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Bonus Son

Tuesday, September 09, 2014

I don't recall if it was a Spark Buddy or a Facebook Friend who called her stepkids "BONUS" rather than "STEP" - but I like the term, since "stepmother" has that negative connotation from all those traditional tales.

Anyway, when I first met MY bonus son, Josue, he was rather quiet and reserved.

The second time I was in Pucallpa, he was still quiet, but when I got ready to leave, he commented, "Que pena, no?" as he sat next to me and gave me a little hug.

But this time when I visited, he talked to me about his childhood, about sports, about this and that...and when I began to cry as I said good-bye to my father in law, he joined us in a group hug, and HE was crying - "Te quiero, Mami"

I hate good-byes, but this was sweet.

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INGMARIE 9/10/2014 8:33AM

    Bonus son Nice way of putting it. emoticon

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NILLAPEPSI 9/9/2014 1:38PM

    Great pics. I like that "bonus" thing.

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SAGE150 9/9/2014 9:56AM

    That is really sweet...and genuine from the heart, Shel. Definitely a "bonus" son. You are fortunate.


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GARDENCHRIS 9/9/2014 7:47AM

    aww... so sweet.

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Tuesday, September 02, 2014

I got home from Peru yesterday, after over 24 hours of time in airports and airplanes. I have to get ready for school, but first I want to say when I got on the scale yesterday (for the first time in two months) I was IN ONEDERLAND (below 200 pounds!) 198.5! And I'm still puffy, so it's probably a few pounds less than that!
This morning I got back on my bike - just 10 minutes for starters. I slacked off on the walking and the resistance band while in Peru, especially due to the heat in Pucallpa. The upside was, the heat also inhibited my appetite. And I'm not much of an "arrozero" (a person who likes to eat a lot of rice) which is served at every meal. So I ate fairly lightly.
Anyway, I presented the kids with their Peru t-shirts and little trinkets, to their great delight. And today as I get ready for MY first day of school, I wear the Peru futbol polo that Levi gave me. Later today I'll see about posting photos. But meanwhile, I'm going to try to get back to Spark tracking.

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SAGE150 9/2/2014 10:24AM

    Congratulations, Shel!!!

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NILLAPEPSI 9/2/2014 7:56AM

    Welcome home!!

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COLLEENROSTE 9/2/2014 7:45AM

    emoticon wonderful!!!!!

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ELRIDDICK 9/2/2014 7:20AM

  Thanks for sharing

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MOTTAMAMALOU 9/2/2014 7:17AM

    Sounds like you had a wonderful trip to Peru. Amazing!
ONEderland, that's amazing too! Good for you.
Take care.


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Melting in Pucallpa

Sunday, August 24, 2014

Melting in Pucallpa, here at Levi's cousin's inernet cafe with my stepdaughter, Levi's youngest. Only one computer available, so I get dibbs. Just checking accounts. Didn't get to church today - Levi wanted to organize things so's I'd have a place to stow my stuff, just as I need to clear space for HIM, for when he eventually makes it stateside. Please be in prayer for my Pucallpino pastor's family who suffered the loss of a family member. No other major news. Be back probably on Wednesday.

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SAGE150 8/26/2014 8:16PM

    So nice to hear you got to visit him. :-)

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NILLAPEPSI 8/25/2014 8:47AM

    Keep smiling!

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Keeping Warm in Pucallpa

Tuesday, August 19, 2014

Last night I woke up to the loud noise of a sudden downpour pounding on the corrugated steel roof. Ahh, SELVA! Keeping warm and happy in Pucallpa. Most of my ministry is just spending time with my in-laws, especially Papito, with whom I pass a lot of time studying the scriptures at various times during the day. I also contribute to the cooking, cleaning, and stocking the little bodega. Like today we went to Tottus (the Peruvian equivalent of Wegman's...or maybe not, maybe more like Wal Mart), mostly for makings for pizza, but also for some things for the store. Tuesday night is Bible study at "our" house. Sunday I went with in-laws to church, where Ps. Desimo Flores was delighted to see me again. I will probably not be back on line until next Wednesday, just because it's not as accessible. But while I could feasibly spend many hours online, I think it has been better spending those hours in the Word with Papito! Times with Levi are short due to his work schedule, but we have had some pleasant and animated conversations, as well as devotional time before he has to leave for work.

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JSTETSER 8/21/2014 6:11AM

    What an amazing trip! One day I will visit Peru!

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NILLAPEPSI 8/20/2014 7:34AM

    Glad you're having a good visit. emoticon

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What IS the Mark of a Christian?

Wednesday, August 13, 2014

Yesterday went with my friend/sis-in-Christ Aurora to pass the day visiting, and go with her to her church, Santidad a Jehova to receive prayer for my knee and hip. It was a... DIFFERENT church experience. The Body of Christ has many expressions. In this one, the women had LONG (un-dyed) hair and skirts. Well, I wore a skirt over my fuzzy pants so as not to offend. And in the chill, I had the combo hat-scarf that Psa. Hilda gave me, which hid the returning white, but could not hide the fact that my hair is short. I did get some hairy eyeballs, but others greeted me. Towards the close of the service, the pastor invited me to say who I was as a visitor, where I came from... so I explained I was a missionary, had been visiting churches in Lima and Chiclayo. So he invited me to come up front and share a little more. I'd left my Bible at Voz, but I could at least testify that, despite various tragedies I listed, I always had the joy and peace of the presence of the Lord; had been walking with Him since just before my 18th birthday; that life in Christ was far from boring; encouraged the youth to follow Him - that they'd never regret that.

From Colossians 2:
Freedom From Human Rules
16 Therefore do not let anyone judge you by what you eat or drink, or with regard to a religious festival, a New Moon celebration or a Sabbath day. 17 These are a shadow of the things that were to come; the reality, however, is found in Christ. 18 Do not let anyone who delights in false humility and the worship of angels disqualify you. Such a person also goes into great detail about what they have seen; they are puffed up with idle notions by their unspiritual mind. 19 They have lost connection with the head, from whom the whole body, supported and held together by its ligaments and sinews, grows as God causes it to grow.
20 Since you died with Christ to the elemental spiritual forces of this world, why, as though you still belonged to the world, do you submit to its rules: 21 “Do not handle! Do not taste! Do not touch!”? 22 These rules, which have to do with things that are all destined to perish with use, are based on merely human commands and teachings. 23 Such regulations indeed have an appearance of wisdom, with their self-imposed worship, their false humility and their harsh treatment of the body, but they lack any value in restraining sensual indulgence.

John 13:35 "By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another." Hm, doesn't say anything about skirts or hair...

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JSTETSER 8/21/2014 6:12AM

    They will know we are Christians by our love.
Go Girl, GO!

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SJG1953 8/15/2014 2:39PM

    AMEN! emoticon

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MSFROGGIE 8/13/2014 9:37PM

    Preach on, Sister!!

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