Speaking of 'cheating', there's this great site I go to for recipes.. they're delicious and skinny style, so you feel like you're cheating but you're not. :) www.skinnykitchen.com. It's free and you don't have to sign up, but I signed up so I could save recipes for the future. I tried their 3 ingredient ranch which is DELICIOUS. Tastes like full fat ranch and only has lowfat buttermilk, light mayo, and 1 oz Hidden Valley Seasoning and Salad Dressing Mix. It is SO good. Check it out, I love the site and you can find tasty skinny versions of everything. None of it tastes like diet food. :)
I follow the 80/20 rule. 80% of the time, I am on track. 20% of the time, I indulge. Absolutely giving any thing up, just sets me up for the binge. I am only three weeks in...but this strategy has helped me.
I generally have cheat meals instead of cheat days. My motto for those meals is "Anything I want, not everything I want." In those meals I don't consider the nutritional or calorie content of the food like I do for other meals, but I also don't use it as an excuse to eat everything I've been craving for the past week.
"In this example, your daily calorie intake is about 1,200-1,500 calories"
This right here seems like it might be part of the problem. If you're starting at a weight where eating truly between 1800 calories - 2000 calories/day (like, you're sure you're not actually eating more like 2500 calories or something, or drinking extra calories in there) will sustain you without weight loss, maybe cutting enough calories to lose a whole pound a week is a bit aggressive?
Also, from the calculator that you linked: "When calories drop too low (usually below 1,200 calories for women and 1,500 calories for men), your body's protection mechanism switches on. In order to conserve energy, the body lowers your metabolism and you will not burn calories as quickly. This results in a slower weight loss rate, or sometimes prohibits any weight loss from occurring."
If I were eating 1200 calories/day, I'd be desperate for a cheat day, too. As it is, I only have a "cheat" day twice per month or so. Since, per the calculator, even at 2500 calories I would be losing a pound per week, and I generally eat way less than that in a day, a cheat day doesn't really throw me off my game. It's a nice mental reset and I probably don't even end up going over my "maintenance" calories. I often go back and track those days a couple of days later just to see where I landed, and thanks to having now trained my body how much to eat in a day, it isn't that far off--and sometimes I still come in under my goals anyway.
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You are right. Always counting calories is a pain in the butt. However, being sick, overweight, having nothing attractive to wear, no energy, no self respect and not fitting into theatre seats or airline seats is a far worse pain in the butt. I want to be able to live my life and when I accepted the fact that investing the time to keep track for the rest of my life was a good trade off for having a life, it became less of a drag.
And Spark People makes it so easy to keep track because I always have my smart phone and can take a few minutes after every meal to log everything in. Even on vacation, I can and do keep track. After awhile it isn't so hard.
I eat a Paleo diet, and some folks believe that Paleo doesn't require calorie counting or exercise. However, I have found that unrestricted eating with no exercise simply will put on the pounds, no matter how you confine your foods to a certain protocol. After struggling with my weight for years on a Paleo lifestyle, it dawned on me one day that our ancestors had to WORK FOR EVERY BITE OF FOOD THEY WERE LUCKY ENOUGH TO PUT INTO THEIR MOUTHS. And they often had to do without when food supplies were scarce. We have the opposite problem - an overabundance of food. In this day and time, we have to work hard at restricting it to only what we need to stay alive and be healthy, and we have to commit to moderate exercise to duplicate the work our forebears had to do to get their daily bread.
I do not severely restrict my calorie intake (my weight loss plan is slow, moderate and tolerable), but I do set limits and stick to them. And, yes, there are days that I choose to indulge in a treat and eat more - it is a relaxing and stress relieving thing to do. I don't call them "cheat days", but prefer to think of them a "scheduled relax times". Planning for and tracking the indulgences helps me stay within bounds, while still enjoying the benefits of freedom from a completely anal existence.
These days my blood pressure is starting to be within the normal range; blood sugar is coming down to normal; energy level is up; knee pain is abated; looking better in my clothes - eve buying new clothes! I will take that inconvenience any day of the week over the obesity that was killing me before.
Thanks for a great and encouraging article. It is exactly what I thought and I love your idea of the Calorie Bank. This is exactly the kind of thing I have been thinking of in my quest for balance in my diet - a way to indulge without cheating. I am incorporating this concept into my lifestyle immediately. It makes sense, doesn't it? :-D
I do not believe in cheating. Instead I calorie cycle. I save high calorie days for Sunday brunch, dinners with my husband, celebrations and holidays. After over 50 years on the planet, I have finally learned I can celebrate special events and no longer feel guilty as long as I IMMEDIATELY get back on track. On my low calorie days, I avoid carbohydrates as much as humanly possible. It works for me.
Using the word "cheat" really IS a horrible thing. I don't cheat. I indulge in moderation. Basically that just means that if I decide to have a soda today then I won't have another for at least another 3 days. It also means that I have just 1. No refills. No seconds. I only buy 1 can or bottle and that's it. Then, the next day, I work extra hard during my work out to help with the calories if it put me over my daily budget.
I really don't like cheat day but I have been monitoring everything. My biggest issue is that I work out way more than I did in the past and I keep my calories at least 500 below where I am to be. I have had slow down week and this is frustrating however I am still getting compliments on my weight loss. I like to call it my reward day. My husband go out every Friday night before HS football game that is my reward for living my new lifestyle change. So try reward day. Seems to be working for me. FINGERS CROSSED FOR CONTINUED PROGRESS 53 LBS
I dont know about this article. Of course spark gives you a range of 1,200-1,550 but not only do I do 5 miles a day in steps (10,000 plus ) I also exercise which subtracts from that count So I honestly dont think if I use scenario 2 on one day that Im gonna derail anything
I have always said that its better to eat smaller amounts of the 'bad' foods then to totally restircit yourself and binge out making yourself feel sick and horrible for overeating the 'naughty' foods. If i feel the need for chocolate I get a small bar and enjoy it!
Great article.... I admit, I don't usually love food and when I was young, they used to give me shots to try to make me eat. I just didn't want to. Now, I usually eat the same thing every day and it makes my calorie counting easier.
I think I am more lazy than anything else. Starting in high school, if someone put a pizza in front of me, I would eat a large pie in one sitting. My laziness was really my Achilles Heel. Now, I have my "cheat" meal since my family likes pizza once a week and I plan for it in my other meals. I also try to drink a big zero cal/caffeine free drink first so that I don't get too far out of control. One day, I'll plan it better and get a salad made in advance to keep me in check.
Daily calorie counting is LESS a pain in the butt if 1) you eat mostly whole foods, rather than packaged (fruits, veggies, etc.), 2) you use the Nutrition Tracker (being Pescatarian, I enter my own food or meals ONCE & it's much easier) & 3) prepare SP recipes, which have all the nutrients calculated for you.
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