Friday, October 28, 2011
Today I'm using judgment for my J word... but just so folks don't mistake, I'm using this part of the definition (from my Webster's): "the ability to come to opinions about things; power of comparing and deciding; understanding; good sense"
This is a throwback to when your mother used to say "Use your own good judgment" when you'd ask what you should do... at a party, in some school or work situation, etc.
Judgment in terms of maintenance, is something that hopefully we've learned in the process of getting to goal. We've learned what works, what doesn't, what sets us back, what moves us forward. We've learned that life doesn't stop just because we are trying to be healthier.
There are a lot of decisions about what to do and how to live our lives stacking up in the next three months, as we hit Halloween, Thanksgiving, and Christmas seasons... not to mention darkness and cold weather (in the Northern Hemisphere) that make some of us want to hibernate!
What we choose will make a difference, will make many differences... in the results we have, and in how we feel about ourselves and others. Self-talk about our choices is as important as the choices themselves!
Yesterday I chose to bypass "most" of the treats available at our Halloween "Fun Day" at work. But I also chose to have a few selected special ones, and counted up the calorie cost, being mindful that I *would*, guaranteed, have that chemical reaction to sugar that I have. I knew I would have to fight the compulsion to go get more. And I did.
I was quite pleased with how it turned out... I expect I'll have to continue to battle the aftereffects, in terms of desire to eat more for the next few days while it works its way out of my system. But I had a holiDAY treat... and I am satisfied.
Here's to good decisions, good judgment, valid assessment of individual behavior and choices, and doing what we need to do to LIVE fully, and in balance.
Life's good. Spark on!
Thursday, October 27, 2011
"There once was a girl with a strawberry curl
Right in the middle of her forehead.
When she was good she was very, very good,
And when she was bad she was horrid."
This old nursery rhyme was quoted at me often as a child. As I had strawberry blonde hair, I viewed it as my personal roadmap or something. Anyway, it says a lot about the on-off all-or-nothing kind of thinking we can take on.
Is your image of yourself taken to extremes? Does what you see in the mirror change based on what you saw on the scale this morning? Do you "throw in the towel" on the whole day because you ate ONE cookie at a staff meeting? If you do, you might be indulging in some of this kind of thinking.
I was already pondering along these line when I spotted another Spark blog this morning about the "All or Nothing Attitude". LJR4HEALTH wrote essentially about the same thing I was thinking, and about ditching that attitude to be successful.
Anyway, here's to the balanced self-image and identity, accepting that we are NOT "very, very good" OR "horrid" but somewhere humanly in the middle! And moving in the direction of another I: "Improvement".
Oh, and life's good, even when I'm not particularly... Happy Halloween!
Wednesday, October 26, 2011
Yesterday as I was driving to work, I was thinking of my "H" and "heroes" came to mind. We all need heroes. People we see out there doing things we respect and admire... whether it is battling the moral issues, overcoming personal obstacles, or fighting the fight to protect the defenseless. Some people with great success stories spark us to start or continue our own journeys. We look to their writings and sayings to keep us going when the going gets tough.
Spark People is a site chock full of unsung, often unknown, and un-famous HEROEs and SHE-ROEs (I word I'll attribute to one of mine, Sunny332). I could list a lot of Spark names here, but don't want to leave ANYONE out... from my first Spark friend who sent me to the site, MISSDIANE, to WALKINGANNIE (who I haven't seen around in a long time and miss), to my local very special Spark friends that I've actually met, HOT4FITNESS and KALIGIRL... and many, many, many more.
I have fitness heroes and sheroes, like JUST_TRI_IT who gives me dreams to drive for and my baby brother MOBYCARP, who makes me jealous even while he makes me proud with his six foot frame and 7:xx minute miles!
I have articulate heroes and sheroes (and here's where I'm in serious danger of leaving someone out), like DEBRA0818 who has had three different Spark names in the time I've been reading her stuff. Or CookMe123. Or Andi571. Or KaseyCoff. You may not think of yourself as heroes, but when you tackle your feelings and failings and successes and put yourself out there, you are showing both wisdom and bravery! I will run out of room if I keep down this path, so please forgive if your name is not here... if you've ever seen my name crop up as a comment on your page or a blog, you're on my list!
In my book, every one I encounter who is fighting the good fight, or struggling with him or herself to enter the fray... is a hero. They are people I respect and want to emulate.
Oh, yes, heroes are essential to any life, to make it worthwhile. I have many, many heroes, right here on Spark, as well as in real life.
Here's to your heroes and sheroes, and to mine! Life's good. Spark on!
Tuesday, October 25, 2011
I took yesterday afternoon off work to make up for the overnight stints over the weekend. It was a a gorgeous day, so I took a long walk around the lake in the Autumn sunshine. I ended up covering a part of the long track from Sunday's Making Strides walk... observing the trampled down grass past the golf course, and in my mind envisioning the sea of pink striding the other way on another really nice day.
I was contemplating my "G" words... generous, giving, God loving a gracious giver, not gruding... and of course giving from a sense of abundance... all of which come down to starting out with a grateful heart! What better or more timely G for the season of Thanksgiving than gratitude.
But what does gratitude have to do with maintaining healthy habits? After all, I'm here, in the promised land of maitenance, and I worked for it, right? Hang on a minute there, super-ego! Much leg-work was involved, true, but what about the gifts received along the way?
The first gift of motivation? How about a little appreciation / gratitude for that?
The friends who supported your efforts, and wrote or said encouraging words just when they were needed? Ditto.
The availability of healthy choices and the freedom to make them? You bet!
The fact that my body can still respond, despite years of ill treatment, by becoming healthier? Absolutely.
I could go on and on, but an attitude of gratitude keeps it green, makes me aware of how fragile and precious it is to be in my goal range. It preserves the knowledge that I am here through a measure of grace... some legwork, yes, but the grace and gift of the desire and the ability to do it. I think I "get" the athletes who thank God when they win a big game or catch a key pass. So much can "go wrong"... there are many dropped passes in practice before the big one is caught in the game!
So today, my G is gratitude. And as part of that, specific gratitude for SparkPeople
, for the various programs and books I've learned from, and for all the wonderful Spark Friends I've made along the way.
Life's indeed good. Spark on!
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