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Just had my surgery(gadtric bypass) this past Tuesday at Stanford in California with Dr.Rivas, the team at the hospital stay was awesome, I jjust registered here because I am in need of support eventhough my hubby and family support me is not the same when you speak to people that have being on my same situation, any comments and words are welcome..thanks.
When. I'm. Stressed I tend to feel overwhelmed and helpless. However when I. Take time to think how I'm not alone. I am love. I'm here for a reason. To complete a purpose. I know that eventually my feelings will pass. Somehow the truth helps me stay grounded in temporary situations.
There's a lot of advice on here, most pretty good, but the most important is to find what works for YOU in keeping on the wagon. I'm a perpetual night owl, that's just how I am. So working out in the morning, which is often recommended, just never worked for me and I would get discouraged and pretty much every day started out bad and spiraled down from there. When I finally just accepted that my best workout time is 2am - then I finally got on a regular schedule of working out AND eating better.
My secret to success is in my routine.
Bad habits were creeping back...Grazing, adding on, snacking at night etc. I needed a change and something simple to replace my complicated food tracking.
We can feel we've 'lost motivation' when the real issue is that we don't like what we are doing to reach a goal.