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When people around me start to emphasize the negative, especially about things they can do nothing about, I'll stop the cycle by saying "I'll put that on my list of things to worry about." It helps put whatever it is into perspective, and lets me focus on whatever is more important to me.
If your not happy it is not all about the weight, get to know yourself while losing weight. Think about how you got here and what you want to change. You will realise that when you think about it weight is not the only thing that you want to change. Try to concur your fears and you will feel like you can do anything, which includes losing weight!
No need to be sad because you don't have a Valentine...use 25 Spark Goody Points and send yourself one..any day of the year! Then, to experience greater happiness....send a valentine to someone you don't know...just because!
Once upon a time, I would speak harshly to myself. When looking in the mirror or when making a not so wise food choice. Now, I don't judge my looks, and if I happen to goof by say, eating a donut treat someone brought to the office, I simply do better by working out or eating a few extra fresh veggies at the next meal. It has helped me become a more relaxed individual, and I can enjoy and live more in the moment.