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Tuesday, November 25, 2014

Dr. John M. Scandrett, 44, of WY, Montgomery-Stryker Funeral Home in Laramie, Services Pending

Dr. John M. Scandrett, 44, of Laramie, Wyoming was killed in a two-vehicle crash Saturday morning in Laramie. Dr. Scandrett died from injuries sustained when his vehicle rear ended a tractor-trailer on U.S. 287 near mile marker 419 at about 6:25 a.m.

Dr. Scandrett and family previously lived near Scipio. He served as a physician in Jennings County for a number of years and had volunteered as the team doctor for the JCHS football program.

Services are pending at the Montgomery-Stryker Funeral Home in Laramie

This father of 7 was an fun-loving, highly energetic, amazing Godly father, husband, and friend. Our daughter worked as their Mother's Helper after they adopted 3 brothers from the Ukraine and nearly doubled the number of their children. At first, John didn't think she was needed, but Andrea stuck to her guns and kept Candice as her helper for over a year. Candice helped homeschool and teach the brother's to speak English. She helped run everyone to their many activities, lessons, and meetings. She was a second pair of hands in chaos and crisis and while rounding up escaped goats and peacocks. They become Candice's second family.

It was because of this family that our daughter found her purpose and went to college to become a preschool teacher.

Sadly, in 2011 they moved from our area to CO, but within a year had made it possible for our daughter go out and visit them and explore CO and WY with them. They have kept in close touch ever since.

We are now heartbroken and can't see God's will in this tragedy. Candice is using her diary entries from when she worked for them to write memories of each child with their dad. It is extremely emotional and hard on her but she is determined to do this before she goes out for the funeral.

Prayers for this precious family are much appreciated and for me as I (and my husband) help our daughter through this journey of grief.

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1CRAZYDOG 11/25/2014 4:27PM

    I am so sorry for this tragedy. Prayers. So very sorry.

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ASOBFALLS 11/25/2014 10:49AM

    Oh...and we DO question God. And God allows this.
We are loved by God and our paths are perfect in His love.


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DMSPEER93 11/25/2014 10:20AM

    So sad, Heidi. Will be lifting the family, Candice, and you and your husband up.

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October is also Dyslexia Awareness Month

Sunday, October 19, 2014

As a mom of two dyslexics, this issue has been a MAJOR part of our lives, my comfort eating issues, and especially our homeschool (hence the comfort eating).
In the early years, all I could see were the DISabilities of it, especially when our son was starting 5th grade and still could not read beyond Bob Books even when we'd tried a new phonics curriculum every year since Pre-K and I have a BA in Elem. Ed.. We got him the therapies he needed to begin reading and more as time has gone on so that he now reads on grade level (even if it is slower.) Our daughter graduated college Magna Cum Laude even though she had to read each of her textbooks 3x. She is now a pre-school teacher watching for those early signs of dyslexia in her students.

The Lord has been showing me lately a new way of looking at Dyslexia. It is NOT a DISability but a UNIQUEability.

Here's a great video The Power of Dyslexia


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VALLITTLEMAMA5 10/19/2014 11:00PM

    Thanks for sharing this! What a great perspective!

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1CRAZYDOG 10/19/2014 5:05PM

    Congratulations! That is awesome.

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CINDHOLM 10/19/2014 3:40PM

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Thursday, October 16, 2014


I haven't had a regular workout routine since May. I over-trained for a potential 5K in the spring and then lost motivation while healing. Then gardening took over. Then my husband lost his job in June. Then I lost more motivation as the weather didn't always cooperate with me being able to go out and walk or hike. Then it just became a habit to NOT work out. Then school started with our son's senior year and all that entails as his main teacher, guidance counselor, and administrator of all paperwork, transcripts, college apps and visits, scholarship apps, tests, etc. I'm also teaching 2 classes at our co-op and those take a lot of prep, computer time, and grading. Doctor change also happened this summer along with an Elimination Diet where I discovered Wheat is a sensitivity so major diet changes again and again by myself so adjusting to making 2 meals each meal again. My husband being told he wasn't wanted for a job because they were Christian-phobic. Twice. On a July 4th walk around the nearby lake and long talk with God, He showed me His plan for me after our son goes off to college in May...I will be opening my own home business for screening, therapy, and tutoring dyslexics, etc. Then garden canning, garden clean-up, and garden bed moving (to sunnier location on our wooded property) Car troubles. Mom's health scare (A-Fib) More and more excuses piled up and now it is mid-Oct. Bad habits have returned--I'm back on Diet Dr. Pepper and eating too much junk (gluten-free, but still junk!) I continued to find more and more reasons to not work out. Letters from our insurance company about lawyers looking into our assets to sue us concerning a wreck our son was involved with a year ago are in the mail.
Husband is back at work where God is blessing him beyond our hopes, son is enrolled at Automotive Institute at Kokomo Ivy Tech. Co-op classes still take too much sitting time, I'm overwhelmed and stressed by senior year stuff and my home business start up To Do List. But I've come to realize.....I am too stressed out NOT to work out...I NEED IT!!

I am on Fall Break this week and have made time for friends, catching up on SP articles, and trying to find my motivation.

I am using this Spark Article to help me get motivated once again.

I could really use your encouragement.

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POCOPRESTO 10/17/2014 6:36AM

    Sounds like you've really been having a hard time. Hang in there - good for you for making time for friends and regaining motivation emoticon emoticon I think your comment "I am too stressed NOT to work out" is really good - it's the times when we don't feel like looking after ourselves properly that we actually need to the most!

Here's hoping things get easier for you & you find the motivation to do what you need to emoticon


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VALLITTLEMAMA5 10/16/2014 10:42PM

    Like the Patch the Pirate song says, "Little by little, inch by inch. By the yard it's hard! By the inch, what a cinch! Never stare up the stairs; just step up the steps. . . "

I'm stopping to pray for you right now! Hang in there!

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CINDHOLM 10/16/2014 8:24PM

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DELIA38961 10/16/2014 6:52PM

    emoticon life does tend to get extremely in the way of our goals sometimes but im glad you are getting motivated again ...I love what your fortune holds when your son goes off to college it sounds wonderful

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1CRAZYDOG 10/16/2014 3:04PM

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So sorry it's been such a difficult time. **SIGH** You're in my prayers.

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LITTLEGUYSMOM1 10/16/2014 2:53PM

    You sure do have quite a bit going on in your life! I'll be lifting up prayers for peace and God's presence to surround you.
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Spring 2014

Tuesday, June 17, 2014

This spring has been a strange spring for me. For one thing, everyone is working and I am home alone. This is a huge change for this homeschooling mama. 22 yo dd is working at preschool and their summer camps. 17yo ds is working nearly full time for a landscaping company.

I thought after all these years I'd love being home alone. After all the years of go, go, go. After all the years of balancing home, family, homeschooling.

I thought I'd love having ME time.

Instead I got lazy. I quit exercising. I sat and read. I sat and ate. I sat and did internet. I was just tired. Tired. Tired. Tired.

I did a bit of gardening, but not as much as I thought I would. I didn't hike. I sat. I didn't work out. I sat. I didn't eat right. I munched on chips. every day. several times a day. I got hooked on Diet Dr. Pepper again.

I did get started on my To Do List, but most of that required sitting--updating 17yo son's transcript, figuring how to get a Senior Year organized, typing stuff up for the co-op classes I will teach in the fall, etc.

I've gotten really flabby. Lazy. Tired.

So, I made a different choice.

I started small -- 1 mile. It felt good! I did it again. It felt really good. I lifted a few weights. The strength came back and felt so good. I drank more water. I skipped the chips. I have more energy.

It is true.......1 good choice encourages more good choice. Working out for 20 - 30 minutes makes me feel good instead of wears me out.

Burn out is real. Old habits die hard and must be replaced with good ones.

Spring of 2014 is almost over and so is my lazy, chip eatin', pop-slurpin' ,sittin' around, boring, tired-feeling spring.

It's time to get moving and motivated again. Summer is here!
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BLAZINGSWORD 9/17/2014 7:11AM

    How are you doing now Heidi, now that fall is here? I hear where you are coming from. My hubby passed 18 months ago and it has taken me a while to get back on track.

I, like you did the same thing, made one change at a time for better and it snowballed!

I have joy in my life and a lot of it has to do with being active once more.

You go for it girl! emoticon

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1CRAZYDOG 6/17/2014 4:40PM

    Times of change are the times when old habits start knocking on the door again! **SIGH**

But, you're back and ready to do battle. Go for it!

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CINDHOLM 6/17/2014 2:22PM

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LITTLEGUYSMOM1 6/17/2014 11:45AM

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Good for you for getting back into your healthy habits one by one! You are so right, each good choice encourages more good choices.

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Where is the determination and will power?

Monday, February 24, 2014

I sure needed this article..... www.sparkpeople.com/resource/motivat

My emotions are going all over the place lately. Winter blahs, grief, hormones, and weight gain have all taken a toll on me this winter.

I lose 1 lbs, gain 1 lbs, lose 1, gain 2, repeat. For months now, meaning a very slow weight gain and I don't like how I look and feel once again.

I try to stay positive---looking at all the weight I have kept off - nearly 50! And all the health progress I've made---(see a previous blog).

I am exercising like I haven't been able to do in over 15 years!! And yet.....
I am making much better, healthier food choices than EVER! And yet.....

Some days I feel like giving up....it is so hard to eat healthy in this house. Desserts, chips, ice cream, soda pop, Little Debbie cakes, pasta, pasta, pasta, chocolate, chocolate, chocolate, beef 4-5x week abound. I feel doomed to weigh 180lbs until the kids (age 22 and 17) leave home. If I don't buy it, they do. I do not enjoy cooking, so I refuse to cook 2 separate meals for every meal lunch and supper.

I try to change up my meals a bit so they are healthier choices.....baked potato with chili sauce instead of hotdog, bun, and chili sauce or salad with tuna mixed with avacado instead of the Kraft mac -n-cheese and tuna, salads, salads, and more salads while everyone else has potatoes, pasta, and bread but it doesn't seem to be enough to keep the weight from slowing coming back.

I had lost 65 lbs. I was at 162. I am now fighting to keep it at 180. ugh.

I've even joined a challenge team to see if competition and accountability would help. Sadly, for my wonderful teammates, NO. (so very sorry WRJ&G team mates!)

I am so much more tired.
I am more achy.
I am more sad.
I am more fat.

I just don't understand how to live my family's life and stay thinner.

Where did my determination and will power go?????????????

I did it before with the same foods in this house.

Where is that determination I had before?

I am a VERY strong-willed person....why am I not applying it to the foods I put in my mouth?

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JYGETSFIT 2/25/2014 1:36AM

    Try not to be so hard on yourself, you are in a difficult situation. I like what any of the comments said but I agree with JOHNNMARTINMILES the most. Get as calm as you can be, imagine a blank canvas and then dream about/imagine what or who you want to be, be as detailed as you like. Once you are done, let it all go. Hand it over to a higher power if you believe in one. This is a great practice.

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MNABOY 2/24/2014 11:56PM

    For me November to March have been bad motivation to eat healthy times for the last 6 years. Seems my surgery month in December and rehab is in good form by March? Have to have surgeries when wife can help immediately after, she teaches out of town. two knees, back and renal have taken toll but over all I have made major advances with drift back during the Thanksgiving to March time. We will do better and try to be steadier?

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1CRAZYDOG 2/24/2014 9:07PM

    You've had stress, and that definitely affects the body, and life just doesn't stop coming @ you! So, just realize you're not alone.

Your kids are old enough that if they didn't like what I prepared, they could make themselves a PB&J or the like. But I too just simply don't have the time to make separate meals.


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NIKIZAHA 2/24/2014 1:52PM

    You are not doomed to anything!! emoticon

I know what your problem is. You THINK that you can't move on. And you are terribly scared as well.

It happened to me too. I stayed stuck at more or less the same weight for months. A few pounds up (after a few days of indulgence and binging) and then a few pounds down. And then again.

And then I realized that I didn't believe I could do better. And another thing. It's comfortable here. Not too fat any more. It's already amazing how I've changed.... it's kind of hard to try more.

Yes, I didn't want to pay the price. And the price is dearer now than it was at the beginning. The weight doesn't come off as easily as it used to. And I didn't want to "suffer".

So I asked myself if I was really pleased to stay where I was.

And I also asked myself if I really couldn't bear a little more "pain".

Yes, it feels good to be able to eat more. To be full. But the horror! The horror of the consequences! Have you forgotten?

And I decided. So get up and do it.

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NEWCHINELO 2/24/2014 12:41PM

    My dear just keep doing your best . . . we cant throw away our family,we put them in our plans,we must not give up but keep pushing emoticon

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SARAHTAIT 2/24/2014 12:12PM

    I am there with you...everything you said hit me as though it was me venting. So know you are not alone in your emotions.
Spring is coming and I know that will help you a lot. Getting outdoors has a restorative effect. Here in Georgia it is sunny and in the 60's today...and that has really made a difference for me. Hang in there....soon you will be enjoying warmer weather and feeling better....
I am here for you!

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SPARKLINGHOPE 2/24/2014 10:24AM

    emoticon I am doing the same thing... emoticon

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    Sometimes you have to put determination and will power aside and just relax, let go and visualize you success.

Make Today the Greatest Day of Your Life

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