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Positive self-talk.

Monday, December 10, 2012



I cringe when I hear people say "I am so stupid" or "I just can't do anything right." As an adult, I have learned that positive self-talk is key to winning the battle of the bulge & many other challenges.

Be kind to yourself. We are all human & we all make mistakes. Instead of beating yourself up, just acknowledge that you messed up & let the past be the past. Move forward, taking with you the lessons that you learned.

When I was a teenager, I had a youth director at my church who used to say: "God don't make no junk!" I know there's a double negative in there, but I know what she meant & I truly believe that God doesn't make junk.

Today, let's create a better us & ditch the negative self-talk. If you catch yourself being to hard on yourself, immediately correct it by saying: "I am beautiful. I believe in me."



Blessings to you!! emoticon emoticon

  
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COCK-ROBIN 12/11/2012 11:47AM

    You are right on target! And I really like this blog.

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KALANTHA 12/10/2012 11:42PM

    As usual, you're right on target!

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1EMMA2011 12/10/2012 8:27PM

    Thank you so much for this reminder to be positive!! emoticon

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BIGPAWSUP 12/10/2012 12:53PM

    Very cool! Great Blog!

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KONRAD695 12/10/2012 12:40PM

    I think you are completely right. There is a saying I read "You must believe to achieve". If someone doesn't think they are beautiful, then they never will be.

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SAINTBETH 12/10/2012 11:33AM

    good advice

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KJELLYBEAN15 12/10/2012 8:08AM

    Thank you.

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    Nice! emoticon

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COCK-ROBIN 12/10/2012 7:22AM

    You are such a blessing! Thanks for your blog.

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COCK-ROBIN 12/10/2012 7:22AM

    You are such a blessing! Thanks for your blog.

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NANCYRUBIO 12/10/2012 6:29AM

    You hit it out of the park again. I hate to hear to hear a person put another down, I learned this when I was young. I finally realized I didn't have to listen when people did it to me but it took a lot longer. "God don't make no garbage"--how many times have I told people that!!

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VON_1962 12/10/2012 6:13AM

    Love it! Have a great day!

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I agree....thank you
Dee

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MARYJOANNA 12/10/2012 5:36AM

  Positive self-talk is essential. What we think comes out when we speak. Think positive and you will talk positive.

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SEPTEMBERSPIRIT 12/10/2012 5:24AM

    Very true and something I work on every day!

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Believe in yourself.

Sunday, December 09, 2012



Do you believe in yourself? Do you believe you can really do this weigh loss thing for the last time? Whatever you believe -- whether you can do it, or can't do it, you are correct!!

If you think you can do a thing or think you can't do a thing, you're right. ~ Henry Ford ~

The truth is:



Let's make a pact!! No more excuses!! Did you get that? NO MORE EXCUSES!! emoticon Let's get this weight loss gig done once & for all!! Let's work together, support each other, encourage each other. Let's get Sparking!! emoticon

Make your motivation picture collages (photos of you looking slim & trim) & post them EVERYWHERE (especially on your refrigerator). If you don't have any slim photos of yourself, find before & after photos of other people who have lost a lot of weight. Also include on your collage reasons why you want to lose this weight. Post them where you can see them every day. I even have photos of them on my cell phone as my background. Every time I go to make a call or read a txt message, I see my collage.

We CAN do this!!



Every time you pass a mirror today, I want you to say to your reflection:



Blessings to you!! emoticon emoticon


  
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COCK-ROBIN 12/9/2012 10:54PM

    Yes, I believe in myself, and I believe in you as well.

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JIGGILY 12/9/2012 5:44PM

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Thank you
Hugs Dee
xoxox

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1EMMA2011 12/9/2012 3:54PM

    I loved how you said for the last time. Yes here's to the Last Time! I just want to get to the place where I can think about other things other than losing weight! LOL Here's to moving on to MAINTAINING!!!

Thank you for such a positive blog!! You are amazing!!

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KARENLEIGH32 12/9/2012 3:47PM

    I CAN do it! We CAN do it! emoticon emoticon

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GIRLINMOTION 12/9/2012 2:18PM

    Believe!

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JACKIE542 12/9/2012 12:58PM

    Very good post, thank you. emoticon

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MSGO72 12/9/2012 12:53PM

  Great post!

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SAINTBETH 12/9/2012 12:35PM

    Good pep talk!

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NJCRONK 12/9/2012 10:45AM

  Thank you for this positive, uplifting message. I can do this, and so can you!

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PAANDRUS 12/9/2012 9:53AM

    Nice reminder...thanks!!!

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BIGPAWSUP 12/9/2012 9:48AM

    emoticon In it it win it here! I'm with you 100%!

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DEBLYNN323 12/9/2012 8:40AM

    great post!

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NANCYRUBIO 12/9/2012 8:34AM

    What a wonderful posting. I would love to copy it in whole. You did it in total! emoticon

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TRYINGHARD54 12/9/2012 8:20AM

    your so right. need to believe in myself.

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Attitude of Gratitude.

Saturday, December 08, 2012











I am so much happier if I count my blessings every day.

Have a fantastic day!!

Blessings to you!! emoticon emoticon

  
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SERASARA 1/5/2013 11:42PM

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CM_GARDNER78 1/1/2013 2:30AM

    We are all so rich!! :-) We need to remember to be thankful and grateful for even the simple things in life! :-) Great blog - and great sayings!!

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SUNNYLIFE72 12/31/2012 8:47PM

  Love the message and the pics! Stay focused on the blessings.

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IMEMINE1 12/30/2012 8:15AM

    Amen. Love the blog.

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HYATTI1 12/14/2012 10:17AM

    I think we would all be a lot happier if we took the time daily to just thinking about our blessings.

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MARYJEANSL 12/12/2012 7:41PM

  I am totally with you on this. I try very hard to cultivate an attitude of gratitude always.

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PENOWOK 12/12/2012 9:07AM

    LOVELY!! Thank you!

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FARIS71 12/10/2012 10:20AM

    That is so true. I am grateful for your reminder today!!

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NEWMOM20121 12/10/2012 8:52AM

    perfect way to start the day. Thank you

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ILIKETOZUMBA 12/9/2012 10:56PM

    Wonderful post...thank you for sharing such inspiring words! :)

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HZGLORY 12/9/2012 10:32PM

    Absolutely right !!!

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JAMER123 12/9/2012 10:28PM

    emoticon emoticon I count my blessings every day!!

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ROCKYCPA 12/9/2012 10:05PM

    Thanks for sharing!

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ALIDOSHA 12/9/2012 5:28PM

    emoticon and blessings to you too!

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DIANNEMT 12/9/2012 4:38PM

    Absolutely an attitude!!

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    Thank you! emoticon

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KARRENLYNN 12/9/2012 3:21PM

    Love the pictures on your blog. Thanks for sharing and reminding us how great it is to be grateful.

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AMANDACOETZER 12/9/2012 12:50PM

    I am too!

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PATRICIAANN46 12/9/2012 12:30PM

  So well said.......... emoticon

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IAMAGEMLOVER 12/9/2012 11:40AM

    Count your blessings instead of sheep.

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CICELY360 12/9/2012 11:15AM

  good blog

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MIMIDOT 12/9/2012 10:53AM

    Amen! I"m with you. Count your blessings.

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REGILIEH 12/9/2012 10:17AM

    AMEN!!! Absolutely my philosophy!

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MOMMY445 12/9/2012 9:29AM

    you made my day,too!

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JANEMARIE77 12/9/2012 9:04AM

    right there with you

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I_WILL_ROCK_125 12/9/2012 8:43AM

    Love it.

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TONYVAND1 12/9/2012 8:26AM

  Count your blessings name them one by one and see all the great things that God has done.

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DJSHIP46 12/9/2012 8:21AM

    Positively gratitude SPARKS!!!

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DNRAE1 12/9/2012 8:18AM

    Being thankful and joyful in life are paths to happiness.

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TRYINGHARD54 12/9/2012 8:17AM

    amen

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LIFETIMER54 12/9/2012 7:49AM

  Your truly inspirational.... emoticon

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NEWCHINELO 12/9/2012 6:53AM

    Lovely!

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    emoticon Great to see your blog featured in the Spark Mail. emoticon

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NCSUE0514 12/9/2012 6:34AM

    Thank you for this. I hope you don't mind me sharing a quote I love:

"Suppose for a moment that God began taking from us the many things for which we have failed to give thanks. Which of our limbs and faculties would be left? Would I still have my hands and my mind? And what about loved ones? If God were to take from me all those persons and things for which I have not given thanks, what would be left of me?" - Patrick Henry Reardon.

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SUNNYLIFE72 12/9/2012 6:00AM

  Thank you for sharing! Love the gratitude sayings. I try to remember to be thankful for the day - every day I get out of bed - "this is the day the Lord has made, let us me glad and rejoice in it!"
I also work on looking for the good in every day (good deeds, blessings, etc).

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SANDYCRANE 12/9/2012 5:38AM

    You are so right on, thanks for the reminder.

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BEAUTY_WITHIN 12/9/2012 2:55AM

    Definatley something to remember!

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COCK-ROBIN 12/8/2012 9:28PM

    Wonderful quotes on gratitude!

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MATTEROFHEART 12/8/2012 5:14PM

    Absolutely! It makes all the difference!
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You are awesome!!! :-) You are blessed!

Friday, December 07, 2012



Thank you so much for all of your comments & votes on my blog "There is no easy way out!" I read every one. You guys rock!! emoticon



Thank you for your encouragement & support. We're in this together!! emoticon This journey is so much easier when we support one another, don't you think?

Today, I have a special challenge for you. I want you to count your blessings. I won't lie -- life is hard. We all have tough times we go through, but there is always something to be thankful for -- even if it's just that the sun came up this morning, that's a blessing. My SparkFriends are a blessing to me & I'm thankful for all of you.

I have found that an attitude of gratitude helps me get through this journey a little easier. Try it & you'll see.



Blessings to you!! emoticon emoticon


  
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KALANTHA 12/9/2012 12:11PM

    I don't know where you found that Internet high 5, but I love it! Thank you for being one of my blessings! emoticon

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FUSIONFITNESS3 12/8/2012 2:30AM

    Great reminder.

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MICHELLE_391 12/8/2012 12:06AM

    I love your Internet high-5!

You know, I do count my blessings every day. I do so using a service called Gratitude 160. This is a free service that sends you an email 3x a day asking you to stop and reflect what you are grateful for at the moment. And regardless of my mood I reflect and answer. At the end of the week, you get a list of everything you listed. I find it to be a great mood lifter, particularly when I really need reminding how good my life actually is.

Then every week I go public and share my weekly gratitude log here on my blog. It does my heart a world of good to shout my blessings from the rooftops!

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KARENLEIGH32 12/7/2012 6:26PM

    So very true! I am thankful every day!

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NANCYRUBIO 12/7/2012 5:12PM

    The best quotes usually come with author unknown.

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GIRLINMOTION 12/7/2012 9:48AM

    Well said. I always say "As long as I have a roof over my head, clothes on my back and food in my gut, what do I have to complain about. Friends and family are the icing on the cake. Life is good."

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KJELLYBEAN15 12/7/2012 8:45AM

    Thank you. It's so easy to complain about what we don't have, what happened to us, or how others have made us angry. Being able to focus on what we are thankful for takes a little work. We all have so much to be thankful for. This should be a must for all of us. Thank you for reminding me to focus on these instead of the negatives.
Hope you have a wonderful weekend my friend.

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BIGPAWSUP 12/7/2012 8:25AM

    You got it sweetie! I'm all up for a Attitude of Gratitude blog!

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SEPTEMBERSPIRIT 12/7/2012 7:59AM

    Amen to the Attitude of Gratitude!! Have a fabulous day and weekend ahead!

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COCK-ROBIN 12/7/2012 5:26AM

    Thank you. I will count my blessings today.

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You can't out exercise a bad diet!

Thursday, December 06, 2012



Have you tried this? I have!! emoticon It doesn't work. emoticon

There are these little things called "work" & "commute" & "sleep" that got in the way.

It was to the point that I was going to have to exercise 25 hours a day, 8 days a week. emoticon Just kidding, but you get the idea.

Learn from my mistakes -- don't try this one. Really . . . I promise you that it doesn't work.

Blessings to you!!! emoticon emoticon

  
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MICHELLE_391 12/8/2012 12:14AM

    Guilty as charged. This works when I have to make small corrections, but isn't a healthy way to think or live.

I try to do the exercise first. For example, I know I'm going out to dinner and I know about how many calories I'm going to eat. After figuring out my calories for what I am going to meet all day, I figure out if anything (best choices here, not fried stuff or extra bread or whatever that I'm not going to eat anyhow) and then add extra fitness time to my workouts. I don't know if this really gets me anywhere mathematically, it it does make me consider more what I eat and helps me remember to think of food as fuel, rather just flavor/texture/desire.

But after a bonafide binge, forget it.

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MARYJEANSL 12/6/2012 10:47PM

  I think we all have to learn this - some sooner than others. I remember thinking I would do hundreds of situps, run for miles, etc., just so I could eat waaaay too much. Nope, didn't work. I was a slow learner, but I think it has finally sunk in.

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ERINMARIE424 12/6/2012 10:10PM

    It took me a very looooooong time to realize this is true! But once I did, and learned how to eat properly the weight came off. Much easier to keep myself from eating the calories in the first place than to try to burn them off later!

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BESTSUSIEYET 12/6/2012 9:42PM

    Love getting my body toned up, strengthened, and more flexible. Improving my heart and lung capacity. And the peace I find taking long walks outdoors. But if I am haphazard about what I eat, I won't be healthy! Mindful eating, choosing what is beneficial, not just what is permissible ... That has been key for me in losing 25% of my "old" self! Keep making those healthy choices and reminding others to do the same!

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CZEIDMAN 12/6/2012 4:42PM

  Somehow it's just so much easier to spend 60 mins on a treadmill than it is to think about what food I'm putting in my mouth for the other 660 minutes. But thanks for reminding me.

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KONRAD695 12/6/2012 1:12PM

    I think it worked for Chuck Norris, but he was too tired to tell anyone. emoticon

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STHOMAS1009 12/6/2012 12:58PM

    So true. I've tried going the exercise route myself. No matter how hard or long you work out, it won't overcome the amount of food and alcohol you can put in your mouth.

It just leaves you frustrated and disappointed ( and sweaty and tired ).

Lose the weight in the kitchen.

Tone up the bod the gym.

Just sayin'

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IRONBLOSSOM 12/6/2012 12:51PM

    But I WANT to!!! :-P

It's true though, as loath as I am to admit it. :-(

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COCK-ROBIN 12/6/2012 10:58AM

    You learned, and I'm proud of you!

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MDKM80 12/6/2012 10:47AM

    Thanks for posting this, I love love love it! My new meal time mantra!!

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OPTIMIST1948 12/6/2012 9:39AM

    Yes, but exercise makes a bad diet less damaging. And I know that it was REALLY helpful to me to be able to eat 80% of the things I had "before" and still loose weight. I neever felt deprived, which was vital to the keep going part of a diet.

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JMARISK 12/6/2012 9:02AM

    I'm totally guilty when it comes to this issue. After my son was born in April, I worked out non-stop but i didn't really change my bad eating habits. The scale either stayed the same or went up. So frustrating!

I'm determined to focus on both this time. You are right, you can't out exercise a bad diet!

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KJELLYBEAN15 12/6/2012 8:54AM

    I can so relate. I can't tell you how many times I have tried the very thing.

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HISARTIST 12/6/2012 8:47AM

    AMEN!! If you figure out how to get 25 hours in a day, please let me know. We'll bottle it and get rich! emoticon

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LIVINGFREE19 12/6/2012 8:45AM

    So very true!

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BIGPAWSUP 12/6/2012 8:09AM

    Ya, I tried it. I ended up[ with shin splints, a pulled groin, and a horrible cold. Didn't work.

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GOPINTOS 12/6/2012 7:22AM

    I hear ya! And I am so glad it is more 80% nutrition because I learned it is much easier for me to control my food intake in order to reach my weight loss goals. My exercise is good & good for me and all, but it is more for my overall health and not so much for my weight loss efforts.

Thanks for the smile :)

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JANEMARIE77 12/6/2012 7:09AM

    balance always balance I you ever figure out how to get 8 days in a week please let me know lol

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CINDYAST 12/6/2012 7:07AM

    Love the 25 hours a day, 8 days a week! And it's so true, I know if I eat poorly, the scale won't move, (some weeks it won't move anyway!), but I know what I put into my body makes all the difference. Thanks for the reminder!
Blessings!

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111BUTTERFLY111 12/6/2012 6:36AM

    OK, I really needed to see this TODAY. Evening snacking is getting in the way. Thanks for the blog. I needed it!

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OTEN36 12/6/2012 5:15AM

    I just finished 3.5 miles on the treadmill. This is huge for me being it's my week I have to put in 72 hours at work. Today I'll be half way there.
I can relate to what your saying. I think most of us push ourselves really hard or are just plain hard on ourselves.
I'm trying to be kinder to myself but I'm sure it's a work in progress at all times.
Thanks for sharing.
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LISAN0415 12/6/2012 5:00AM

    also, I read weight loss is 80% eating and 20% exercise.

Exercise is great for us, but eating low calorie is so important!

Best wishes!

Lisa

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