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New goal - son inspired!

Sunday, November 07, 2010

You know I always have to have a goal... especially after a "finish line" like yesterday, it's important to have something to avoid the big let-down. Based on my son's comment about the two-mile time, I have decided this is my next personal fitness challenge:

Pass the Army physical fitness test levels for a 58 year old woman by New Years 2011. I need something to keep me motivated during the months of growing darkness. Baseline on my birthday in two weeks (when I turn 58).

Here's the test:
Time in 2 mile run.
# of situps without stopping in 2 minutes.
# of pushups without stopping in 2 minutes.

A score of 100 for my age and gender - 19:42 for the run; 64 sit-ups; 28 push-ups.
Passing (60) - 24:48 for the run; 27 sit-ups; 8 push-ups.

My weak area, the one I need to work at most: sit-ups.

Then be able to pass it on significant dates throughout 2011:
New Year's Day
Valentine's Day
Mother's Day
July 4th
Labor Day
Next Veteran's day

Yep, gonna be a real "Army mom"... or at least try.

  
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JUST_TRI_IT 11/14/2010 9:52AM

    Ok.. so how did you figure out the Army target for a 58 year old woman? I can probably google that, huh?

THIS is awesome!

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PENNYAN45 11/8/2010 7:57AM

    What a great idea! Go for it!!

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Your son must be very proud of his Mom!

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KALIGIRL 11/7/2010 9:28PM

    Fabulous goal - sit-ups are my downfall too - can't imagine one every 2 seconds, but if anyone can...
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MSLZZY 11/7/2010 9:27PM

    GO FOR IT! emoticon emoticon

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SROUS1340 11/7/2010 7:11PM

    You go girl!

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SUNNY332 11/7/2010 6:27PM

    Wow - am I impressed? You bet I am.

You go girl! You are definitely working on being a REAL army mom.

Hugs, Sunny

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DEBRITA01 11/7/2010 1:19PM

    Ambitious goals, but you can do it. Your idea to keep setting measurable goals for yourself is great and I admire your determination. Good luck...

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REJ7777 11/7/2010 1:03PM

    emoticon Great goals! And I'm convinced you can do it! You're so right about the importance of having something to aim for, even after "maintenance". Nothing is ever stagnant, so it's important to continue to progress, in order to not regress! emoticon

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WALKINGANNIE 11/7/2010 12:45PM

    Wow! That's quite a goal Barb!

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MNTWINSGAL 11/7/2010 11:49AM

    Great idea, Barb! You are going to be so toned you won't recognize yourself!

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FITAT50 11/7/2010 11:34AM

    Oh, I really love this Barb! How would I find out what my fitness level is for my age? I will be 55 on November 17th and would love to see where I rank!!

I like the key dates also, a great goal motivation!

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SWELL10 11/7/2010 10:58AM

    Cool idea! You can do it! Rock it army mom emoticon

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ANDI571 11/7/2010 10:56AM

    Oh my, what a goal. Good for you. emoticon emoticon

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The blog after the run

Saturday, November 06, 2010



This was the starting point marker. What I didn't realize was that the markers were only miles, no Kilometer markers, so we ran out two miles, ran back one, and then ran an "approximate" tenth to the next road crossing. Then we walked the rest of the way back to the start, climbed into the sunshine and released the balloons. Freedom for them... hearts lifting as they flew away.

After that, I took my son out to breakfast and now am home. It was a good thing to do.

Oh, and because I really wanted to wear a bib, I made my own, and picked my own number, 1908, his unit number.



Second "Oh, and..." at the two mile mark I noted we'd been jogging about 20 minutes. Son said that I would have passed the running portion of the Army Physical Fitness test for my age / gender. Feels pretty good to know that... even though they probably wouldn't want to recruit a 58 year old gal!

  
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JUST_TRI_IT 11/14/2010 9:37AM

    This put a big smile on my face.. Talk about inspiration!

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PENNYAN45 11/8/2010 7:54AM

    Congratulations on observing this day in such a meaningful way - and with your son!

What an emotional time it must have been for both of you.

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FITAT50 11/7/2010 11:29AM

    Awesome day with your son!!

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KATIE33MAHALA 11/7/2010 1:28AM

    You are doing so good! I bet your son is very proud of you, and you must feel fantastic that he joins you.

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KALIGIRL 11/6/2010 10:51PM

    I think they'd be delighted to recruit a 58 year old gal if she was you.
Sorry I wasn't there to send you off or welcome you back, but so glad you shared this with your son.
Namaste my friend!

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CONCHA77 11/6/2010 4:59PM

    Great Day for you!!!!!!! and your son!!!!! Such wonderful memories and for such a great cause. I am so proud of you. emoticon

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WALKINGANNIE 11/6/2010 4:27PM

    emoticon Barb. emoticon to you and your son.

I can't imagine the mix of emotions that you have been through today but I am sure that you found a very healthy way of dealing with them.


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MNTWINSGAL 11/6/2010 4:13PM

    This was an awesome thing to do, and all the better for doing it with your son. What a special day for you both. Congrats!

And if the Army is ever looking for a few good women in your age range, it's good to know you have options, lol!

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VALERIEMAHA 11/6/2010 3:49PM

    WOW! WOW!! WOW!!! What an auspicious beginning to the weekend!
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REJ7777 11/6/2010 1:33PM

    You did it!!! emoticon emoticon emoticon
It must have been so very special to have your son run with you!

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SAMI199 11/6/2010 12:51PM

    Beautiful...

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GOHUSKERS2 11/6/2010 12:48PM

    Wonderful! I'm sure he is very very proud of his Mom, for many reasons, but what you did today is very special. emoticon emoticon emoticon

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SUNNY332 11/6/2010 12:32PM

    Awesome! I think running it with your son was better than being there.

Love the photos of the balloons being released and wqy to go on choosing your son's unit # for your running # today. You definitely made some great memories.

You ROCK!



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BESTSUSIEYET 11/6/2010 11:50AM

    emoticon Hooray for you, Barb! Sounds great to me! Enjoy the rest of your weekend!!

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The blog before the run...

Saturday, November 06, 2010

Since I'm an early riser, here I sit with a couple of hours to rub together before race time. Yesterday throughout the day I was checking FaceBook for updates from my friends who were actually at Ft. Hood for the medal ceremony and memorial unveiling of the monument. And I was out building the brush pile in the yard... physical activity helps deal with emotions.



In the afternoon, I walked a mile and a half to a local party store, and bought not one, but it turned out four gold star-shaped balloons, and wrote the names of the fallen on them, three to a balloon, with a fourth one added to the fourth balloon. I have decided to release at the end of our run this morning, as it will be lighter then. Hope to catch their picture as they fly away, but even if not, I have them as the background shot for today, and maybe the next week or so.

I've said it before... we cannot change what happened in the past. No matter how good or how bad. It happened. What we can do is live our lives into the future, preserving, protecting, nurturing, and thereby honoring the sacrifice of those who have gone before.

This morning's run, as it happens in disparate locations, is a part of that honoring. Today I think especially of these 13 people, but I broaden my prayer to include all those who put their own lives at risk for a cause greater than themselves. And further, to include their families, who live with the knowledge that their loved one has made such a choice.

  
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JUST_TRI_IT 11/14/2010 9:40AM

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KALIGIRL 11/6/2010 11:22PM

    I first recognize your wonderful nature pile - lots of work from lots of time not spent in the yard.(My struggle was similar this year...)
I next recognize your wonderful early bird nature - I believe those who are blessed with an internal clock timed to nature have a special insight.
I last recognize your blessings on the 13 and their families, but more importantly (for me) those still in harms way.
Blessings on you, blessings on your son, blessings on those families who lost loved ones, and blessings on those serving abroad and their families at home.
I thank you for your dedication and commitment.

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ANDI571 11/6/2010 10:49AM

    Good luck with your run. I hope you know how special you are doing this for our fallen. You are not only doing it there, but here in our hearts that we may remember also. emoticon

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PATRISNA 11/6/2010 9:52AM

    Thinking of you and the 13 fallen that you are honoring with your run and those beautiful gold balloons.


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WISEONE68 11/6/2010 9:42AM

    Love the balloons, love your heart to do this, and I pray all who are "remembering" today find some peace and comfort!!
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SUNNY332 11/6/2010 9:22AM

    You make me so proud, Barb. Know that I will be thinking of you today as you make your run and also thinking of the 13 who lost their lives a year ago.

I love how you are honoring them with the gold balloons.

Take care and best wishes on a successful run.

You are my "SHERO" today!

Hugs, Sunny

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CONCHA77 11/6/2010 7:53AM

    Oh,and that is quite a pile of branches and such you worked so hard on! Whew! I would say you burnt quite a bit of calories and did some major strength training!
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CONCHA77 11/6/2010 7:52AM

    Today is your day to shine, Barb, for the 13 heroes and their loved ones.
Have fun with your run, your son and do have fun. I love the balloons. Perfect!
I am with you in Spirit and will be thinking of all of you today.
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SAMI199 11/6/2010 7:36AM

    I,too, will be running beside you...my prayers today will of be with all of you who are honoring these men& women today.

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LEANJEAN6 11/6/2010 7:33AM

    Oh I hope you enjoy the run--I shall be with you in my thoughts and prayers--- Hugs to you! Lynda

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MSLZZY 11/6/2010 7:23AM

    Remembering all affected by this tragedy and running beside you in my mind! HUGS!

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Little old lady with electric chain saw

Friday, November 05, 2010

Just wanted to give you a visual in the title. Seriously, though, what I did with my "recovery" day involved a small electric-powered chain saw I've had for a couple of years... but only this year started to use. Yes, remember my overgrown yard? My yard that's essentially been neglected for two years?

A year ago I was doing the parathyroid surgery thing. I didn't do Fall yard clean up before the surgery because I was concerned about allergies and getting sick and messing up the time-table. And of course, post-surgery you don't press your luck. Then during the warm months this year, I "pieced" at the yard work... there was so much of it. Add in the factor of not wanting to be too far away from my life-line communication to my son overseas (the computer); I never spent too long away from it.

With this unstructured time, this is one of the things I wanted to tackle. And yesterday I spent about three hours out there in the wind doing just that. The brush pile at the foot of the driveway is growing. I have four more days during which to add to it before the trash folks come to haul it away.

Totally different topic: Today is the actual anniversary of the shootings at Fort Hood. I touched base with my son last night, he seems to be doing OK. I will go get my balloon late this afternoon, and I have my permanent marker ready to add the names before I let it drift up to the heavens tomorrow. Yes, this is the right way for me... and for my son.

  
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WALKINGANNIE 11/5/2010 2:56PM

    Little? Oh yes!
Old? No surely not!
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Congratulations on your outdoor work.

My thoughts are with you and your son as you run to remember and to honour those who lost their lives or are still affected by that awful events of last year.

I hope that conditions are good for your run.

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KALIGIRL 11/5/2010 1:57PM

    Your 'visual' worked for me - take care with that device!
Glad you and your son will share in this run.
Wishing you the best!
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GOHUSKERS2 11/5/2010 1:02PM

    Releasing the balloons with the names on them is a wonder way to send your love; and tomorrows run will be great! A little chilly but better than this morning...19 here. My prayers go out to you, your son, and the other soldiers and their families. What a horrific experience. lets all pray that Gods peace be with them.

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TURTLETALK 11/5/2010 12:33PM

    Have a great "run to remember. The rest of us will be "remembering" along side you in our thoughts.

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SUNNY332 11/5/2010 10:55AM

    I will be thinking of you tomorrow as you make your run. Praying for the families of the victims and the fellow soldiers who lost so much a year ago today.

God Bless them all.

Hugs, Sunny

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KATHRYNLP 11/5/2010 9:08AM

    Just wondering if that chain saw could trim some fat off me? Maybe by using it, huh? emoticon emoticon

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SLENDERELLA61 11/5/2010 7:30AM

    I admire your actions to take back your yard, you little old lady with chain saw! I know that your day of rest involved lots of calories burned and improvements to your property. Good going!

Wishing you and your son peace on your day of remembrance. -Marsha



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REJ7777 11/5/2010 7:28AM

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It must feel great to be getting all of that work done... and you're staying in shape for your run!
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HALOSEEKER 11/5/2010 7:20AM

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your son during this time of remembrance. Have a blessed day.

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Wednesday was a train wreck for my program

Thursday, November 04, 2010

I think a day like this had been building up for some time. The looming deadline of the Run to Remember and the disappointment of not actually making the drive and seeing people who have said they will miss me there... add that to the long stretch of time off... unstructured time... and my own high expectations of myself for "getting things done" with that unstructured time. Buried boulders on the path, waiting to stub toes and trip me up. Add that to waking up at 2:50 a.m. and not being able to go back to sleep and you have something brewing.

Intelligence is not a defense against this sort of thing. It's going to happen every once in while. And... the perfect storm led to an attack of the devilish "I don't wannas". emoticon And I remembered the Good N Plenty package I bought as a Halloween treat and had not opened... and it started the flood gates opening. It was the smallest package I could find in the store (I had planned to get Halloween snack sized boxes and hand them out, reserving one for me... but the store was out... and I bought this "movie treat" sized package. And I ate the whole thing, all 4 1/2 servings its nutrition (or lack thereof) label claimed was in it. I went on to eat other treats, but since I don't keep chips in the house was protected from the urge for those salty treats... believe me, had they been here, they would have been history. Had chocolate or peanut butter or cheese been in the house... yep, I know I would have eaten it.

This speaks to the wisdom of not even buying it: because when the weak moments come, there is not a 100% guaranteed protection. Best protection, I have found, for ME, anyway, is just not to have it in the house.

So, yeah, second time within a week where I blew the calories and didn't burn them off. The plus side? I slept really, really well last night! I stopped eating around supper time, not being hungry any more. emoticon

BUT, it has to emoticon now! The deal with maintenance is that there will be days like this. Just as there were days like this throughout the long months of losing. But maintenance does not mean your body can take this kind of abuse every day or even for a week.

I rather suspect that the Halloween treats I allowed myself on Sunday helped set this up (sugar, folks, is a drug for some of us)... and the unstructured time... and the anniversary that the run is marking... and concern even about all of this.

So, today, emoticon of binge recovery. Nurture. Big picture. Take care of me! Don't beat up on me. Follow my own advice! Because, as I tell others that each of them is worth it... so am I.

  
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MNTWINSGAL 11/4/2010 11:54PM

    We all have days like this....and that's ok, as long as we don't lose sight of the reasons we got in the position we were in before the start of our weight loss journeys. We don't ever want to go back there! (Well, I'm still kinda there, but you know what I mean!) I'm glad you are back on track now though.

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PENNYAN45 11/4/2010 8:22PM

    Sugar can do the same to me - and did earlier this week.

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REJ7777 11/4/2010 3:10PM

    It's great that you were able to avoid a bigger binge by not having those other addictive foods in the house. You had already won the battle at the grocery store. Sugar and fat are addictive. If I have pastries or chips, etc. in the house, I'll eat them! And I will NOT be reasonable about it! I HAVE to keep that junk out of the house. Then if I absolutely must have some, I have to go out and buy it. That alone has enabled me to avert many a binge!

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WALKINGANNIE 11/4/2010 2:20PM

    We all have to take this a day at a time Barb and many people recognise where you have just been - and you have analysed why you went there. We're all learning with you and from you.

Couldn't agree more on the wisdom of not having food in the house. It's one of the things that work for me.

The main thing is that you acknowledge the blip and move on. When I go over calories I try to remember that I would need to eat 3,500 calories more than I use to gain a pound. Not even your 4.5 servings would add up to that.

Take care of yourself as you prepare for your run. That will burn off some calories and perhaps you can release some of the pent up emotion as you run your course.

Take care my friend.

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KALIGIRL 11/4/2010 1:10PM

    Glad you're on day 1 of forward steps after your Halloween tricks.
Autumn is a time of change and it's often difficult to stay grounded, particularly with new life changes.
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CONCHA77 11/4/2010 12:47PM

    Hi Barb,
Hope your back on track today-We all have those times....
Treat yourself to a nice walk today, you are worth it.

Hugs.

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ANDI571 11/4/2010 10:58AM

    I did so well while we were gone on eating sugar, then on the trip home, I started. And it's like once you get the taste, that's all you think about. Today is a new day, and like you said, "Take care of me! Don't beat up on me! I am worth it!"

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BUGGYS 11/4/2010 10:18AM

    Sugar is always one of those demons I have to deal with also...I know that I cannot have just one piece becasue it just leads to a binge or just forgetting this healthy journey. Just pick yourself up, brush yourself off and begin again...don't ever beat yourself up because you have come so far to fall back to old habits! emoticon

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SUNNY332 11/4/2010 8:49AM

    I have a hard time putting on the breaks on sugar too. Once I start, I am into it for a while. I have learned that I can not "flirt" with sweets as it always gets me into a relationship that is hard to get out of.

Good job to make today Day 1 of binge recovery. You are so right - worth the effort.

Take care and have a good day. I know your friends will miss you. That is the sad part of not being able to be there with them.

You still, in my humble opinion, made a wise choice.

Hugs, Sunny

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SHAWFAN 11/4/2010 8:37AM

    You are worth it! We all have to remind ourselves of this. You CAN get back on track to healthy maintenance and not feel guilty any more about the set back. It's over and done with and today is a new day! emoticon emoticon

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KASEYCOFF 11/4/2010 8:31AM

    I agree with you about 'sugar is a drug' - and having any really sets up the addiction-style cravings, at least, it does with me. No such thing as 'just a little' - for an ex-smoker or an alcoholic, no such thing as 'just one.' And as for the 3 AM kitchen raid... goes to show no road is entirely smooth, ain't? emoticon

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MSLZZY 11/4/2010 8:30AM

    So much wisdom and honesty in your blog! Put it behind you and focus on getting back on track. emoticon emoticon emoticon

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