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Taking Care of Yourself When You Become the Caregiver

Finding Health and Balance When Caring for Others

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  • As caregiver to my mother and my son who has Autism, it's easier said than done. - 4/26/2014 9:52:32 AM
  • I am not a caregiver but I do know that you have to take time for yourself. If not you will wear your on body down. Good article. - 11/10/2013 7:43:06 PM
  • This article has some excellent points, I recently became my mother's caregiver. The hardest thing really is keeping up on an exercise program; I can't leave her to take a run or even go into the basement to work out (she is on hospice care). I've been doing yoga a couple times a day, but I think I'm going to have to start strongly requesting regular help from my cousins and her siblings. I do appreciate the reminder that I need to take care of me too. - 9/13/2013 1:20:26 PM
  • I am taking care of my husband & I have no time for myself.
    Great article. - 6/28/2013 11:16:35 PM
  • Thank you for this excellent article and reminder for us caregivers (or, in my case, former caregivers)...and, anyone who is a caregiver would be welcome to join us on the caregiver support team!!! - 6/26/2013 12:20:46 AM
  • I took care of my parents for about 8 years between the two of them. It was hard and sometimes I resented the time I lost attending to my own life for taking care of them. I lost my job during that time. My children finished growing up with a part, part-time mom (I worked full time too.) My marriage suffered.

    But, we made it and I now have no regrets for the time I spent with them--it was the last years I would ever be with them again. Although it was difficult, we made it through intact and I have a wonderful family with responsible adult children, and my marriage survived despite the difficulties.

    I utilized home health, family, church family, friends and neighbors to help in their care. It still took it's toll, but with a proper balance of help, support, and realistic choices -- it can be done.

    Good article! - 6/25/2013 11:00:39 PM
  • This article strikes such a chord! Thanks for the reminder to look after myself first. - 6/25/2013 2:45:55 PM
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    I need this article now more than ever. My mom has been diagnosed with dementia, specifically Alzheimer's. She's in the early stages and we're trying to get the long term outlook taken care of. I'm thankful for my family and support, but since I live with my mom and it's just the two of us, it isn't easy. - 6/25/2013 5:35:51 AM
  • I saved my dad twice from respiratory failure I'm his medical proxy, my brothers made things more difficult and my dad is very stubborn. The stress put on me was tremendous after him screaming at me in front of a visiting nurse and making a fool out of me for the last time after me trying to get in help for him ( I have fibro and it was taking it's toll on my own health) I had to just walk away. I love my dad but he's very difficult and was literally making me sick.
    I realized that I can't feel guilty I went above and beyond what any of my siblings would of ever done with no appreciation.
    The nurses and doctors told me that I shouldn't put up with his demanding ways in my condition when he didn't even appreciate it and that I should walk away before I ended up in the ground before him.
    It's a very dysfunctional family, now that he's all better for now he doesn't even know me that's the thanks I got for all my sacrifices.... - 6/5/2013 12:27:48 AM

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