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RE: I'm Back, After A, Very Very, Long Break.

Friday, January 31, 2014

RE: I'm back, after a very very, long break, i'll be, very very, honest with, you now, i have not had the energy to go out much, so have been hiding away indoors.

If & when i do go out, it has only to see my counsellor at Beaconsfield Clinic (Elm Lodge) in Grantham, my counsellor's name is Rob Sharpe.

If any of you have seen the Film (Ugly Coyote), it stars (Adam Garcia), well my counsellor Rob Sharpe looks just exactly like the actor (Adam Garcia).

Rob has helped me, to come to terms with all the stuff that had happened to me last summer, only my thought is that when these, sessions end, that i will feel sad & unhappy.

Which is what i am afraid of, i will have at some point, got to go to see a Physiciatrist, which i am not looking forwards to, as i have only just been able to open up to Rob bout my problems.

Only if i have to tell somebody else all about my problems, it's going to put all my hard work backwards, (opening up to people), at the moment, Rob Sharpe, is the only man i trust.

He has given me the confidence, to be able to write things down in 2 books, which is what i have started to do, the names of the 2 books, that i have started filling in are as follows.

1) Things that make me relaxed.

2) Things that make me cry.












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    It is hard to find someone who reads you so well. I hope that you have a great deal of success and have an easy transition when the time comes.

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    Hope as time passes the first book gets lots of entries and the second book fewer. Big step in the right direction to get out and about.

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    emoticon So glad that you have taken a positive step with Rob. God bless you as you continue moving forward.
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    Sending positive thoughts your way!

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SALAM4545 2/2/2014 7:31PM

    emoticon I'm sending positive thoughts your way. I've spent quite a bit of time in therapy myself, and as hard as it was at first, I am so much better for having done it. I wish the same for you. Blessed Be!

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PATTYKLAVER 2/2/2014 1:42PM

    Glad you are back, that you have a great counselor and that you are writing things down. I have notebooks where I journal and where I put in motivational saying that inspire me. I will look back at them occasionally - mostly at the motivational one. I am hoping that you can possibly find another counselor as opposed to a psychiatrist - somehow I find counselors easier to speak with. I wish the best for you.

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MSBOOTCAMP 2/1/2014 9:45PM

    How about going for a short walk every day?

Some things your body can work out by using your muscles. Exercising.

What sports, athletic games or fitness activities do you like?

Very best, MsBootcamp

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    Welcome back!

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    emoticon Nice to have you with us again! emoticon I'm glad you have found someone to talk with. If your counselor has notes of your meetings, with your permission, these notes can be shared with your new doc and reduce the need to repeat everything. I wishing you the best with the new doc. Sending positive vibes out to you to find another. emoticon emoticon

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    emoticon emoticon You are taking steps in the right direction! I'm happy for you and you should be too! If you do end up spending time with a psychiatrist then you will probably find them to be helpful to you in many ways. I like your books you are starting now. You know this is a technique that spark people suggests as well. It's a way to explore and illuminate your feelings. emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

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GARDENCHRIS 2/1/2014 11:43AM

    it will be worth in the the end...... I spent 7.5 years in therapy .... you are worth it.

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PHOENIXINFERNO 2/1/2014 11:36AM

    Welcome back. Moving through stressful times can be difficult, but as long as we keep trying we are heading in the right direction!!

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    emoticon "little by little, inch by inch. By the yard it's hard by the inch it's a cinch. Never stare up the stairs just step up the steps" Praying for you! emoticon

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    emoticon Looks as though you are headed in the right direction. Remember, your Spark Friends are also willing to help you!

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RE: Yesterday Was My, Tribunal Hearing It, Did Not Go, Well !!!! !!!!.

Friday, December 13, 2013

RE: Yesterday, was my Tribunal Hearing it, did not go, well !!!! !!!!, as i got asked, all kinds of personal questions !!!! !!!! !!!! !!!!, most of which i could not answer.

Now i have the agonising wait, of finding out the outcome of my Appeal, in the post, as soon as i find out i will let you know.

The waiting time is gonna be stressful enough, as i have a very very bad feeling that i may be going back on 2 JSA (Job Seekers Allowance), which is not much to live on (money - wise), if you know what i mean !!!! !!!! !!!! !!!!.

Please wish me all the luck in the world, my lovely lovely, (Spark Family), as i am gonna need it, + i really really do appreciate all of your advice, which you always give to me.

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COLOR-BLUE 12/22/2013 10:13PM

    Melanie,

I'm praying for you! It doesn't matter what it looks like to you or to others, or even how it feels, all is in DIVINE ORDER!!! Our Lord and Savior, is the one who knows all! He's the beginning and the end. He knew and ordained our lives before the world even began. We do have the choice of free will, but God is ultimately in control. What ever happens and what ever you choose to do, God is right there in the midst of it! He's going through this fiery furnace trial with you and HE WILL BRING YOU OUT AS PURE GOLD! Find a Word and stand on it! "Greater is He that is in me, than he that is in the world!"

Be blessed,

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    Good luck.

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    Keep the faith and things will work out!!!

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    Praying for you!

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    I sure hope things work out in your favor. I pray that your needs will be met well. Keep the faith, and enjoy your Christmas and holiday season.

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    Hope all goes well!

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JUNEAU2010 12/16/2013 10:25PM

    Fingers crossed!

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    sending postive vibes form Cleveland for you

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    How long until you hear? Good luck.

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SCOTMAMA 12/14/2013 11:43PM

    Hope the outcome is fair and good. If you just get the income for people seeking jobs, do you think you'll be able to find a job somewhere?

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OLDEROWL 12/14/2013 8:37PM

    Ms Jackson, From what you wrote in your blogs, my heart tells me that you have the strength to succeed. Don't fret about what you can't control. Look at the positive. If they think you should be on JSA, then maybe they see an ability in you that you are missing. If they are wrong and you have to go back to the Tribunal again you will be better prepared, as you know now what questions they ask.

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MOMMA_BEAR_69 12/14/2013 8:32PM

    Praying for you and a good outcome. God will provide though...and He knows all your needs.
Blessings and hugs,
Helen

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IAM_HIS 12/14/2013 2:05PM

    Please do not think too much about it--1). Worrying will not change anything 2). Worrying can make you ill 3). Prayer is a great weapon to us.

Stay positive and remember, Your heavenly Father is in control.

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    I'm saying a prayer that you find a satisfactory outcome. And wishing you the strength to handle it ~ what ever they decide! emoticon

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    I hope things go your way! Praying!!

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SKIDEE 12/14/2013 10:24AM

    I'm not in the UK so I don't fully understand your circumstances, but I'm thinking this is something like disability payments? If you are a Christian and believe that God is sovereign, then you know that He will provide. Maybe not as you wish or want, but what you need. I know that sounds trite, but it is what Scripture tells us. I'm praying for God to give you the trust/faith to BELIEVE Him for that, no matter what the government tribunal decides.

Although we are not struggling financially, we are reminded of this truth daily as my husband was told 5 1/2 years ago that he had 3-6 months to live. We live day to day, trusting (mostly...begging for faith to FULLY trust) in His plan for us. We know each day is a gift from Him.

So if you are a child of the Living God, rest in that. Jo

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    I am sorry Ms Jackson! But you don't know anything for certain just yet ? so don't fret! It may have gone better than you thought. Prayers to you! Keep your chin up!!!!

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EVWINGS 12/13/2013 10:54PM

    I am praying you will receive the answer you want. My husband had a speedy positive outcome, while my fight continues (since 2000), and I am doubting I'll ever have happy news. But I also know that the Tribunal consists of man-made laws and opinions and they are the ones making the decisions - right or wrong.

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    Things may not be bad at all, I know it's hard but you have to be patient. Be positive in your thinking, since you don't know how it will go, you might as well assume the best will happen, since it is as likely to happen as not. Chin up and congratulate yourself for getting through a stressful situation. emoticon

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MAW_OH 12/13/2013 10:04PM

    All things pass, and this tough time will too. You now know the kinds of questions that are asked, so if you have to do this again, you will be prepared. Well wishes from across the pond!

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RE: Last Weekend, I Celebrated, My 10, Year Anniversary, In &, @ My, Flat (Sunday 23rd, November 200

Thursday, November 28, 2013

RE: Last weekend, i celebrated, my 10, year Anniversary, in &, @ my, Flat (Sunday 23rd November 2003 - Saturday 23rd November 2013).

I cannot, believe how, time flown past, a lot, has happened, in 10, years !!!!, !!!! !!!!, !!!! see, all my, past Blogs, for further, relevant information. TBC TBC TBC TBC
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    Time flies so fast doesn't it. Congrats.

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    Yay! Streamers and confetti!!! emoticon emoticon Emmy

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    That's great! Time sure passes

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    Time flies! Here's to a happier and healthier next 10!

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    I've been living in my daughter's condo for 3 1/2 years now and I can't believe it ~ especially when I see all the stuff that I have accumulated in this short time. Time to organize and get rid of stuff!

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RE: My Upcoming Tribunal Hearing.

Thursday, November 21, 2013

RE: My upcoming Tribunal Hearing, as many of you, know i am dreading, this day which i, have now got a, date for & that, date is 12/12/2013 Thursday, 12th December 2013.

I will not be, up online that particular, day so i will, let you all know, / tell you how, i got on the, next day i'm hoping, it will be good news, (that i will, have won back all, of my ESA/.

INCAPACITY BENEFIT the full, amount eg Back Payments, from when i lost, it on Monday 25th, February 2013 this year), this will be given, to both my Mum, & my Sister.

As they have been, helping me to pay, off all of my, Household Bills ever since, i lost my ESA, / INCAPACITY BENEFIT @, the beginning of this year.

I will need all, the luck that i, can get to be, able to win this, Tribunal Hearing a 2nd, time i'm hoping that, i will never ever, have to go through, this whole fiasco ever, again.

As this whole procedure, completely stressess me out, !!!! !!!! !!!! !!!!, even now as it's, 3 weeks 2day that, i attend this Tribunal Hearing, i am beginning to, feel stressed out again.

Please wish me all, the luck in the, world as i go, through this horrifying upcoming, Tribunal Hearing my lovely lovely, SparkFriends. emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

  
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ADRIENNIE 12/13/2013 2:42PM

    Worrying does not empty Tomorrow of its trouble, it empties today of its strength

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    Good luck!

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    Prayers and Keep a positive outlook
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    BEST WISHES and PRAYERS

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    Best wishes!

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SCOTMAMA 11/25/2013 5:12PM

    Wow! You've got a zillion friends! All wishing you good luck!

With all of us pulling for you, surely the decision will be in your
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WRWW13 11/25/2013 4:13PM

    Hang in there Sweetie, U R much loved and we are all on your side. Keep us posted. there are tons of wonderful suggestions here for you. My favorite stress relief is a long, glorious bubble bath, just had to throw that in the mix of suggestions. U can do this. Praying for a positive outcome.

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HERMIEME 11/24/2013 12:48AM

    Best wishes to you my dear friend!!!!! Will be thinking of you--recently gone thru the similar thing myself. One time they asked me to pay back everything they'd given me for 2 years--a letter from the right social worker saved me. You deserve your benefits and you will get them back. I know how horribly stressful these things can be. Thank heavens for family to help us out. emoticon

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SILVERANGEL6 11/23/2013 11:02PM

    Wow, great advice from the Spark Army of Lovely People!!
Good from Boss, & Druid Princess......it's a process you can be very confident with, as it's not you they are judging, but the process. If you know you are right, and have presented all the evidence, then you will get a great outcome, just be confident, fake it if necessary, be nice, smile a lot, be positive!.....maybe slip a small Crystal in your pocket that you can handle when speaking, it will give you positivity in your voice....
I feel you will have a good outcome, I will send you Reiki healing & hold you in my daily prayers until I hear about the outcome...Good Luck, Love & Light my dear....

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OLDEROWL 11/23/2013 6:31PM

    Keep positive, Don't let it stress you out. Keep on setting positive goals and continue posting them on your Spark page. December 12 will come and go, but your life will have positive out comes if you keep the positive outlook on life that I see in your blogs.

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-WISPY- 11/23/2013 6:17PM

    WOW lady, you sure do have a lot of support in Spark people. I have been meaning respond to the this thread since I got back from holiday.

Sending love and prayers for strength and courage.

Hugs Wispy

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DAVEYSHADOW 11/23/2013 11:20AM

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TRAVELNISTA 11/23/2013 9:49AM

    Sending emoticon and emoticon Praying they do right by you!

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IAMWINNING 11/23/2013 9:13AM

    I pray for peace for you, starting now and extending beyond the Tribunal.

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STARTINGINLIMBO 11/23/2013 7:18AM

    I hope all goes well. Counting the days I'm sure. It'll be good to have it done and over with.

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JUMPINJULIE 11/23/2013 3:01AM

    Good luck. Sending prayers your way.

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EILEEN828 11/23/2013 2:26AM

    Sending you best wishes that all will be worked out. Believe that will. emoticon

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JAXMOMMY 11/22/2013 9:43PM

    Sending luck your way! Stay confident and assured in your needs.

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D7TOHIM 11/22/2013 8:37PM

    Well, I say, it's not luck that you need, but the Almighty God! Rest assured that if you are His child, He is watching out for you!! He knows what is best. emoticon - Diane -

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PATIENTHAND 11/22/2013 7:28PM

    sounds like dealing with social security disability here in the states.. been there, its HORRIBLE. I think bureaucracy no matter the country is a pain in the back side. I pray all goes well for you

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TEMPENATIVE 11/22/2013 12:52PM

    scary! wishing you good luck and a prayer for relief from your anxiety and freedom from fear. emoticon

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MANDYLOVE_76 11/22/2013 10:57AM

    Good luck.

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SUGARSMOM2 11/22/2013 9:38AM

  good luck . I hope you got what you wanted .

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WINACHST 11/22/2013 8:51AM

    Good luck!

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HEISTHEANSWER 11/22/2013 7:42AM

    good luck

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LKWQUILTER 11/22/2013 7:01AM

    Hang in there. ((HUGS))

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CAKAROO 11/22/2013 5:42AM

    good luck!!

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BOSS61 11/22/2013 5:08AM

    Late to the party and ignorant to the back-story, but...

I do a lot of expert witness testimony. I assure you that attorneys, judges, jury members and experts all put their pants on one leg of the time, all have insecurities, all pass gas in bed, etc. Self-confidence is your ally and will carry you far. Have strength in your convictions!

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LACEYKYLE 11/22/2013 12:43AM

   

Wow!! Look at all this support you have!!! No matter what happens we're all here for you!!

Good luck emoticon and I'm praying for you!!

Love to you,
Dari

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JUNEAU2010 11/21/2013 8:14PM

    Prayers and blessings!

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RENATA144 11/21/2013 8:07PM

  I will pray for you to have a successful outcome. God Bless you emoticon

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MOTLEM 11/21/2013 8:07PM

    Love and light to you from Tasmania. emoticon

Best of luck too, and you'll be fine! Have no idea how it works in the UK, but here in Australia it took me 2 times up before the board before approval for DSP and they back paid when it was finally approved.

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FITWITHIN 11/21/2013 7:25PM

    I will say a prayer for you that everything will go in your favor. Hopefully this nightmare will be coming to an end soon. God bless!

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    I am sending positive thoughts your way. emoticon

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MCJULIEO 11/21/2013 7:03PM

    Good luck!

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SLACHETKA103145 11/21/2013 5:39PM

    Good Luck and may you have only positive thoughts that you allow to replace the stress!!!!!

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IGNITEME101 11/21/2013 5:24PM

    You HAVE MUCH TO BE THANKFUL WITH YOUR FAMILY HELPING YOU OUT.

I'm praying that GOD will give the Tribunal Board wisdom. I know how frightening this is when you are dependent on 'man's decisions in regard to you own life.

Would love to know what tribe land located in the boundaries of which state' or if outside of the U.S. WHCIH COUNTRY, the Tribunal Board is with so I can pray more effectively for you.





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RE: My Spare Bedroom, Refurbishing Plans Went, Up In Smoke.

Friday, November 08, 2013

RE: My Spare Bedroom, refurbishing plans went, up in smoke, as i have, soooo not been, able to start, doing it yet, as for the, past few days, i have been, in Bed ill, with a Cold.

Bearing in mind, that i have, had my FLU, JAB !!!! !!!!, !!!! !!!! !!!!, for this year, !!!! !!!! !!!!, which makes it, even worse at, the moment as all, i want to, do is SLEEP, !!!! !!!! !!!!.

I can not, even eat anything, as it hurts, to even attempt, to eat anything, at all so, all i have, been having are, hot drinks Tea, etc etc etc, as that is, all i can, manage at present.

As soon as, i am better, i will start, doing out my, Spare Bedroom.

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IAM_HIS 11/17/2013 8:12AM

    Sure hope that flu bug is not gone. It is awful!

I will be waiting to hear about your spare bedroom make-over!

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GEORGIAGIRL26 11/16/2013 7:02AM

    Sorry to hear you were sick.
I hope that you are doing better now.
Have a great weekend sister!
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JACKIEPB 11/16/2013 1:18AM

    I hope you're over the worst of it and back in the swing of things by now. emoticon

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ZANYGIRL1 11/13/2013 1:22PM

    So sorry to hear that you're not well. Prayers for a speedy recovery!!

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KAYLSLYNN 11/12/2013 5:04PM

    I HOPE THIS FINDS YOU FEELING BETTER. TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF.

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PLATINUM755 11/11/2013 11:20PM

    That's not up in smoke, that's postponed! Take care of yourself...you are your #1 priority. emoticon

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MCGS62 11/11/2013 2:57PM

    hope you feel better soo!!

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ISTRALOUISE 11/10/2013 7:11PM

    I am so sorry that you got sick! I echo the comments about the shot being dead, but it does cause an immune response so there can be some reaction, since your body *thinks* it has a live virus on its hands. I'm not sure what all that entails except fever.

I was told here in the US that they usually pick 3-4 strains and that the viruses are always changing and forming new ones. If you get one of the 3 or 4 in the shot it should give you immunity, but if you get one not in the shot, the hope is that the body will still have a partial response.

I've been getting the shot hit and miss for the last 8-9 years, but I don't honestly tell the difference in years between when I do or when I don't. I have chronic asthma though, so the doctors, if they think about it, usually want me to take one.

I also echo BigPawSup... Forget the room.. It will be there to work on when you feel better! So work on it then!

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CBRINKLEY401 11/10/2013 4:12PM

    I'm sorry that you are under the weather, but RELIEVED as when I saw the title, I was afraid you were going to say you had a fire instead!

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KIM22211 11/10/2013 2:54PM

    bummer!!! Hope you feel better soon! Yes, at least it is now done for the year!

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MRSKATEDUVALL 11/10/2013 2:19PM

    I hope you feel better soon.

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FLORIDASUN 11/10/2013 8:59AM

    Poor dear...don't you know the ONLY year I ever got a flu shot was the year I GOT it and got it BAD!

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LACEYKYLE 11/9/2013 11:36PM

    I'm praying you feel better soon so you can start on your spare bedroom.
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KARENO5 11/9/2013 10:25PM

    So sorry you're ill. I hope you feel better soon.

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SILVERWITCH59 11/9/2013 8:05PM

    Feel Better :)

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MCJULIEO 11/9/2013 6:07PM

    Hoping that you start feeling better soon!

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HEISTHEANSWER 11/9/2013 5:38PM

    Get well soooooooon!

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NOMORESTALLING 11/9/2013 5:15PM

    Well I know how life can throw a monkey wrench into the best laid plans!
FRUSTRATING to say the least. But life happens and we deal with it so take it in stride and just concentrate on getting better.
As they say it'll be waiting for you when you are able again.
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SHAYSIE 11/9/2013 5:04PM

    Feel better!! There is always time to redecorate. emoticon

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VONBLACKBIRD 11/9/2013 4:17PM

    So sorry you are under the weather. I hope you get to feeling better soon.

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PATTYKLAVER 11/9/2013 8:39AM

    You have had such a bad year - I wish I could be there to help you and to give you a big hug. You've have hung in there so well. I'm proud of you.

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REFFIE1 11/9/2013 5:40AM

   
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DEE_APPEAL 11/9/2013 12:58AM

    Get well soon. Try a little lemon and honey in your tea?

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    Feel better soon

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MISSLISA1973 11/9/2013 12:34AM

    I am sorry you are sick, but I am glad your house did not burn down. That is what I thought happened when I read the title of your blog. I hope you are up and at 'em soon, refurbishing like crazy. emoticon

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    Hope you feel better soon!!!

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DJ4HEALTH 11/8/2013 8:54PM

    emoticon That is one reason why I will never get the flu shot or the pnuemonia shot again. I don't care if people say that you can't get it from the shot, I have heard too many that get the flu right after getting the shot.

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JUNEAU2010 11/8/2013 8:34PM

    Take it easy and don't dive into that project too soon! Repeat illness is no fun.
I hope you feel 100% better very soon!

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MOTLEM 11/8/2013 7:36PM

    emoticonHang in there, girlfriend! emoticon

DH and I refuse the flu jab because we've seen too many people come down sick after having it. We say, if it ain't broke, don't fix it!
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MERRYMARY42 11/8/2013 7:15PM

    feel better soon, hope it is just a cold, and not the flu, but I do know how bad a cold makes a person feel emoticon

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JAXMOMMY 11/8/2013 6:03PM

    Focus on getting better. I've had a nagging cold for the past 3 weeks and it has wiped me out! Try to take in some kind of nourishment with some soup or something! Rest and feel better!

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FITFRIT 11/8/2013 5:59PM

    I hope you feel better soon.

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IAMWINNING 11/8/2013 5:55PM

    Just focus on taking care of yourself at this time.....the room will wait. The flu shot is dead - cannot make you sick; it doesn't give you a cold. Getting sick after a flu shot is coincidence - a thoroughly unpleasant coincidence. For those of us with compromised immune systems, getting a flu shot is smart, as the flu (which is respiratory) can cause deaths.

Regardless, drinking plenty of liquids is a great idea, and I second the idea of chicken soup. Take care.

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