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Early Morning

Saturday, October 25, 2014



Mom made cupcakes and a cake last weekend and on Monday she's like where are the cupcakes. My sister had put the plate everything was sitting on in the microwave. So I'm like in my belly. My mom's like seriously where's the cupcakes. I'm like in my belly and my sister pulls out the plate and the cupcakes are missing. OOPS my bad. My mom's like Deanna. This is what happens when temptations are in the apartment. I can't control it. Today is the weekly weigh in. I wasn't sure what the scale was going to say but I lost a pound this past week. The cupcakes didn't affect the scale too much.



So my neighbor said to me recently that she needed to get back on the treadmill again and that she's lost some weight. It took everything I had to not laugh in her face because what she needs to do and what she actually does are 2 completely different things. She has DVDs and she's closer to the fitness center than I am but she doesn't exercise. She blames it on the sleep apnea and being tired. Hello lady. Get into a routine and stick with it and maybe you will actually sleep at night. My sister and my mom don't go to the fitness center either. To be honest I haven't gone as much because I've been walking around the complex instead since it's too nice to be outside than it is inside and I'm bored with the fitness center. But regardless I go walking like 2-3 times a day and I attempt to watch what I eat.



So last night Elijah came into my room. I think he was sleep walking because he climbed into my bed and was asleep. So I let him lay there for a few minutes and then put him to bed. Then I went to bed. I wake up a short time later to my door being opened and then closed and Elijah crawling back into my bed. After he gets settled I check the time and it's 1:45. Guess who went back to sleep and guess who couldn't? That's right. Elijah went back to sleep and I couldn't. I laid in bed for nearly 45 minutes before getting out of bed. I was debating on if I was going to just go to the bathroom and then attempt to go back to sleep or to get out of bed and stay out. I decided to just stay out of bed. My eyes are burning a little bit but I don't think I'll be able to fall back asleep. It's the end of October and I just turned on the heat because I'm cold. I've been cold for the past few days. It also doesn't help that when I'm home alone I'm in my sports bra. I've discovered that I hate shirts and really like my sports bra. Besides it's the end of October.

  
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DEEKELLYE 10/25/2014 4:18PM

    She says she's been to the doctor for it. I don't think she does the oxygen at night any more. Never seen a tank. Just the thing that goes in the mouth.

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WESTERNSAGE 10/25/2014 9:57AM

    I appreciate your frustration with your neighbor and her complaints without taking action. But if she truly has sleep apnea she should see a doctor. It is a serious condition and it may not keep her awake - just interrupt her sleep patterns without her even being aware of it. Prolonged sleep issues can damage the heart because of the lack of oxygen. I've had it - and got over it primarily by losing a significant amount of weight.

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LIZSPRINGSTEEN 10/25/2014 9:39AM

    I've grown to love my sports bra too!

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Switched Days

Friday, October 24, 2014



So today is supposed to be a rest day from the squat and kettle bell swing challenges but I didn't feel like doing them yesterday so I took the rest day yesterday instead. So I'll be doing the squats and swings today. I'm allowed to do that every once in a while. It doesn't happen all the time. Yesterday I didn't really feel like doing anything any ways. I was cold so I wore my fuzzy soft socks and drank hot tea all day. My sister and I went to Walmart last night after Elijah went to bed and got creamer. I paid for mom's creamer and my tea bags. I needed some more Earl Grey tea. Earl Grey is my favorite kind. Today I am doing Elijah's clothes and the whites. I am going to hang as much of Elijah's clothes as possible and stick the whites with whatever clothes don't go on the hangers in the dryer to save up on quarters. I can't wait to have a working dryer in the apartment again. It's becoming a pain in the butt washing clothes here and then taking them down to the fitness center to dry. I am at a disadvantage because unlike my mom and sister I don't have a car. But then again if I did have a car I wouldn't be sitting at home all the time. I'd be working. The baskets of wet clothes get heavy. The fitness center, fortunately, isn't very far from my apartment.



Last night week 5 or 6 or 7 of the biggest loser was on. I didn't see the entire episode because I was attempting to get Elijah to bed. So I'll be watching it while I fold my clothes on the NBC app on my phone. I don't like how it's an hour long. Elijah picked out a chapter book at the library and we've been reading a chapter at bed time. He has been sitting pretty good and listening to the story. It's called Wolf. When he picked it out I told him there wasn't any pictures in there and showed him and asked him if he still wanted it and he said yes and I told him we could read a chapter at bedtime. He liked that idea. It settles him down. I finished a book last night. Going to start on another today at some point.

  
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DEEKELLYE 10/24/2014 4:01PM

    I love the library and to read. I've always loved to read as long as it wasn't something I was told to read in school. I'll spend about an hour and a half after Elijah goes to bed reading. Last night was a bit of a struggle with Elijah at bed time. Couldn't decide if he wanted to read or not read a chapter. I was getting frustrated so I left the room and watched some of the Biggest Loser and during a commercial break when we were nice and calm we read a chapter and had a moment.

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NHES220 10/24/2014 1:51PM

    Great job keeping up with the Squat and Kettlebell challenge! Earl Grey is my favorite tea too. I think its great that you read to Elijah. A love for reading is the greatest gift you can give a child - that and the time you spend with him. I still remember my Dad taking me to the library as a child and I'm 53.

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NILLAPEPSI 10/24/2014 1:27PM

    Nothing wrong with taking a break. Keep smiling!! emoticon

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COOP9002 10/24/2014 12:50PM

    You're doing well. with Elijah. Sounds like he's turning a corner for the good. Blessings.

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WESTERNSAGE 10/24/2014 11:50AM

    What a great success with Elijah. I know you struggled with him at bedtime for several months.

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Computer Time!!

Thursday, October 23, 2014



Monday afternoon I went to get on the internet on my computer and couldn't. Tuesday I ran a disc defrag on my computer and still couldn't get on the internet. No suck luck on Wednesday. My sister doesn't know where her computer cord is at so she borrows mine from time to time. If my computer isn't plugged in it shuts down because of the battery. So I get on the computer this morning and so far everything is running smoothly. My sister borrowed my computer cord yesterday and my computer was on so the juice in my battery was gone and my computer shut down. I am happy to have the internet working and to not be so frustrated. I get to spend some time on the computer. This week I get 4 days to myself because my sister works today instead of being off. So happy. Hopefully she gets some coffee creamer today at work because we ran out yesterday and I completely ruined my coffee today. I drank enough of the coffee to make me feel human and not stiff but the rest of the day I'll be drinking some hot tea.



It's a chilly morning today. It was like 47 when we left the apartment. It's only supposed to be 78 today. Not complaining about the cooler weather. It's just a hot tea and fuzzy soft socks kind of day today along with my favorite hoodie. I literally own only 1 hoodie and I wear it all the time when it's cold and my mom hates it. I got it for Christmas one year when I was either in middle school or high school. At the beginning I didn't like hoodies and I didn't wear it but over time I began to love this hoodie. I've had other hoodies and they weren't as comfortable as this one is. I wore this hoodie when I was pregnant with Elijah. So it stretches. It gets washed every week. I've convinced my mom to get the stuff to make our own laundry detergent. A friend of mine posted how she makes it on Facebook and then my mom found a different way to make it. We are going to try the different way. It'll be cheaper to make it ourselves than it would be to keep buying it. Mom is going to buy the stuff for it and Debbie is going to bring home 2 icing buckets and I am going to spend the day making the detergent. The article we've read says it lasts them about 18 months. I do a lot of laundry because I have a child so it may not last 18 months. I'll be happy if it lasts at least 6 months. I don't mind spending the time making it if it's going to last longer than what you get at the store and gets the job done.



Today is day 23 of the 30 day squat and kettle bell swing challenges. I haven't done any yet but it's only 9am so I have time to them. I'll probably get a shower after my sister goes to work and then do some cleaning. The kitchen needs cleaned. We didn't do dishes yesterday. So that's what I'll be doing in a little while. I may use the carpet cleaner in Elijah's bedroom since his room is still cleaned. Debbie and I cleaned it yesterday and I vacuumed it. I was thinking about cleaning my room but then I got to thinking that mom and Debbie put stuff in my room either on my night stand or my bed and Elijah comes in my room and messes in stuff so there's really no point in spending a few hours cleaning or doing a lot of cleaning because it's just going to get messed up. The interview at Sam's Club still hasn't happened yet because of the assessment. As nice as it would be to have a job I guess this job isn't for me at this time. Apparently neither is Waffle House again. Something will come up eventually.

  
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DEEKELLYE 10/24/2014 10:24AM

    I have to have the coffee for the caffeine content. This mornings cup was better than yesterdays because my sister and I went to Walmart last night.

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DEB62BIE62 10/23/2014 5:03PM

    I have a cup that says my emergency number is Starbucks. However, I don't buy coffee there too expensive and too many calories.

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STITCH4EVER 10/23/2014 3:33PM

    I JUST BOUGHT A HUGE LATTE CUP AT WALMART THAT SAYS "WITH ENOUGH COFFEE I COULD RULE THE WORLD".

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NILLAPEPSI 10/23/2014 1:19PM

    Haha! I need a coffee cup like that. emoticon

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COOP9002 10/23/2014 11:35AM

    Hope things are working better for you in the wonderful world of technology. At least you're not allowing this distraction to throw you off course on your wellness goals.



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Fancy Date

Saturday, October 18, 2014



Before we started grocery shopping Elijah wanted to have a fancy date with me. We were talking about what day to have it and we picked last night and we were talking what we would eat. He decided we should eat chicken and rice. I added a vegetable to dinner. For dessert he said we should have chocolate cake. On my walk yesterday I stopped and picked some flowers for on the table. The pictures aren't the best pictures but they show us on our fancy date. I got in a skirt and a nice shirt and straightened out my hair before I went to pick Elijah up off of the bus. Then while I was cooking dinner Elijah did his homework and got into his suit. He told my mom that she was going to be our waiter but by the time dinner was ready she wasn't home. While I was making dinner Elijah said we needed to use the biggest glass plates we own for our fancy date. He set the table up with a fork and a butter knife. Even tho sometimes he doesn't listen and has a bit of an attitude and sometimes gets on my nerves, he's a sweet boy and very thoughtful. After our fancy date Elijah changed his clothes and decided we should go for a walk with his scooter. So we did. We spent over an hour outside because we were with one of the kids that rides his bus and her friends. Elijah didn't want to go home when it was starting to get dark. It was getting close to 7 and it starts getting dark at that point. I don't like to be out in the dark. I'm not afraid of the dark. I'm afraid of what's in the dark. Plus with the way the cars speed in the parking lot it's just not safe to be out in the dark. Elijah hasn't gotten that concept yet. We may be spending some time outside earlier in the day this weekend.



It's Saturday and it's week 4 or 5 weigh in for the 8 week fall challenge. Last week I lost 3 pounds. This week I gained 1 pound. So frustrating. I am doing a 30 day squat challenge and a 30 day kettle bell swing challenge so the muscles may have some effect on the number going up. I have noticed changes since I've started the challenges. My butt is getting perky and my thighs are looking better. Today is day 18. 12 more days of those challenges. My friend and I talk at the bus stop and on the way home from the bus stop about stuff and she says she needs to do some squats and I told her that at the end of the month I will give her the squat challenge that I'm currently doing and she can do it. I'll give her all of the squat challenges once I am done with them. The next two challenges start out where that last one leaves off. So my butt and thighs are going to be looking really nice by the end of the year after all 3 squat challenges are done. I'll admit I really don't want to do these challenges but I am curious to see what I look like at the end of the year when they are done. All I need is a little distraction action like music or the TV while I am doing the squats. I think for the kettle bell swings I am going to continue to do them with the squats so that way I have a way to break up the squats. I was looking at the Walmart app in the fitness department and they have bigger kettle bells. The biggest I've seen was a 50 pound kettle bell. Once I get a job I am going to order a 10 and a 15 pound kettle bells. The 5 pound one I have is a nice start but it's light. Then I'll save up some money and get a 20 and 25 pound kettle bell and keep saving until I have the 30. 35 and 50 pound kettle bells. I may or may not be able to use the 35 or 50 pound ones for a while but Elijah will be able to when he gets older. I'm not going to get anything heavier than the 50 pounds. Don't think they make anything heavier than 50 pounds. It'll be a nice set to have. I'm going to save up and get a set of dumbbells as well. I have a set of 2 pound dumbbells but I need a bit heavier. I went to the fitness center yesterday and rode the bike for half hour while Elijah's clothes were drying. I was alone. Just the way I like it.

  
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MAWMAW101 10/20/2014 7:26AM

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BEAUTY_WITHIN 10/19/2014 6:42PM

    that's awesome! Sounds like you and your son had an awesome time!

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NHES220 10/19/2014 2:25PM

    How cute that you had a fancy date - very sweet! Great job on the squat challenge. Weight fluctuates - you are doing well!

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NILLAPEPSI 10/18/2014 5:10PM

    Awww! How sweet! You're a great mom. Awesome pics!

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LYNCHD05 10/18/2014 4:55PM

    What a nice thing for the two of you to do together.....building memories I would say!!!

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LIZSPRINGSTEEN 10/18/2014 2:44PM

    Cute pics!

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COOP9002 10/18/2014 2:43PM

    Glad that you and Elijah were able to have this time together.

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WESTERNSAGE 10/18/2014 11:09AM

    Sounds as though you really enjoyed your fancy date. It's great when the kids get creative. Enjoy his wanting to spend time with you; when boys get older that goes by the wayside for a few years.

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EVIE4NOW 10/18/2014 8:55AM

  Check around at used stores or garage sales for equipment that nobody wants any more. Should be far cheaper.

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Day 15 of 30

Wednesday, October 15, 2014



I just completed day 15 of the squat and kettle bell swing challenges. The numbers are getting bigger every day it's not a rest day. I've come up with a plan on Monday. I break the squats up into groups of 20 and the kettle bell swings into groups of 30 and write down after I've completed each set. I'll do 20 squats and then 30 swings until I've reached the total number I need to do. By the time I'm getting to like the 4th or 5th set I'm wanting to quit the challenges completely but I do the numbers that I'm supposed and I do each squat and swing like it's the first set and correctly. I am half way thru my challenge and the numbers are not going to get any smaller. By December 30th I'll be doing 750 squats. Hopefully by then I'll be doing 50 squats at a time. I've noticed a change in my upper inner thighs where the thighs meet the hips. Seeing that change makes me keep going. I'm not sure what I am going to do next month with the weight lifting. I've been spending more time walking outside than actually walking on the treadmill or sitting on the bike. I just don't feel like being inside. I'm racking up the steps that way by taking 2 or 3 walks a day plus going to and from the bus stop every day. My pants are starting to be bigger on me!



My sister went to the gym for the first time in weeks last night. Mom hasn't been to the gym in a while. Neither has my best friend. It seems like I'm the only one who isn't sick (mom and sister) or has sick kids (best friend). I guess all of my exercising helps keep me from being sick. Not sure how Elijah isn't sick. He's up to date on his shots and the only shot he needs to get every year until he's 11 is his flu shot. I didn't go in yesterday to talk to my sister's manager. Going in on Friday.



We spent $90 on meat to freeze at Sam's Club last night. We bought 2 packages of ground beef, 2 packages of beef stew meat, a package of chicken and a package of pork steaks. I separated it all today and got 22 individual packages of meat. We also spent $15-$20 on a bag of frozen Tilapia at Sam's Club last night since we didn't get any salmon. I'm hoping all of this meat lasts a while. Tonight I am going to be getting stuff for vegetable soup. I need the canned veggies, frozen veggies and the celery and the kielbosa. I'm going to be getting some ham or turkey and crackers for Elijah's lunch and make some lunchables for him. I need some apples for his lunch as well. My friend and I started to get snacks for her daughter and Elijah for the walk home from the bus stop. If only we can get the two to not share with the other kids we will be ok. I know the other kids won't share their snacks with them. I got them gummies and my friend usually gets cookies or cupcakes or something. I'll bring a pack or two for Elijah and my daughter. Not worried about the other kids. Don't really like the other kids.

  
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WESTERNSAGE 10/16/2014 2:39AM

    Your energy for exercise is amazing. I hurt just thinking about it! Keep up the good work.

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NHES220 10/15/2014 9:01PM

    Wow, you are doing great on the challenge, good for you! I think being fit has something to do with staying healthy, also you are eating healthy too!

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NILLAPEPSI 10/15/2014 6:06PM

    emoticon Keep it going! You're doing fantastic!

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BUMBLEBEE-RN 10/15/2014 2:42PM

    Good luck on your journey. Sounds like you have a good plan in motion.

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