

"Aww, I don't know about that honey."
emoticon whatever that is supposed to mean. Again, I get to business and change the subject.

The mom I like, we've known each other a long time, are friends on fb...she just says I look good...sheeesh, she sees me in pics all the time, she would know if I were "WASTING AWAY."

WHICH brings me to another pet peeve about a comment that I had received a while back. I wrote it in my planner, because I'm not the type to come on here and complain about being 132 pounds at 5 foot 2 inches tall. (Truly the vision of wasting away, don't you think???) but this was more to the fact about the wording and phrasing of another long time aquantaince in my community. Here is the quote that has burned in my brain:

"You are STILL thin! I'm so glad."

STILL. That one word made me grit my teeth, say a very nice "yes, it's hard work, but I'm determined" and say goodbye and walk away SEETHING - even though I am fully aware that it was meant to be nice....oh and I am SO glad you are glad!! Eeesh.

STILL - think about it. "STILL"

"STILL" implies that you probably thought at some point that I would fail and gain my weight back. (Don't worry honey, I will STILL being using Spark and doing what I'm doing a year from now.)

"You are so thin" means that me being thinner has upset your version of me in your head. (You think you have it bad. Trust me....even I have a hard time wrapping my head around depends on the day, sweetie.)

Normally - overweight people want that recognition of being thinner really really bad....especially when you are trying and trying very hard to lose the weight. I get it. I lived it. It's this aftermath that can get a little weird.....years later, on maintenance, when you are STILL trying to wrap your head around JUST STAYING this not obsess, to not over try and live "like a normal person"...that comments such as this tend to tick you off.

And don't tell me that it wouldn't.

It gives all the hard work you have done a more NEGATIVE spin.

It takes all the fitness, the good nutrition, the time, the just takes all that and minimizes it into something much less proud....not humbling, more (oh I can't even figure out the word!)...more debasing....degrading...whatever...

What is it that makes people comment so "negatively" - especially people (not your family) that you rarely see?

I have had comments from people over the last year, sure...all put in a nice way: "I'm so happy that you are maintaining the way you's wonderful." or "Looking good kiddo, working hard I bet." or I will even take "Hey skinny!" I take them graciously, I say thank you, I even blush because that is what I do....and there is no need to be defensive when a comment is said in a certain way. I get it.

but sometimes.....oooo, it really fries my fritter.

Did you know that 9 times out of 10 - it's my HUSBAND who gets the compliments, not me.

Did you know that 85% of time - I see myself as waaay heavier than 132 and that battle is something that I have accepted and that I know for a fact that if one doesn't change ones self image, it can lead to disaster and another eating disorder?

Did you know that IF I WANTED to - I could drop another 10 pounds in the blink of an eye? How?? Because I know how to with nutrition and exercise. Am I going to?????? No way in hell. You read that right. Some people would KILL to be 122...nope...not me.

But WHY NOT? you may ask. Because for me: I don't want to. Again, I'm smart...I know things ("Godfather" Fredo reference right there - LoL). Anatomy and physiology of the body was the best class I ever took. I want to be able to maintain and LIVE a life that does not mean counting every calorie of every single day of my life. If I were 122 - that would be my life. I want to NOT exercise every single day to maintain this weight. I want to be active and NOT be a slave to the treadmill or the gym. Fit but not fried.

This is what I want when I am 40.....45....50...55.....and yes, 60 years old.

Next year....I will be wearing this very same outfit to get my taxes done.

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    this is a topic that burns me to no end. Usually I let the comments roll of my back but there are a few comments and comments from a few that can push the wrong button.

Last night was one from my mom, usually I dont let her comments bother me but after it was said and done I keep letting my mind take me back to it. She came over for dinner last night (we've been making hoops together) I had just finished eating when she got there and she asked if I was already done and I nodded and looked over to the plate I had by the sink and she looked at it and said "what did you eat, NOTHING?" the nothing was accented and emphasized. I told her there used to be a mound of pasta on the plate but now it was in mah belly.
I guess what ticks me off about it is that its completely opposite from what she used to say when I was a kid.

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NUOVAELLE 3/21/2012 2:55AM

    How rude can some people be!!! Check out these comments:
"Make sure you don't gain it back, ok?"
"Oh, you haven't gained any kilos yet, right?" YET? It hit the same chord in my brain like STILL did to yours!
"You'd better not lose any more weight, you just wouldn't look good, you know..." said with a frown of disgust on the face! - Did I mention I'm still in the "overweight section" of BMI? And she was looking at me as if she was looking at a skinny, sick, anorexic!!!
I can imagine how angry you feel. But rude people will always find something rude and hurtful to say. Look at the positive side - or at least try, I know how hard it can be! What they really do is commenting on your great success. Maybe they're not good at making comments, or they don't like your success or they're jealous. But, still, they're one more living proof that you belong to this small one-digit percentage of people who lost weight and have been able to maintain it! Doesn't that feel great?

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XRSIZE18 3/21/2012 2:41AM

    I think you hit the nail on the head when you said that your weight loss upsets people's vision of you. It's easy for people to feel threatened when other's lose weight because it really makes them reflect on their own lifestyles. Even if they are a "twig" I think everyone has a little bit of body unhappiness going on.
Just ignore the bad and focus on the good comments. :) You've put your hard work and sweat into this and somebody's snide comments can't ever undo that.

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DONNACFIT 3/20/2012 7:18PM

    Saw this cute idea on Pinterest..When you really want to slap someone, go ahead and then say mosquito..haha..wink wink

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another good one is ..some people need a high five, in the face, with a chair :)

There..doesn't that feel better..I hope you're laughing :)

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4A-HEALTHY-BMI 3/20/2012 4:49PM

    Deep breaths...


I don't know these people you describe, so I can't say whether they specifically have an agenda to belittle you.

But I can tell you that most people just aren't thinking when they open their mouths, and they don't know where you are at emotionally or mentally, and they're probably just saying something they think is a compliment, however clumsy.

It's all good. You're doing well. You've found where you want to be and you've figured out how to stay there. So it's OK to relax a little into that and care less what other people say. Because they aren't spending as much time thinking about what they're saying as you're thinking about what they're saying.


This is a rough road we've been down and it's hard to hold the line, my comrade. I suggest that some of your anger may stem from the post-traumatic stress we all suffer from what we've been through and are still going through. Hang in there. It's all good.


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OAKBORN 3/20/2012 4:44PM

    Oh Annie!

I hear you. Take the compliments and ignore those who can't get themselves together and are jealous, I guess. Some people can't simply be happy for others. The comments are more about themselves than they are about you.

You are amazing. There! I have spoken

But as you said, the battle goes on. Maintenance is a daily struggle all of its own... and until you have walked a mile in that person's shoes... The people that make the backhanded compliments need someone else to make themselves feel better... they just don't know they are stepping on the shoulders of giants.

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DINGALLSTOO 3/20/2012 3:23PM

    Hey, I ran into a long time hospital employee the other day, and she says: didn't you used to work here?????? I've been in the same department (blood bank) for 34 years. Apparently she doesn't recognize me walking the halls for exercise during the winter. I have had people say:"you're still thin"...and I weigh 179 and I've been in this range for a year too. I hadn't been this small in 30 years, since Haddiego (another Daisy) was born. In my case I just shrug it off as trying to compliment, but falling short. emoticon

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doing another 5% challenge

Monday, March 12, 2012

So here I am....and this time, I really think that I can contribute to this new 5% Spring mileage, that is. emoticon The winter one was HAAAARD! My basement was cold...sure, I walked outside a lot more, but nothing like the spring! Ahhhh Spring!!! emoticon

So, everyone in the challenge is supposed to post what they are going to do for the challenge...and why, I guess (confession here: I am NOT the best at challenges...maybe it's because of this semi-lone wolf/hermit thing I got going on at times)

So here is the plan - get's SUPER original.

Does this look familiar???????

I'll give you a hint: it should.

I'll give you another hint: it's taken from the Sparkdiet....step 2 to be exact.

OK , OK....that wasn't really a hint, but it's what I do when I want to refocus and get back on track. If I could have a dollar for every time I used the above to get back on track....well, I'd be swimming in some serious dough after being on here for 4 years!

I will admit, I have been a tad "naughty" in my life lately - but at least I haven't had wine...or bacon (thank you Lent)...but I have had more baked treats than ever before....Nope, another lie here....My first Spark Christmas was pretty hairy - lots of baked goods and chocolate while trying to feel out Maintenanceville. Maybe I just FEEL like I've been naughty right now for no reason....nothing like the ease of beating oneself up, right???

So back to the 5% challenge "goals" for myself:
emoticon Bike to work more often than not.
emoticon Get out and walk a bit more the air....especially on the days I am off.
emoticon My stability ball.....totally needs to be dusted off, plopped in front of the TV and sat on during American Idol....maybe even some crunches will get done!
emoticon emoticon emoticon Go to bed earlier!!!! I've been staying up horribly late the last 2 to 3 months....why??? I hate my bedding. Yup, silly as that. I need a new comforter or something...and I need to change the position of my bed too....yeah, yeah, yeah - sounds silly, but I am a little silly sometimes when it comes to the position of my bed in a room. It's time for a change. emoticon
emoticon Get out into the garden and WEED when I think of it...especially when the kids are playing ball!! Maybe I will make them have to bug me to do it...then it will really get done!

OK....that's enough. I don't expect perfection with these "goals". Sorry that goals keeps getting quotes around it. I am not a big fan of the word "goals" just like I hate the word "diet" . Sometimes people overemphasize "goals" and then get all bummed and down when they don't reach them. I think I prefer "Generalized achievements that are symbiotic with my lifestyle" (my own new phrase that I just made up btw) is more to my taste....because lifestyle to day sometimes. It's better to learn to roll with the punches and do our best to live a healthy & active life. No? Goals are very important to have, but they have to be realistic too....just sayin'. for some coffee and a walk around outside to break up for the mid-day sleepiness that comes around about now.

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LINDABENEDICT 3/20/2012 10:39PM

    emoticon GO STARFISH!

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FULLOFFAITH 3/15/2012 10:42PM

    Good for you!!! Good luck !!!!



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DONNACFIT 3/12/2012 3:21PM

    Glad you're in the 5% challenge again, too :)

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BEATLETOT 3/12/2012 2:47PM

    Hooray!!! So excited to do another challenge with you!

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CPATRICK9 3/12/2012 2:32PM

    I think 5% goals are good. Keep it up and you'll get to where you want to be! emoticon

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My birthday bike!

Tuesday, March 06, 2012

This is my new bike!!
A cruising bike - perfect for camping and going to work!

All it needs is a big basket on the front adorned with a big colorful fake flower!!

This is one of those bikes that makes you emoticon like a fool when you ride it...and hum the Ms. Gultch bike theme song from the "Wizard of Oz."

Oh yeah...I'm a happy girl!

Spring cannot get here soon enough!
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SUZYWM 3/10/2012 11:56AM

    Hey Sweetie - congratulations! It looks like a great bike! I hope you have many happy hours on that seat. emoticon

Fun coincidence - I just picked up a nice used cruiser and am re-learning how to ride! I drift to the left and am working on better balance so I can become road worthy and not be a danger to myself or others!

Today is planting day in my back yard - flowers and carrot seeds and herbs to make it feel like spring. And - it's such a noble excuse for avoiding my homework!

Have a truly, really, wonderful weekend!

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JUICENUT 3/6/2012 5:37PM

    It's great; I still have to get me one so I can keep up with my kids and take advantage of the hills and beautiful area in which I live. I just need one with a big comfy seat... or I won't be on it very long.
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NUOVAELLE 3/6/2012 8:26AM

    Just beautiful!!!
I hope you enjoy many spring rides... as soon as spring decides to visit!

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