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If your not happy it is not all about the weight, get to know yourself while losing weight. Think about how you got here and what you want to change. You will realise that when you think about it weight is not the only thing that you want to change. Try to concur your fears and you will feel like you can do anything, which includes losing weight!
No need to be sad because you don't have a Valentine...use 25 Spark Goody Points and send yourself one..any day of the year! Then, to experience greater happiness....send a valentine to someone you don't know...just because!
Once upon a time, I would speak harshly to myself. When looking in the mirror or when making a not so wise food choice. Now, I don't judge my looks, and if I happen to goof by say, eating a donut treat someone brought to the office, I simply do better by working out or eating a few extra fresh veggies at the next meal. It has helped me become a more relaxed individual, and I can enjoy and live more in the moment.
Plan Ahead . When at work of out and about, when hunger strikes so does temptation. I pack my take along bag with healthy eats and plenty of bottled water that are easy to grab when on the go. This helps me to steer clear of drive-thru.
When I set up my Goal Board, one of the little banners that pops up is "I want to reduce the stress in my life." It is a daily reminder that in addition to taking care of my fitness and eating habits, I also need to have plans that help me deal with emotional and mental stress. It makes me feel more in control and empowered to change negative situations that arise. I am a much more calm and happy person with that simple reminder every day.