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A great morning to run

Sunday, September 11, 2011

Cool, a little chilly before the 8 a.m. start of the Buffalo Run. This is in a hilly park, locally, and the distance is 5 miles. I am not particularly confident of my ability to run at this distance, have been waffling over whether / how much to walk in the midst of jogging, and had even given myself permission to walk the whole way.

But... this is one of those races where the "real runners" show up, and the competitor in me gets awakened... kind of want to test myself against them. I found Deanna (HOT4FITNESS) before the race, and her husband was running, as well. I started out with her, walked the first four minutes by my watch, to get a good warm up, but then felt impelled to start using the gravity of the downhill slope to increase my pace, especially since there were slow joggers in front of us that I probably could have walked past (Deanna did).

At mile one, I was blown away by the time of 11 minutes (they had folks with stop watches at each mile, telling off the times as runners passed). I found my natural inclination had me running 7 minutes before I dropped to a recovery walk for one... the amount of time jogging reduced over the course of the race, but the walking recoveries remained about a minute each. I mostly ran the downhills, slow jogged the uphills, and did my recovery walks on flat (OK, on one uphill, too, let's be honest).

In the end (which was uphill to a short flat), I crossed with the gun clock reading 51 minutes and change. Woo-hoo... I *did* blow away my anticipated time of 11 minute miles. (Official time for 5 miles was 50:21, or a 10:05 pace per mile.) Remember I said the "real runners" show up for this one? The winner in my age/gender group had an 8:35 pace... and that was not even a record for the race. Good for her! I was 8th in my age/gender group. Felt great!

Next outing: Susan G. Komen Race for the Cure, on October 2nd.

After the race - Me and Deanna:


After the race - Deanna and her hubby:

  
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KNITLEIGH 9/13/2011 2:39PM

    You are so amazing and a wonderful example!

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KALIGIRL 9/13/2011 8:47AM

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TAMMY411 9/12/2011 12:15PM

    Good Job!! Sounds like fun. emoticon

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SUNNY332 9/12/2011 8:37AM

    Way to go, Barb. You are doing awsome!

Best wishes on the Susan G. Koman race.

Hugs, Sunny

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VALERIEMAHA 9/11/2011 11:22PM

    I'm really blown away by you performance today!
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_LINDA 9/11/2011 9:01PM

    Looking great Barb!! Well done!!! I do envy you that runner's feeling! My workouts are a rush but totally go nowhere lol. The idea of going the distance and competing against others to bring the best out in yourself is very appealing! But my only goal is to keep up with the young girls half my age in class ;) Onward and upward!
This race was a primer for the Oct 2nd one (great cause). You are going to rock that one too, I can see it coming!!

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BARBAELLEN 9/11/2011 8:09PM

    I think you've entered the "real runner" zone. Congratulations on pushing yourself and doing so extremely well. Fantastic!
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MOBYCARP 9/11/2011 6:23PM

    emoticonIIRC, this is the race you weren't sure you wanted to do, because it was longer than your range? Great result stretching that range a bit!

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WATERMELLEN 9/11/2011 5:49PM

    You look like the athlete you are!! Awesome!! Nothing like the endorphin grin!!

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MARTHAWILL 9/11/2011 4:56PM

    Way to go! Weather was great here for a run also. Did a 5k this a.m. which is less than 5 miles. Pushed myself to defeat my last time and ended up first in my age group - 60-69. Totally shocked.

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HOT4FITNESS 9/11/2011 1:59PM

    Way to Go!!! And great pics. Somehow we are always smiling to the finish.

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GOHUSKERS2 9/11/2011 12:37PM

    It is so nice and you and Deanna can do these races together. Wow, I never realized how tall her hubby is. She came up to see me when I was at Bryan in March. Super gal. Sounds like you both made great times. Not long till the next race. Way to go Barb.

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ANDI571 9/11/2011 12:17PM

    Wow! emoticon

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SPCALLER 9/11/2011 12:12PM

    Its a Beautiful morning here too! Have a great Sunday! :)

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Turning stress into determination

Saturday, September 10, 2011

This has truly been a chopped up week. I let stuff get to me on Monday and had a fatigued, lazy, anxious, grazing day. Tuesday I handled things better, getting back into my program and pepping myself up. Had a dental appointment that morning, and work is going crazy, so a part of me stresses over even time off for health care.

Wednesday I broke a tooth, requiring a second dental visit. He took care of the broken tooth, thankfully not needing to put on a crown. Almost as soon as I was done with that and put my stuff away at work, it was back across town to be extra ears for my sister at the Cancer center.

The decision she'd been struggling with was taken out of her hands by the recommendation of the doctor we were talking with... his recommendation for her continued therapy was clear, it does not include the option she would have to fight the insurance company over... because of something in her pathology. So... thanks for all the prayers for guidance and wisdom... looks like they worked! Another layer of stress removed.

Back to work only to get faced with a challenge to another project that I had thought was going well. More stress, and a choppy day. But I had done my bit... I had written my pep talk to myself, and I was mentally prepared.

The work bottom line is that I've decided I need to go to work today. I did find an important code bug, and fixed it, but testing turned up another misinterpretation of a requirement on Friday. It is in code someone else wrote, but that coder is not available, having been moved onto another priority. I had not resolved it by end of business yesterday. I wisely came home and got a good night's sleep.

Today, I pick up my race packet for the Buffalo run tomorrow. emoticon I may just end up walking the whole thing, and that's OK. emoticon After I get my race packet, I will go to work, to catch up on status reports and maybe give that second implementation problem a look. If I get it, OK, if not, I've given it a shot.

And tomorrow? I have a great Autumn Day for a morning walk in the park, and quite possibly a distant view of the air show. We've got the Blue Angels here for the weekend!

Life is good... I am determined... let us all Spark on! emoticon

  
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KASEYCOFF 9/11/2011 2:19PM

    Sometimes it's all a juggling act, ain't? But it sounds as tho you are maintaining a pretty even keel, so - yep, so far, so good!
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WATERMELLEN 9/10/2011 9:38PM

    So glad that your sister's treatment course has been resolved without need for a battle. And re the code bug . . . good plan! I often find that when I'm stressed over a work problem, if I put it on to "simmer" while I work out (not consciously thinking about it -- leaving it on the back burner) by the time I"m in the shower I've got a new idea to try . . .

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BARBAELLEN 9/10/2011 8:38PM

    I'm so glad you blog. Your determination and focus are incredible, and I don't know if I'll ever get to where your are. But, when I see how much you've achieved and how you haven't become complacent, I'm always reminded that this needs to be a lifestyle change, not a diet. Haven't completely internalized that yet, but working on it.

Enjoy your run tomorrow in your cute and functional shorts!!

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DEBRA0818 9/10/2011 11:39AM

    Your story reminds me that many of the things that make us anxious never actually happen. If only we could let each day's worries be sufficient to the day thereof (loosely quoting the Bible). On the other hand, tremendous worry then leads to great relief, which feels really good. Gah!

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_LINDA 9/10/2011 9:59AM

    Way to focus and get back into it! Nice to hear some of the stressers turned out not to be the worst that could happen.. Good luck with that code, and may you have some great weather for your race! Hope you do get to see some of the air show!. I saw some of ours as the planes formed up outside of the show area which just happened to be over my Mom's house, which is close to the airport..
We can all take a lesson for your determination to not let things build up and get to you!
Keep up the great work!

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JUST_TRI_IT 9/10/2011 9:10AM

    Determination is in your soul:) sounds like the week was filled with a lot and you still stay positive. Enjoy your run:)

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ANDI571 9/10/2011 9:09AM

    I still haven't turned stress into determination, but I am getting there. You are doing great, keep up the good job. Prayers for your sister..... emoticon

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Sparked by TAMMY411

Friday, September 09, 2011

I read a blog this morning, in which a Spark person contemplates walking in her first 5K. She mentioned the fear of judgment of others and my mind went back to a 5K I ran back in 1991, I think it was. I may have blogged about it before, but it bears a revisit.

This particular 5K was in Canton, Pennsylvania. It featured a course that was pretty flat for the first mile, almost straight uphill for the second, and a huge breezy downhill to the finish, rounding a corner to cross the line.

I kept playing leapfrog the whole way with a speedwalker, while I jogged. I put in my personal best and was on a huge high. I had lost 80 pounds and was in the best shape of my life then-to-date. I hung around the finish line cheering the remaining finishers on.

One of the last finishers was a very large woman. She reminded me of myself during the journey. She walked the whole way, and as she rounded the corner, I muttered aloud (remembering well my own fear of judgment) that it took a lot of guts for her to get out there and do this. My admiration for her courage was bigger than her body size, for sure!

Some jerk nearby quipped for his friend, "Yeah, in more ways than one!" I wanted to punch him out. But seriously, there were far more people whose hearts were touched and spirits soared seeing her out there, than those who were shallow judgers. And here's the kicker: will we let those who hold jerk attitudes prevent us from fulfilling our dreams?

NO WAY! If 90% of life is showing up? Let's not miss out on that 90%. Let's go ahead and "just do it". Let the rush of doing it overpower the opinions of the small-minded. We are worth it, every last Sparker of us!

Life's good. Spark on! emoticon

  
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KASEYCOFF 9/10/2011 3:19AM

    Most times I have a dismissive attitude about that kind of comment - 'moron' - and forget it. Every now and then, I engage in an internal dialogue with questions like 'Why would someone say such things? What would they get out of it? Can they only feel better when they are - even in their own minds - humiliating someone else? Do they think they sound witty? Clever?' and so on.

There are no answers, of course. If you confronted such a person and asked 'Why do you say that? What's in it for you?' they wouldn't know. At any rate, you wouldn't get a straight answer.

DEBRA0818 is right: best to leave it to them. But it surely can be strange how the world works...
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MEDDYPEDDY 9/10/2011 3:04AM

    It is easy to forget to support the small things that others do that might be HUGE to them, thanks for reminding me.

Lately I have bee occupied with thinking about those bullies and snide remarkers... I suddenly see their fear and despair. Not that it is an excuse but experiencing it takes away my own fear of being bullied.

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_LINDA 9/10/2011 12:55AM

    It was great of you to stay around and cheer the last people on in that race! You will find shallow minded jerks every where you go. Today, I actually had some guy across the street from me lean out of his car and swear at me because of my scooter, I didn't understand it at all. I have been put down and cussed at because of my appearance many a time, but what he had against my scooter and me, I couldn't understand. I wish I could enter those races, but pavement walking causes me pain big time and that is all they run on here. I was able to do Relay For Life because it was set in a nice grassy area.
I admire anyone who can run, they are so lucky to be healthy enough to do it.

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KARIDIAN1 9/9/2011 5:42PM

    Nice cooments on your blog. Very well written.

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KARIDIAN1 9/9/2011 5:41PM

    Nice cooments on your blog. Very well written.

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KARIDIAN1 9/9/2011 5:41PM

    Nice cooments on your blog. Very well written.

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SUNNYWBL 9/9/2011 5:15PM

    What hurts others, hurts us all!

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ANDI571 9/9/2011 8:50AM

    Such words of wisdom. I definitely want to show up for my life. emoticon

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DEBRA0818 9/9/2011 8:38AM

    I am often reminded of the OA saying: What other people think is none of my business. When I make it my business I usually get hurt, frustrated, angry. Best to leave it to them.

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KALIGIRL 9/9/2011 8:25AM

    Reminds me of one of my StoryPeople favorites in reverse.

"Being Bigger
they only look small, she said, if you're someone who's fond of being bigger than everyone else"

Here's to 90%!


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KATHRYNLP 9/9/2011 7:48AM

    Excellent Blog!! Fat Jokes and Blond Jokes are just as offensive and hurtful as all the other Ethnic and Minority Jokes were. But they are still an excepted way to put down others. I should know..
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When something's got to give, what gives?

Thursday, September 08, 2011

Anybody over the age of 25 has probably had at least one or two moments in life where the limits were reached: Something has to give! If you haven't, guess you're a Teela Brown (an incredibly obscure reference to a Science Fiction novel called Ringworld by Larry Niven... she was a character who lived a completely charmed life).

So... when you reach that point, where something has to give, what gives?

At various points in our lives, different things have "given". For many of us, our efforts at self-nurturing "gave", as we threw our all into some other aspect of life, or even several aspects of life, juggling the balls and dropping that one.

Often we think we'll pick it up again "once this big push is over". Only to find when this big push is over, another crisis or big push follows it. Sometimes it seems the ball has suddenly become much heavier and unbalanced, and it's not all that easy to pick it up again.

Resolved: Not going to let that happen any more! If something has to give, it will have to be something else. Because my health is worth more to me now, and I no longer take it for granted. I may dial things back a bit, change the plan a little, but there is a point beyond which I will not give up the ship:

1. I will not give up my 30 minutes of walking each day.
2. I will not give up getting sufficient sleep.
3. I will not give up eating well-planned and balanced meals and snacks (even if it means I buy pre-packaged and convenient single serving sized foods... I will read the labels).

Because I'm worth it! What about you? What's going to "give" in your life, next time push comes to shove?

Life's good. Spark on!

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WATERMELLEN 9/9/2011 9:27PM

    Yup: not gonna stress-eat. No matter what.

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KASEYCOFF 9/9/2011 3:47AM

    It's so hard to prioritize when a half-dozen things all seem to demand prominence at once, to my mind. This is one of those 'I work at continual improvement and probably will for the rest of my life' categories. But as you seem to do, I try to put 'my health' at the top of that list, simply because without it, nothing else can work. With it, everything else has at least the potential to work.
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MOBYCARP 9/8/2011 7:40PM

    Sad to say, I probably won't find out what gives until I face the choice. I just hope I can choose wisely when that time comes.

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DEBRITA01 9/8/2011 3:21PM

    In the past, when something had to give, I spent less time for & on myself....that has changed. Lately, when something's gotta give it's usually my sleep...I'm working on changing that. I'm also working on balance and moderation...and I'm embracing the realization that *hey, I can't do EVERYTHING* (you know how that goes). emoticon

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HOT4FITNESS 9/8/2011 3:12PM

    Television is what has to give.
I will not give up my exercise time
I will not give up my healthy eating habits. So guess the TV is the thing thats gotta go

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_LINDA 9/8/2011 2:41PM

    Looks like my sleep -I never get any :( But when I am exercising, I won't even answer the phone :)

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GOHUSKERS2 9/8/2011 1:44PM

    You are so determined and that is fantastic!

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DEBRA0818 9/8/2011 10:53AM

    I'm with you on the list of intractables -- the rest can be rescheduled!

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ANDI571 9/8/2011 10:17AM

    Words to live by. It does seem that the first thing that gives, is me. How much better we would be if we would just learn when we give up on our goals everyone loses, especially us. emoticon

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KARIDIAN1 9/8/2011 10:04AM

    I like it! You are focused.

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KALIGIRL 9/8/2011 8:40AM

    emoticonThat's what I call COMMITMENT!

Life IS Good!

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KIKI0531 9/8/2011 8:21AM

    This is where I have the problem. I am usually the one to give up my plans for myself. I need to work on that. My mother, whom I love dearly, is a giver. She waits on and does for everyone before herself and still does to this day. I watched her do this my whole life AND I am very much like her. Hence, why there was resistance from my family in the beginning of my healthy journey. They have come to be much more supportive - especially my 14 yr old daughter and even the 3 yr old (she loves to exercise w/ me ... lol).

BUT, I still have a really bad habit of chucking my plans if something comes up regarding one of them. I have started getting my workouts in the a.m. and that seems to help a lot - no distractions. I will have to keep the points you made in mind. emoticon

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Blogging: journaling with benefits

Wednesday, September 07, 2011

Blogging is an interesting exercise. It is a personal journey, taken somewhat publicly. The writer controls what goes in to each entry, and most of what I journal (blog) about is "me", my life, how I'm coping with what comes down the pike. This helps keep me on track.

There is a benefit to being public (within the semi-sheltered scope of Spark People). It opens one up to the comments of others, which could include criticism, advice or comparison... and that can shake up one's world view.

I am a believer in allowing the help I get to come from whatever source happens along. I take the comments / advice / experience of my Spark buddies seriously, because like a step meeting where one shares experience, strength and hope... that's what comes across in the comments. I am most deeply grateful for all the comments on yesterday's blog about the unstructured time / fatigue "pattern" I deal with.

I have been given a wide selection of things to ponder and assimilate. Thank you.

Life's good. Spark on!

Oh, oh... and fellow maintainers, have you seen? Spark has introduced a whole selection of new tickers to choose from, including: ta-da... a maintenance range ticker! I'm trying it out. It doesn't show the loss, though, so I may switch back at some point, because I like to encourage others who may have a similar large mountain to lose.
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SUNNYWBL 9/7/2011 7:26PM

    Good to know! I'm nowhere near maintenance tho!

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_LINDA 9/7/2011 10:51AM

    I have always appreciated the help and support I get from my Spark buddies on this website. I also feel I have had a lot of experience dealing with health and nutrition and can dole out at times some useful tidbits! Thanks for the info on the tickers! I stopped using it because I was on maintenance. But that is a good idea to stay with it just to show how much you have lost as an inspiration to others.
If you don't let people know you have a problem, you can't get advice or help with it..
Blogging really does help people on here..

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DEBRITA01 9/7/2011 10:44AM

    Blogging can be beneficial to the blogger...and to those who read it. We can all learn from each others' experiences and insight. Thanks for sharing yours... emoticon

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ARLENE_MOVES 9/7/2011 10:10AM

    I too love getting support, good or bad, from fellow Sparkers. I have enjoyed all of your blogs and the comments on them. You are a very interesting person -- thanks for sharing you with us!!!

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KALIGIRL 9/7/2011 8:56AM

    So true - part of the gratitude cycle is getting back what we send out
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Thanks for the info on the maintenance tools - will check it out.
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KARIDIAN1 9/7/2011 8:49AM

    Thanks for the tip on the tickers. especially the maintenance ones for when i reach that goal.

Have a great Wednesday!

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MSLZZY 9/7/2011 8:11AM

    All the advice and comments by other SParkers is indeed helpful and blogging adds a
different dimension as to how we should view our successes and failures.
I'm checking out the new feature today. What a great idea!
Have a wonderful Wednesday!

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