Jennifer you are a gret role model for young and old. Thanks for that!!
2/26/2015 12:11:36 PM
1/8/2015 1:38:30 AM
You are a beautiful woman Jennifer! So courageous! I have been every size imaginable. From very thin in my teens, on the verge of having an eating disorder, to now needing to lose a lot of weight. And, while I know my weight isn't healthy, I sure don't need someone that doesn't even know me to bully me about something that has already caused me more pain than anything in my life ever has. From the bottom of my heart thank you!!
11/6/2014 9:19:18 AM
10/27/2014 2:33:36 PM
She is so beautiful, this really motivated me, and I was very emotional while watching this. She is so positive, proud and positively moving.
I think she is an inspiration to all children, especially girls, as this shows you can be overweight & still have a great job! That being overweight isn't the worse thing that can happen. A person can be happy & fulfilled regardless of how people want to label you.
Commenting on a person's appearance is just a way for a person to feel morally superior to another. Fat is considered a moral failure. She's right. Fat people know they are fat. They know it is not the healthiest state to be in, but it is their body and no one knows what is behind that fat. Fat shamers should redirect their emotional energy to solving issues of poverty and violence, not the size of their neighbour's rear end.
9/9/2014 8:34:40 AM
Thank God for this lovely Lady's editorial! It is NOT the body but the soul of the person that makes them who they are. I was a skinny kid in the 50's when rounder ladies were considered sexy (a.k.a. Marilyn Monroe, Jane Mansfield, etc.) Just when puberty started to bulk me up...along comes TWIGGY! It is ALL about fads and fashions, and all that is SUPERFICIAL. People need depth and personality. My mother's family was from New Orleans and I grew up surrounded by strong, PLUMP, happy, Food-loving women. They were wonderful, and they knew how to LOVE. I am a cancer survivor without a thyroid and I can tell you "plumpness" is part of my life now, but I am still ME! ALIVE!
8/28/2014 2:22:26 PM
The sad thing is, bullies are just people with painfully low self-esteem. My dad always said, "Hurt people hurt people." It's hard to feel compassion for someone who causes you pain, but that is the highest order of "loving your enemies". When I see children who are bullies, I know where it must come from. It hurts me to see suffering perpetuated in such an oblivious and ignorant manner on to the smallest and most impressionable. The man who wrote this should be more concerned about the example he is setting, rather than Jennifer's appearance.
I wonder if this man, who wrote to Jennifer, also wrote to the anorexic movie stars and models that today's young girls and women try to emulate? Yes, obesity is a problem... so are eating disorders. We should encourage our family and friends to strive for a healthy weight and a strong, healthy body... not bully them. And we should NOT set ourselves up as the experts and judges of complete strangers. We know nothing about their lives, and unless they invite us in, we should not comment.
bulling has become epidemic of our everyday lives and it is time to stop it. I am glad this lady stood her ground. We don't show kindness to people anymore it is I am it and you are the dirt I walk on ever day.
Certainly there is a difference between bullying and constructive criticism, and it depends on the degree on the relationship and the motivation behind the comment. In this case, a stranger who has only seen her on TV a few times in several years is not in any position to give constructive criticism and usurping the role reserved for intimates is an unwarranted violation of her personal boundaries. If the concern came from her doctor with kindness and professionalism, when discussing blood sugar levels or high blood pressure, that would be constructive criticism. If she were talking with her husband or best friend and asked for their opinion and they kindly expressed concern for her health out of personal knowledge and love, that would be constructive criticism. Some stranger passing judgment and acting holier-than-thou while making the dubious excuse that he is only doing it for some mythical children whom he doesn't know either, that is not constructive criticism, that is bullying. As Ann Lander used to say, he needs to MYOB.
Exerlent talk, lecture or whatever. Your words are so very wise and needed. I wonder who appointed him judge. I thought that was Gods job or your HIGHER POWER job. I'm almost sure your HIGHER POWER has more important things to do right now like world peace, bullying, helping the poor child that has little self confidence and is being bullied. keep up your good words that help others.
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