Who’s in control of your life – you or the things that you want? We can get so caught up in what we have and what we’re doing that we feel obligated to things that don’t really matter. To find real meaning, look at what will be here long after you’re gone. You can leave something behind. You have a purpose to fill that will carry on after your minutes have run out. To find out what that might be, ask yourself “what do I want to be remembered for?” In the end, what you leave for others and what your life represents is all that counts. What you grasp for and hold onto doesn’t. After all, you can’t count what’s hidden inside your closed fist.