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Back after a long absence

Sunday, October 26, 2014

On and off and on and off. That's how the past few years have been with Sparkpeople and weight loss. I can't say I am back for good, because I have said that before and it didn't always work out that way. So, I am here for now.

I have been at the weight loss thing for a few weeks now. It's took a few weeks before that to even start tracking my food. My friend had this bright idea to start a new goal each week. My first goal was to budget my money, 2nd to eat less, 3rd to exercise, 4th to be positive, 5th to revisit eating less, 6th to revisit exercising, 7th to stop procrastinating, 8th to track my food and this week, to exercise. As you can see, I had to revisit my eating and exercise goals a couple of times. They just didn't stick. I'd get about a day or two in and then stop. But so far, I have been good with tracking.

I have been on and off Sparkpeople for years. I always have success but then something causes to quit, to give up. Last time, after a very good year of losing 87 lbs, I fell into depression and just stopped I quit. Every other time I have been successful was because I spent a lot of time on SP. I read the blogs, mostly. I would read articles too, but most of my time spent on SP was reading blogs and reading how other people were successful, or they thought about quitting but something occurred that made them keep going. I loved it. It helped keep me going.

So this week, I sign on and decide I need to start reading blogs again instead of just tracking. I need to keep my motivation going. I also decided I wanted to update my sparkpage so I go to it and I see the pictures of my success last time. While the pictures of last time should give me motivation, it also discourages me because it makes me think "Yeah, I lost weight last time, but I also gained it all back....yet again." Then after making the updates, I decide to look up some successful people from last time just to see how they were doing. One of the people who was a huge motivator for me, turns out she gained all her weight back too. She had lost a lot more weight than I did and was doing so good. She was also at it for a lot longer. So to see how not only did I gain back all my weight, she did too and so many others who just disappeared and haven't updated their pages or blogs in a really long time (I assume they have also gained back the weight)'s just so discouraging.

I was to lose weight. My reasons for wanting to lose the weight are the same as every other time I have lost weight. And every other time, I have gained the weight back. Not only me, but most others do as well. So what is going to be different this time? I am pretty sure the yo-yo weight loss is more unhealthy for my heart then just keeping a steady weight, even if it is 320 lbs.

I'm not quitting. Nor am I trying to talk myself out of being motivated to lose weight. I am going to lose weight. There is no reason for me to quit when I just started. If I don't try, I will always wonder "what if" and will regret it. I have enough regrets in life, including gaining the weight I worked so hard to lose. This is an easy regret not to have but just doing what needs to be done. But I can only speak for right now. What happens in the future will happen. But for now, I am counting my calories while being pretty relaxed about it. My goal is to just stay below 2000 calories a day. Also, I am allowed 1 cheat day were I can go above 2000 every other Friday. Also, for exercise, I just have to do 15 minutes of exercise, 3 days a week. If I want to do more, great. If I don't, I just gotta do those 15 minutes and then I can stop.

Take it one day at a time. I gotta remind myself of that. No more looking in the past, except for motivation that I can do it again. From this point forward, I will only allow myself to look at today. I will only allow myself to look in the future when setting or reviewing my short term goals. I don't need to set any long term goals because I think all of our long term goals are the same: to be healthy, to be active, to be alive.

My first short term goal is a stretch. My goal is to be under 300 lbs by Thanksgiving. I weigh in on Wednesday so it works out perfectly in that aspect. It is doable, but a stretch. I have 5 weeks to lose at least 11.6lbs. I can do it. I will do it.

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EVER-HOPEFUL 10/27/2014 3:36AM

    great to see you back love .after reading your blog i have a question i want you to ask yourself and answer you see yourself on a diet or a lifestyle journey?the reason i asked you to answer honestly is that this could be the key to why you keep putting your weight back on in that you see this as a diet and not a lifestyle.a diet gives restrictions which can then make you crave the stuff or feel intemidateded and that is why you go off where a lifestyle change is something where nothing is off limit and is in moderation.look for good healthy foods that you like and that you can live with the rest of your life.before doing something and making a comittment ask yourself can you do this for the rest of your life.same with exercise etc.find something you really love and know then that you will want to do it.there are lots of fun things out there .mine are anything with dancing to do and nordic walking and when on holiday i go swimming every day.know you can do this just donīt see it as a diet that as soon as you lost the weight you can go back to your old is your old ways that got you overweight in the first place.this is a lifestyle change and this is what you will have to do for the rest of yyour i will ask you the question again.ARE YOU ON A DIET OR A LIFESTYLE CHANGE?be homest now.know i am here for you to offer support etc.just let us know how i can help love emoticon emoticon emoticon

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Starting Over....Again

Monday, February 24, 2014

Start, stop, start, stop....over and over again. It is very repetitive. Usually when I post a "Starting Over" blog, I talk about what I have achieved in the past and what lead to my failure. I am not going to do that this time because you know what, I might fail again. It's a part of life. I was watching the Winter Olympics, especially the figure skating, I realized it doesn't matter how many times you fall, it's how many times you get back up again. I give major kudos to figure skaters because when they fall, they don't just give up and stop. They get right back up and finish what they are doing. It takes a lot of courage and strength to do that. So I expect many more falls in my future. I welcome them. I just pray I have the strength and courage to get right back up...and not wait 2 years.

I keep thinking about the kind of life I want to live. There is so much I want to do, so much I want to learn how to do. I am going on a cruise for Spring break and was looking at the all the shore excursions to decide what I want to do when we go to Catalina Island and Ensenada, Mexico. Some of them include kayaking, parasailing and zip-lining. I want to do these things! But at my current weight, I can't.

But it got me thinking. If I were at healthy weight, what kind of things would I do? I am going to list what I have come up with so far:

Scuba Dive
Indoor rock climbing
Sky Dive
Ballroom dance lessons
Ice Skating

This is what I have come up with off the top of my head right now. Yes, some of them I could do at my current weight, but I wouldn't be comfortable doing them. So I am going to create a reward system to reward myself for meeting weight loss goals and some of those rewards will include doing some of the things I have listed above. It will be a reward simply because I will be facing my fears. And the more you face your fears, the more courageous you become and that in and of itself will be the reward.

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EVER-HOPEFUL 2/24/2014 1:31AM

    i wouldnīt worry about have enough strength to get back know yourself you have the strength as you have always got back up in the past.i would get your ears checked before skydiving or scuba diveing as i am not allowed to do them(i wanted to )because of my perferated ear drums.i think you have a good list there also good motivation with the cruise.just try not to loose sight of the end can do this you know what to do .you also know you can do it as you have done it in the past.remember consistancy is the be all and end all in this journey.take care and keep smiling and know you are worth all the effort it will take. emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

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144AUTUMN 2/24/2014 1:20AM

  You can do it!!

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Feeling ashamed

Sunday, June 16, 2013

I am so ashamed of myself. I worked so hard to lose weight. It took me a year to lose 87 lbs and I still had over 100 to go. But then I fell into a depression and it just progressively got worse and I just stopped caring. So I proceeded to gain back the weight. I tried to get back on the wagon by joining another competition with friends, but if you don't deal with the depression, you aren't going to succeed and that is just what happened. I continued to gain the weight back. Now here I am, heavier then ever, 325.4 lbs, and having to start over.

I am afraid to go to the gym because I don't want to see anyone I know. I went for a year straight and the people know me. Not all, because I am sure others have stopped, but the personal trainers that are still there will know me. I am ashamed in myself that I allowed myself to gain this weight back and angry that I didn't seek help for the depression sooner so I wouldn't have gained so much more.

I have sought help for my depression and am feeling better than I had, not perfect though, but I think exercising and eating right will help as well. I am going to continue to see my therapist and go to my groups and just starting exercising.

I am going to start out this week easy. Track what I eat and go for a walk each evening.

Damn it, I am going to do this.

I am also have my 10 year high school reunion in October. I boasted about how much weight I lost on facebook and some of my old school friends who will be at the reunion are on my facebook. I am embarrassed that I will be going to my reunion still as big as I was when I started. Which is bigger than I was when I was in high school.

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EVER-HOPEFUL 6/17/2013 2:55PM

    know how you feel been there done that but that is now in the past you canīt change it but you can change what happens from here on out.also there is several weeks between now and october so you can undo quite a bit of the damage.remember though you are not doing this for other people you are doing this for you and your health.that is what is proud of yourself for not totally giving up,for getting help and for getting back on this our healthy can do this YOU have the power and only YOU love.if you need any help tell me what i can do for you and i will if i proud of you emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

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NEWME1027 6/16/2013 9:35PM

    Do this for you not for others, reunions etc. You are worth having a healthy happy life.
I have gained and lost and regained a few times myself. There is no shame in that. Its when we give up. Restarting is not giving up. You should be proud of your RESTART!!
Best of health to you. emoticon emoticon

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TRYINGTOLOSE64 6/16/2013 9:32PM

    Don't be ashamed that "life" happened to you!! You're not the first that it happened to and you won't be the last. The thing is you are now dealing with your issues, so now you can jump back on the band wagon and proceed forward with baby steps.

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SHOAPIE 6/16/2013 9:32PM

    Don't be ashamed. Depression Is often difficult to acknowledge . But now you are dealing with it. If you are on medications be sure it is one of the few that don't cause weight gains. I was on one that caused me to gain 22lbs in one year. Was switched to a different one and am doing much better with my weight. I was able to lose those unwanted pounds. emoticon

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Needed a Reminder

Sunday, December 16, 2012

I have gained so much weight. I just haven't been able to get back on the wagon. I weighed in this morning at 274.4 lbs. I am done. I am tired of gaining weight. I started a weight loss competition with friends and I am in the negative. I have until April 1st 2013 I get this gained weight off and get to where I want to be. I don't care if I lose the weight loss competition anymore. I just don't want to be above 230 come April 1st. So I am getting back on track today. I can do it!

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TEEPHOTO 12/16/2012 6:33PM

    You can do it. And, since I am in the same boat, I guess I should say We can do it. Let's go!

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EVER-HOPEFUL 12/16/2012 6:01PM

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Week 3 - Gained 1.4 lbs

Sunday, November 04, 2012

I did horrible this week. I only ate within my plan 1 day and that was last Sunday. I am determined to do better this week. Thankfully I am not the only person who did badly so I am still in second place. But I want to make up for the lack of weight loss this week.

You know, it's funny. I am not a morning person, but every morning when I wake up, I think about exercising, but of course I won't because I don't wake up in time to have time to exercise. But I also can't bring myself to exercise at night. I need to figure something out.

I have one more week of work and then I will be off for a wonderful 16 days. I cannot wait. I hate that place. And also, I have a phone interview for another job. We are still trying to schedule it and I am trying not to get my hopes up, but dang it, I want another job. I hate my job. It makes me miserable.

Oh and for that other job I applied and interviewed for, it turns out I was rejected. They decided not to hire anyone for the position afterall. So that makes me a feel a little better...though I would have loved that job.

Any way, here are the stat for week 3 of the weight loss competition:

Becky: SW: 236.6 CW: 234.2 % lost: 1.01%
Me: SW: 258.20 CW: 249.6. % lost: 3.33%
Sabrina: SW: 336.4 CW: 326. % lost: 3.09%
Shayna: SW 260.50 CW: 248 % lost: 4.80%

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NEWLEAF16 11/7/2012 1:36PM

    Hang in there and keep going! emoticon

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EVER-HOPEFUL 11/6/2012 5:49PM

    well if you donīt want to pay out 250 dollers you will have to start motivating yourself with exercise etc.can you fit in exercise in your lunch break at work if it is not working mornings and evenings for you?hope you notz only manage to sort out telephone interview but also get the jobe emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

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BASKETLADY13 11/4/2012 8:02PM

    Keep a positive attitude and things will come back to you. Good luck with your challenge.

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TJCADDO 11/4/2012 7:42PM

    Looking back, I am proud of where you are coming from. Hang in there! Glad, that you pull in the reins when you see a bump in the road. Keep going, emoticon

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ACCOMPLISHED125 11/4/2012 3:26PM

  Keep trying! Results will come sooner or later if you continue to stick with it. emoticon

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FAVORITEAUNT84 11/4/2012 3:25PM

    Sending good thoughts your way. I try not to define how I feel about myself by how others are doing.

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LRK4CHRIST 11/4/2012 3:23PM

    U sound like me, battling getting to your goal. You lost 70 lbs, I've lost 75 lbs. I want to get to my goal but I'm struggling. Some way somehow, we'll reach where we want to be. Let's work together.

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