If I get off track, I do not berate myself. As soon as I can, I get back on track. Broken ankle - gained weight, choice is to give up - NO! Start again. Losing family members to cancer...do not give in....keep going....give myself as much grace as I would give a friend ..start again. I am not a quitter
I am not a failure when I fall down. If I get up and get going, I am resilient against circumstances. And yes, I am a winner!