Saturday, December 18, 2010
I love mornings. Each day dawns with new possibilities. I'm not just talking about weight and health and exercise here... I'm talking about life. Work, home, loved ones, weather, play, surprises, routine... the whole ball of wax.
I was reading a few Spark blogs this morning, as I do at the beginning of almost every day now. One of them that I happened across shared a visit to a second-grade class, and marveled over the hope and joy the children had.
What a great attitude to cultivate. If each day I start with the hope of a little child... and keep a child's positive outlook as the day progresses... what a great life to live!
OK, I'm probably idealizing the child's point of view here... I'm clearly thinking of a beloved child, who has parent(s) that care for his/her needs. As a grown-up, I have the privilege of being both the cared for child, and the caring parent. Even if my own parents weren't perfect, I have the chance to make better nurturing decisions now. I can build that attitude of caring / being cared for, right within my own life, one decision at a time.
As child, when faced with a decision, I can be pretty willful about what I think I want. What would a LOVING parent do for the child in this situation? First, a love parent would KNOW the child. Knowing the child, would the parent put the child down for a nap? Feed the child? Encourage the child to go outside and play? Distract the child? Hug the child?
Today, I resolve to nurture that little child. And, as that little child, I resolve to trust the wisdom of my loving Parent.
May your day be full of hope, joy, and love.