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A Basic Concept

Saturday, November 15, 2014

After enjoying an early rise, went and got the paper, made bacon and eggs for breakfast and enjoyed listening to Joyce Meyer, a CD collection on the Confident Woman. After a morning in church and bible study, enjoyed learning about encouraging others. Always feel my best when I am going to church, it always brings out the best in me and I am not quite sure why. Anyway the message for me today is God loves me but He doesn't just love me perfectly but He loves all of us perfectly, even when we don't feel lovable we are despite what we think. Just because we think and feel something doesn't mean it is necessarily true. Base your faith in the facts and the feelings will follow. Have a fabulous day knowing that even if not everyone loves you, your Creator loves you and made you to be loved and cherished by Him. Now go treat yourself accordingly.

  
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JAMBABY0 11/15/2014 10:05PM

    thanks for sharing

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Power of a postive state change

Saturday, October 18, 2014

Been learning some great techniques off Anthony Robbins. All about changing your emotional state. I also discovered that I tend to hang onto anger and self-pity for way too long and refuse to change my emotional state to a more positive one. Why would I do this, because I like this state!!!! I am familiar with it, I know what to expect!!! How weird! So now I am busy associating all the non-payoffs that I do get from these negative emotions and am looking at all the payoffs of having the positive emotions, I think the first step is to recognize that one actually enjoys the negative emotions to some point to be able to then make changes. Payoffs for a positive emotional state include the following, better relationships, better self-esteem, feeling great, a healthier body ( cause you aren't carrying toxic emotions), better eating, feelings of strength, a better life x

  
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BECYROSE 10/20/2014 1:29AM

    thanks Wendy x


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Victim Mentality

Tuesday, October 14, 2014

My lesson at the moment is about challenging a victim mentality. This is the one that blames everything going on around you apart from yourself when things don't go right. We are responsible for our own emotions, thoughts and ultimately our lives. Looking for the worst possible situation in life so you can feel sorry about yourself means you remain a victim. What is your payoff? Laziness, people helping you, attention, avoiding responsibility for yourself, not having to make decisions etc. I know there are a few things on that list that are my own payoffs. Instead of saying why me, start saying: What is the hidden opportunity in this situation? Think of someone you know who is worse off than yourself. Also you can ask "How can I give value right now?" Doing things for others helps to take your mind off yourself and doing things for others reminds yourself of your own worth and value. I make myself feel great or feel awful simply by the self-talk I tell myself and I alone am responsible for it, not my mother, my friends, my husband, but myself! I am responsible for what I put in my mouth and for the energy I feel as a result of eating healthy and unhealthy food in my mouth. Part of loving yourself deeply means taking responsibility for yourself. Have a lovely day x

  
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KNEEMAKER 10/14/2014 11:40PM

  It is awesome to know one's self. That makes you awesome. With that said, just keep on keeping on. You are an obvious winner and you shall succeed. Thanks for inspiring the rest of us and sharing your wisdom. emoticon

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Loving yourself first

Saturday, October 11, 2014

My lesson at the moment is about being deeply and unconditionally loving to who God has made us each to be. What happens when you begin to love yourself deeply? You can enjoy your own company without fearing being alone, you eat better and enjoy each mouthful, You appreciate the fact when God says He will never leave you nor forsake you, that you will never leave yourself either, you don't abandon yourself when a prettier girl walks into the room and draws attention of even your own man (because you know you have beauty and gifts that God gave you that are just your own), you appreciate and acknowledge your own thoughts, feelings and opinions. You enjoy your own talents and you are not limited only by external physical attributes. You grow more confident, you are happier and much more attractive to others. So what is not to love about ourselves? When we make mistakes we learn from them and Jesus has you covered, you don't have to hate yourself when you sin, but you can love yourself through it, loving yourself unconditionally empowers you to be all you can be, hating yourself and allowing shame to creep its way in dis-empowers you. You also have a lot more peace when you love and accept who you are because you are no longer fighting with the most important relationship you have which is the one you have with yourself apart from the one you have with your Creator. If you love and respect yourself then all other relationships fall into place. Have faith in God, have faith in the fact he created you and He doesn't make junk, you deserve to be loved even by yourself. Now go and enjoy yourself x

  
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BECYROSE 10/12/2014 9:39AM

    thanks Wendy you are awesome too ;)

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BECYROSE 10/12/2014 1:48AM

    thanks for your encouragement Marie :)


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terrific tuesday

Tuesday, September 30, 2014

It is my day off and I was up early. Had some friends I haven't seen for two years stay over. So I cooked them breakfast and enjoyed their company till 10am, then off to bible study with some good friends and it was insightful. Afterwards spent the time with my good friend Deanna. We got some lunch together at Natural Noodle which is a health food chain. Then we spent some time talking to her elderly mother in law, we cheered her up and then we took Deanna's car into the car wash and enjoyed a workout cleaning her car included with loads of laughs and fun too. We then went to her mum's place and enjoyed talking to one another about the goodness of God, listening to uplifting and encouraging music. Feeling inspired and empowered. We sat on the lounge together and all enjoyed some strawberry sorbet. Came home and cheered my man up after he had spent the day working. Talked to another friend on the phone who is really searching and she asked me could she come to our bible study next Tuesday, I was really excited about that because I know she desperately needs the peace and joy of God in her life. Hubby and I ended our evening watching something funny on telly and wrapped up in each others arms. I lead a blessed life. My God has given me so many amazing people in my life that I just love but most of all I have the greatest gift and that is the gift of faith and God's love in my life. I wish for everyone to feel as amazing as I feel, to know the love of God in their lives. It all begins with gratitude seeing the great people in your life as direct gifts from him to you. But the miracle of faith is something that can't be explained it is just awesome when it does. I have waited all my life (now forty) to have a faith that is alive and that ministers to the souls that are hurting and searching, now I have that awesome gift of love that i will not part with it easily x Have a fabulous day my friends treating your bodies as a temple and gift from Him to you, don't focus on the scales but rather focus on the amazing things your body does for you, like carrying you through this life, if it is too upsetting because you may lack the ability to move than focus on the things that do work your eyes to see life, you mouth to taste amazing flavours, your smile to welcome the world, the ability to speak and express yourself and encourage others along the road, your skin that feels sensations such as hugs and touch, your ears to hear the sounds of creation. Ask yourself constantly ' what is my outcome here what do I want to really achieve here?' a healthy body or instant gratification, self-hatred and misery or an appreciation for the gift of life, gratitude or ingratitude. Remember every action has a reaction x

  


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