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WONDERFUL 4-DAY WEEKEND

Thursday, May 02, 2013

I have been very busy lately, and I was feeling like I desperately needed some time to myself.
Our church had our Women's Retreat this past weekend. A friend came and picked me up early Friday afternoon, and we stopped and picked up 3 other ladies. Then it was off to the retreat. It was a beautiful day, the sun was shining and it was quite warm.

After about an hour's drive we stopped off at a restaurant for an early supper. It was too early to get to the retreat, so we just took our time relaxing and visiting while eating supper. We were some of the first to arrive and it was wonderful.

The retreat is held away from the city. The camp is alongside a lake and it is so peaceful and quiet. The camp is owned by a Christian group, Youth for Christ, who generally have youth in the camp throughout the summer. There is a large lodge with 2 stories and a basement. Each room has 4 bunk beds. Meals are prepared for us. If anyone has any allergies or health issues, such as Diabetes, special meals are prepared as required. Friday they don't have a meal, as we are supposed to arrive at 6:30 P.M. They do have a snack at 10:00 P.M., though.
We had such a wonderful weekend. The weather was beautiful and I was able to go for some walks. Our teaching sessions were wonderful and the praise and worship was amazing. You could just feel the Holy Spirit in the room. I managed to spend some time in the Prayer Room, which is such a peaceful place. It looks out on the lake.

Even though there were 7 of us in our quite small room, we had a good time. Everyone got along well and there were no problems. It was hard to come back home on Sunday afternoon. It was a very peaceful and relaxing weekend and I came home feeling very blessed and rested, even though I didn't sleep that well. I had a good night's sleep on Sunday night.

Monday two of my church friends and I went to a spa. We had a wonderful relaxing day there, just chatting and having fun in the mineral pool and hot tub. We were having fun splashing water on each other and just enjoying our time together. My one friend is moving at the end of June, so we wanted to make sure we spent one more spa day together. We have been doing this for several years. Two years ago I had my birthday at the spa and my two friends joined me. I enjoyed a one-hour aromatherapy massage.

It just so happened, that they were working on the steam room that day, so we weren't able to use it. As a result, we all received free passes to come and spend another day at the spa to use the steam room, the hot tub and the mineral pool and swimming pool. This doesn't include any treatments, but the regular value is $40.00. So now we need to choose another day before my friend moves so we can get together again. All in all it was a truly wonderful and blessed long weekend. God is still taking very good care of me.

  
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JUDITH316 5/13/2013 1:31AM

    Came back to re-read this beautiful account of your lovely weekend...Praying this Mother's Day weekend was a blessing for you also...Big Hugs,,, emoticon

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CAROLFAITHWALKR 5/5/2013 5:03AM

    Sounds lovely!

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GABIBEAR 5/4/2013 3:11AM

    It sounds like you had an awesome time Darlene! What a lovely way to spend a weekend and the Spa with your friends was the icing on the cake! Thank you for sharing your experience with us! Hopefully this weekend will be a pleasant one for you too!

Gabi
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1CRAZYDOG 5/2/2013 8:07PM

  Awesome! HUGS

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GGRANLDY 5/2/2013 10:39AM

    emoticon !! God is sooooo Good. He knows what we need before we even ask.

So glad that you were able to get away to Retreat and relax and just soak in His presence. Glad you were refreshed. Then getting to end your long weekend at the spa with friends that is cool.

Have a great day and may you be Blessed.

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ROZEEROZGQBB1 5/2/2013 2:17AM

    Darlene, you truly did have a blessed weekend. It is great that you will be able to get together again at the spa with friend before she moves away. You will miss her.

The retreat building and grounds sound so unique and relaxing. What a blessed place to be. emoticon

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JUDITH316 5/2/2013 1:56AM

    Praise God, isn't our God awesome, He has looked after you in so many amazing ways, this weekend sounds so lovely, I am so thrilled you had the opportunity to attend, the place where the retreat was held sounds like the retreat centre I once attended. Our lake had a swan swimming in it, our retreat centre was run by a husband and wife and family, they had a farm on the grounds and provided horse back riding, . I am so happy you are able to use the gift certificate to go back to the spa. I'm sure you will enjoy. Thanks for sharing Darlene...Have a great rest of your week...Blessings and Hugs.. emoticon emoticon

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NADINEL 5/2/2013 1:16AM

    God always amazes me how richly He blesses us with friends and loved ones and fun stuff to do, too! I am so glad you had a time of relaxation and joy! Have a wonderful week!

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BELATED BIRTHDAY PARTY

Thursday, April 11, 2013

My wonderful sisters-in-law treated me to lunch today for my birthday, which was in February. There were three SIL's and one good friend of the family who came. They took me to my favorite restaurant for baked chicken fingers and Greek salad. We had a lovely time. They not only treated me to lunch, but they all bought me gifts as well. I received a beautiful purple cast-iron teapot with an infuser, and some tea, a lovely necklace with amythyst flowers in it and a purple bracelet, a big tea cup in the shape of an apple and a lovely tea-light candle holder with the word Faith on it. As you can tell, purple is my favorite color. I am so blessed that my dh's family are so good to me. They have adopted me as a "sister" and treat me as such. The family will be having a luncheon later this month for my dh's brother, and I know I will be invited as well. It is so nice to be able to get together and visit with the family. It brings back good memories of my dh as well.

  


HEALTH UP-DATE

Sunday, April 07, 2013

I have been having some issues with my health and I posted a blog about my concerns earlier. I had been having problems with chest pains and shortness of breath, and my doctor arranged for me to see a cardiologist to see if I could find out what the problem was. The cardiologist scheduled me for a stress test. He said he couldn't find out too much with that, so he scheduled me for a MIBI stress test. this is where they inject you wih an isotope and they take x-rays of your heart muscles. Then they send you for a stress test and then take more x-rays. My doctor called me on Friday, and told me that that test turned out okay, but he thought there was an extra heart beat in there. He wants to schedule me for an echocardiogram where they can see your heart with an ultrasound machine. He will then be able to tell if I have an problems with my heart due to my high blood pressure. He told me he hopes to be able to arrange for a test before the end of May. Hopefully that will give me some answers I am looking for. It is difficult for me right now, as I am not sure if I should be exercising or not. My GP told me I could walk for exercise, so I am going to continue to do that. Now that the ice is melting, maybe I can get outside more often for a walk. I haven't been following my Maximized Living diet either. I need to get back on that. Hopefully things will improve for me. I will let you know once I get the results back from the echocardiogram.

  
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HEALTHYSLIM2 4/21/2013 2:21AM

    ANY UPDATES? I've been concerned about you... emoticon

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LOVETOLAUGH56 4/13/2013 3:19PM

    Praying for you dear sister in Christ emoticon

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ROZEEROZGQBB1 4/11/2013 1:54AM

    Checked back to see if you have heard anything from the docs. Keep us posted when you do hear - as we care about you.

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MAKULEWAHINE 4/8/2013 5:12PM

    Wow. You certainly have been through the mill:( Glad you are taking care of yourself though and trying to get out and walk. My thoughts are with you. Take care.

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1GR8FULGAL 4/8/2013 7:21AM

    My thoughts and prayers are with you! You sure have been through a lot but isn't it wonderful that God is ALWAYS by our side and will ALWAYS see us through our challenges. As others have said, try walking in place. Have you tried chair exercise? Ask you Dr but it is on here and Youtube and you can work at your level. God bless and pls do keep us posted. HUGS

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CAROLFAITHWALKR 4/8/2013 2:21AM

    WOW you have been through alot, from meeting birth family and siblings, to heart concerns and health scares, you have been through alot.

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NADINEL 4/8/2013 1:51AM

    Thanks for the update. Sounds like the doctor is working on this. Good. Tests take a while to schedule sometimes. Walking on dry pavement is better than slipping and falling. Someone else mentioned the Leslie Sansome dvd. I did the One Mile walk. I haven't got a dvd or vhs player any longer so I am unable, but I certainly did enjoy it. I had to work up to it because I was so, so out of shape, but it was great. It did not take me long to build up to doing it.
If your doctor says keep walking....obey! Gotta get that heart strong.
I am keeping you in my prayers.
I know the Maximized Living diet is important to you, but don't stress yourself too much at this time. It will all come together in God's timing.

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GABIBEAR 4/8/2013 1:11AM

    Darlene all of my hopes and prayers are with you. Best of luck in your echocardiogram. It is a good thing that your cardiologist is being thorough and checking all possibilities. I will keep you in my prayers.

Gabi
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LIVELYGIRL2 4/7/2013 11:41PM

  I sure hope it's something small, and not too invasive. emoticon

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PRAIRIECROCUS 4/7/2013 5:44PM

    All the best !
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PICKIE98 4/7/2013 5:30PM

    Listen to your body, dry pavement is the safest...

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NELLIEC 4/7/2013 4:24PM

    Well, if the weather is not cooperating, maybe you could try walking in place inside while you have music on or a video on, or something to pass the time. A fair number of people do the walking in place and Leslie Sansone even has videos to walk with her demonstration.

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DBELLE39 4/7/2013 8:43AM

    Oh My, you have really been through a lot of tests, but praying that answers are soon forth coming. Take care of yourself. Sending up prayers.

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1CRAZYDOG 4/7/2013 8:40AM

  Hugs and prayers, Darlene. Definitely DO try to get walking in. I am sending healing vibes your way.

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ROZEEROZGQBB1 4/7/2013 3:55AM

    Jesus plz be with Darlene and also her medical care givers. Plz give the medical care givers the wisdom as to what is needed to help Darlene's heart be healthy and strong. Whatever treatment, medication or devices that may need to be used for her - plz give them all that wisdom in your name Jesus - I pray this amen.

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JUDITH316 4/7/2013 1:31AM

    Hi Darlene, I want you to know I am praying for you and believing for a good report.

Father God I come to You in Jesus Name and bring my beloved sister to the throne room of grace and ask You to touch my sisters body bringing healing to the heart function, that all signs and symptoms my sister is having will be gone in Jesus name that there will be total restoration and healing from the crown of Darlene's head to the soles of her feet in Jesus Name I pray, amen..

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    Hoping all will be ok for you. emoticon

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BLESSED DAY

Sunday, March 24, 2013

Today didn't start out to be too great. I knew I was going out for lunch, so I decided to just have a smoothie and a cup of coffee for breakfast. When I went to put milk in my coffee I found the milk had soured, so that coffee went down the drain. I opened the other bottle of milk, and that had curdled as well. There went that cup down the drain. I opted to go down to Jesse's Kitchen to have toast and coffee and visit with a few people who had gone there for breakfast.
My BIL picked me up at 11:30 A.M., and we were off to Boston Pizza to meet the rest of the gang.
My dh's siblings get together for lunch when one of them has a birthday. This month there were two birthdays being celebrated, two of my SIL's. We had a lovely visit and chat over lunch. When the time came to pay the bill, I found that my meal had been covered as well, because I had had a birthday in February. What a nice treat.

After I got home I decided to go to Safeway to pick up a couple of things I needed. I hadn't planned to buy much, so I didn't take my little grocery cart I normally use. Of course I ended up buying more than I planned, and I ended up carrying 8 bags of groceries home. It is a good little walk from Safeway, especially when the sidewalks are slippery and wet. I stopped part way home to rest and a lady across the street saw me and called me and asked me if I would like a ride home. She got her dh to give me a ride the rest of the way. He drove me right up to the door of my apartment. What a blessing. Someone up there sure is watching out for me.

I enjoyed the rest of my day and I even have some salad left over from lunch today to have for my lunch tomorrow. I picked up some soup from Jesse's and now I can come home from church and have lunch ready in two minutes.

  
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MAKULEWAHINE 4/8/2013 5:16PM

    Isn't it nice when people act kindly towards us when we are having a rough day? You are truly blessed. Without the curdled milk you would never have known what kind people there are out there:)

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JUDITH316 3/31/2013 11:20PM

    Dropping by to wish you a Blessed Easter Sunday and Monday, hope your day is blessed as you Celebrate Jesus with your Church Family and Family and Friend's.. emoticon emoticon

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JUDITH316 3/29/2013 3:48AM

    Hi Darlene, sounds like an awesome day you had, that is so cool that the lady saw you with all those groceries and asked if you would like a ride, and the neat thing is they took you right to your door, that is such a blessing of the Lord, indeed, God is watching over you and continues to bless you and meet your needs. Praise God, I am so thankful I have you as my friend, what a blessing and an inspiration you are to me. Thanks for all your visits and the encouraging comments you leave on my blogs, they are always so appreciated... emoticon emoticon

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UP-DATE ON EATING PLAN AND HEALTH ISSUES

Thursday, March 07, 2013

I have been following a new healthy eating plan suggested by my chiropractor. It is called Maximzied Living. We had a 30-day challenge to see how much weight we could lose. So far I have lost 8 pounds. I haven't been able to do the exercises, as I have been diagnosed with a sluggish heart. I am not sure exactly what this means, but I am not doing too much exercise, except walking when I can. I received a call from my cardiologist the other day, and I have an appointment for Thursday, March 14, 2013 at 2:30 P.M. I was told to bring all my medication so that the doctor can see what I have been taking. I am going to take not only my prescribed medication, but the vitamins I have been using as well. I have a friend at my church who goes to the same cardiologist, and she told me that he is very thorough. I am sure he will put me through a battery of tests. Hopefully I will get some answers.

I have been very busy over the last few days, as aunt is coming for a visit. She is my birth-mother's sister-in-law, and she and her niece made a trip all the way here just so that she could meet me. She is 80 years old. I am so looking forward to meeting her. She is staying with my birth cousin who lives nearby. She called me tonight to let me know she arrived safely. She said the roads were good all the way. She and my cousin are coming to pick me up tomorrow morning at 9:30 a.m., and we are going to go back to my cousins and spend some time there. We don't know what we will be doing, but we are going to spend the whole day together. I put together a photo album of some shots of me when I was little to when I graduated from high school, when I got married and some pictures of my children and their children. She has been so good to me. She sent me a lot of pictures of my family. I did not know what my birth father looked like until she sent me a picture. She even sent me a picture of my parents' wedding. I have a brother and two sisters that I have never met. I am hoping they will give me a chance to get to know them. They want me to have a DNA test to prove I am their sister. We'll see how things work out in that regard. After I spend some time with my aunt I am planning on contacting my siblings again and see if we can arrange to share the cost of the DNA test. I am willing to do it, I just can't afford to pay for all of it. I am taking it one day at a time, although at 67, I think I would like to move things along a little quicker.
I am so looking forward to spending the day with my aunt tomorrow. We have spent a lot of time talking on the phone, but I am so excited to get to meet her.
I'll blog again when I find out some of the results of my visit with the cardiologist.

  
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JUDITH316 3/23/2013 2:51AM

    Wishing you a blessed weekend, keep up the great work my friend, I cheer you on... emoticon emoticon emoticon

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JUDITH316 3/21/2013 2:45AM

    Hi Darlene, came back to read your blog again, wanted you to know my prayers are with you, you are a rich blessing in which I thank God, thanks for your friendship and thanks for your support. I am believing for good reports from your doctor's... HUGS.. emoticon emoticon

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ROZEEROZGQBB1 3/14/2013 12:26PM

    Hi Darlene. I have been praying for your today's appointment with the cardiologist. I pray that all will go well with this appointment and that Jesus has given the doc wisdom in what needs to be done.

How neat that you have a chance to meet your birth siblings. I pray that they will help you with the expenses of the DNA costs. It will be a neat reunion when that is all over.

Let us know how the doc's appointment went.

I have been busy on my book again - it is a HUGE undertaking writing a book! I need Jesus to help me with it. I almost finished with Christmas pics that He wants me to do. At Valentine's Day. One side of our suite had Valentine's decoration and the other side had Christmas.

Keeping you in our prayers.

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JUDITH316 3/11/2013 3:23PM

    Just dropping by to let you know I am emoticon for you, sending you some emoticon and emoticon God Bless...

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JUDITH316 3/8/2013 1:56AM

    Awesome, congrats my friend, you are doing a great job, I stand with you cheering you on your journey... I am looking forward and believing for a good report you will receive from your cardiologist, Father God I come to You in Jesus Name and pray for my sister and friend that You would touch her body and bring total healing from the crown of her head to the soles of her feet, I trust You Father to continue to take care of my sister providing for all her needs and keeping her safe and free from all disease, in Jesus Name I pray, amen... Love and Hugs, keep up the great work! emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

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